Zhang Ailing once bluntly said:
Love tries to fill the void in life, but often creates more voids with its own hands.
These words are like a sharp scalpel, piercing the hidden pain in the hearts of many people.
Have you ever had a similar experience?
When they are in love, the two are like a raging flame, no matter how crazy the move is, they can come easily, but once they break through that layer of intimacy, the relationship seems to fade instantly, and all kinds of contradictions come like a tide, and finally can only end in loss and regret.
Once an intimate relationship between the opposite sex is established, if you can follow the following three golden rules, you may be able to counterattack in the face of adversity and reap a happy emotional ending.
My friend Xiaoya fell into a seemingly beautiful relationship during her college days.
They are no different from other couples, walking hand in hand on campus, hugging each other under the moon, sharing food, and swimming in the mountains and rivers.
Xiaoya always had a pimple in her heart, that is, her boyfriend never introduced her to his circle of friends.
Whenever she asked about it, she always got excuses such as being afraid that her parents would be stressed if they found out.
After graduation, the two found stable jobs, and Xiaoya was looking forward to entering the marriage hall, but she didn't expect to usher in the bad news of a breakup.
Why?
It turned out that the man's family had already found a good beauty for him, and Xiaoya was just a temporary playmate when he was studying in a different place.
Look at this kind of man, it's good to kick early!
Let's talk about those scumbags, the most disgusting of them is the kind of guy who just wants to sleep with you, but is unwilling to give his true feelings.
Before lingering with you, sweet words bombarded like sugar-coated cannonballs, but afterwards it was judged that it was two people, and they were extremely indifferent to you.
Don't hesitate to withdraw quickly when you encounter this kind of goods!
Su Jin in the TV series "Fatal Relationship", when she noticed the signs of her husband Zhou's derailment, she did not choose to cry and beg, but calmly collected evidence, personally confronted Xiao San, and finally resolutely filed for divorce.
This series of actions can be called a "model counterattack" after being betrayed.
Wake up, girls!
For those who are about to leave, wave goodbye generously;
For those who don't have you in their hearts, don't dwell on them.
Take a look at fashion blogger Lin Yue, whose career is thriving after getting rid of a domestic violence man;
Look at Chen Fei again, Xu Feng, who has been in love for eight years, finally found a good relationship and has both children and daughters.
Say goodbye to the wrong person, it is a phoenix, Nirvana is an escape from death!
Modern society is open-minded, and adults have the right to decide their own behavior.
But how can the things of life be child's play?
Before confirming that the other person is willing to take responsibility for your life, it is important to take safety measures and not be foolish enough to get pregnant unexpectedly.
Look at those unmarried and pregnant girls on the Internet, how many of them are doing well?
I once heard of a man who gave birth to a son at the age of 20, without a marriage certificate and no romantic wedding photos, and only held a wedding hastily.
A few years later, she and her husband parted ways due to disagreement in values, and it was even more difficult to raise their children on their own.
Every silent night, she would always imagine how many possibilities her life would have been if she hadn't been pregnant.
Reality is unforgiving, and she can only bear it all in silence.
Women are often the victims of unmarried pregnancies.
Sisters, we must learn to protect ourselves, this is a gamble we cannot afford to lose.
When you love, you are fully engaged, and when you don't love, you turn around in style.
Life is short, we must live freely and freely, and take happiness firmly in our own hands.
With these tips in mind, may you meet the person who is willing to ride through the storm with you and sail to the other side of happiness together.
Even if he is not a luxury yacht, just a light boat, as long as he is sincere, he can lead you to your own peaceful haven.