Recently, an older man who has not given birth sighed, he said: Although he likes children very much, and often fantasizes about being able to have both children, but in Shanghai, he can't even afford to raise one on his own terms, and there is no problem with the most basic food, drink and Lazar, the most important thing is that the cost of education is too high, and he can't afford it at all!
The man said: If the child cannot receive a fair and high-quality education because of his material conditions, he will feel very guilty, and he does not want to give birth to a leek...... The man's words are really emotional!
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In fact, his idea is not an isolated phenomenon, modern young people are very self-conscious, assertive, thoughtful, think that they are living a difficult life, children are likely to repeat their own life in the future, they can neither provide children with a good material life, nor provide good educational resources, so many people choose not to give birth......
Let's take a look at what netizens have to say about this matter
If there are no good conditions, it is not terrible, we must give enough love and guidance, at least let the child have light in his heart!
Most of us are ordinary people, and if we don't study, we may not even be able to reach ordinary people.
It's better not to talk to them about this, because the older generation doesn't understand it at all.
In fact, if it is not the pressure of parenting, many people still have children, which is the root cause of low fertility.
Now that young people are becoming more and more conscious, this is also a kind of progress!
can accept their own powerlessness, but they can't let their children also experience powerlessness, so the sense of responsibility of adults is not to have children indiscriminately.
What is acceptable for these jobs is the current working environment for these jobs, with basically zero welfare guarantees and 10-12 hours of working hours per day.
Sometimes not giving birth is also a kind of happiness, and it is not easy for people to come to the world once, why do you live so tired......
A lot of people think so, and then people will say that you think too much, and they will say that you are too pessimistic!
What is a sense of responsibility, and what is a sense of responsibility?
You can't know if he's willing to do it or not, so don't think so much, follow your own ideas, want what you want, don't want if you don't.
I thought you were here to give people hope, but it turned out that you were here to mend the knife.
Most of the older generation raise babies for themselves, although it is difficult to accept, but it is a fact!
Although a child does not understand anything, if others have everything, but he has nothing, he will also have low self-esteem.
A dog is also a life, and you are the one who is truly responsible.