In the relationship between husband and wife, the most important element affecting the relationship is housework, that is, the education of children. In the traditional family, these tasks are taken care of by the mother, and this responsibility is also considered to be taken for granted, when the father sees some behavior that does not meet his own wishes in the process, and sees the family in chaos, he will complain from time to time, and will speak ill of each other, and will feel that his wife can not do such a small thing well, and the mother must be very incompetent.
But is this really the case? In our reality, there have been some changes, such a way of life as a "stay-at-home father", such a profession has appeared, and compared with a stay-at-home mother, the voice of a stay-at-home father may have a more comprehensive and in-depth understanding of the whole society and the family.
Mao Li, a well-known writer and self-media person, and when she had her own children, she agreed with her husband that whoever has achieved success in her workplace will take on the responsibility of supporting the family, while the other party will retreat into the background and take on the responsibility of educating the children.
The writer Maori embarked on the road of his own success because he sold the copyright, and of course, when her husband Xiao Chen performed his duties, a "full-time father" officially took up his post and started a life that was different from the parenting concept of a full-time mother, but it was also chaotic.
Maori has documented this state of life in detail as a writer, and has a book called "Stay-at-home Dad", which allows us to really enter the daily life of a stay-at-home father, understand the family atmosphere presented in such a state of life, reflect on parenting, and understand why there is so much chaos in the family.
From this book, we can read many of the most realistic scenes of couples getting along in reality. In fact, whether the mother is responsible for taking care of the family, or the father is responsible for taking care of the family, those trivial things in the family will inevitably happen. For example, regarding the education of children, how to educate a child in a state of ignorance is a problem that parents must face.
In fact, in this book, we can also see that fathers are also unable to be alone, and no matter how good-tempered people are, they will fall into madness when faced with the stupid state of their children.
Is it true that stay-at-home dads will have some benefit to a child's development? The answer is yes. Because in the process of mother's upbringing, maternal love is often overflowing, and the child's requirements are often indulged unprincipledly, which will make the child become the "little bully" in the family and cannot really grow up.
But the father may be more "ruthless" and more persistent in principles, so in this book, we also see that in the process of raising a full-time father, the child gradually transforms from a little bully at home to a little "man" who can complete various daily affairs by himself.
The important content of this book also includes how to pave the way for children's "kindergarten to elementary school", and in the context of an extremely involuted education like Shanghai, sending children to a primary school of their choice has become a task that parents must carefully plan.
We can also see stay-at-home fathers accompanying their children to various tutoring classes, accompanying their children to interview for various schools, and also showing us a vivid and vivid life scene.
Family affairs are an extremely cumbersome process, and in this book, the stay-at-home father presents us with such a state of life, which also allows us to reflect on the true meaning of life at close range, allowing us to look at the dialectical relationship between family and career from the perspective of male and female role reversal, and providing us with a unique story that enters the underlying logic of the family and provides insight into the truth of the family. #全职爸爸##真实故事##文学#