Recently, a conversation between Zhang Dongliang and Zheng Hehuizi has also aroused the discussion and attention of netizens. In the conversation, Zhang Dongliang also talked about his views on having children.
Zheng Hehuizi asked Zhang Dongliang: "Will there be any stage when you are particularly anxious to fall in love or get married?"
Zhang Dongliang said: In my early thirties, I had more energy to take care of children at that time, and I liked children very much, but now it has passed!
Moreover, Zhang Dongliang himself has brothers and sisters, and there are more and more children in his sister and sister's family. Slowly, he felt that these children were actually his own children, and he loved them very much.
Because I have been watching my sister's children grow up to study, it is really no different from my own children, so I feel that it is not necessary to have my own children.
On the contrary, when I was alone, I thought it was pretty good, I could do whatever I wanted, I wanted to play with my children, and I had it at home anyway.
I feel that Zhang Dongliang really knows what he wants, and people will have something they want at a certain stage, but once they pass that stage, it doesn't matter if they have it or not.
As netizens said, he is a winner in life, and he has no pressure to tutor homework, and he doesn't expect others to support the elderly, anyway, if he has money, he will live in a nursing home. Even if you have your own children, you may not be able to count on them to support your old age.
In fact, having children and not having children are both personal choices and deserve to be respected. Different life trajectories will have different endings, and any one of them may have regrets!