Psychological Analysis of Extramarital Affair: Why Do Men Love Mistress But Not Divorce?
Why do many men say that they love the mistress, but they are unwilling to divorce the mistress?
will even force him to divorce because of Xiao San, and he will turn against Xiao San.
Is the cheating man just hypocritical to the mistress, or is there another reason?
Among the extramarital affair cases that Su Yue has been exposed to, this kind of cheating man is definitely the majority,
said that he loved Xiao San, and he didn't really want to break up with Xiao San when he was discovered.
But the mistress forced the cheating man to divorce, and the cheating man would still rebel against the mistress.
What is the psychology of this kind of cheating man? The wives can actually get the answer from a normal point of view.
Why do men love mistresses very much but don't divorce? There are two reasons for this.
On the one hand, cheating men are very realistic.
He may indeed love Xiao San very much, but he also knows that love and love cannot be put first.
His ultimate goal is that the red flag at home will not fall, and the colorful flags will flutter outside.
Instead of divorcing the original partner, and then only living with the mistress.
This situation is no different from before he cheated.
A man's cheating is to be able to have a stable marriage and an interesting extramarital affair.
became interested in the mistress, and only when there was a little emotion would he derail.
Looking for a junior must be looking for what you like, so you will find it interesting,
But to make the point, the cheating man is only looking for a mistress, not a marriage partner, not a substitute for his wife.
So many cheating men have decided at the beginning that they will not divorce for the sake of the mistress.
Why don't cheating men divorce for the sake of mistresses, or do so many mistresses follow cheating men?
Some juniors know this, but they are very confident in themselves.
feels that although the cheating man plans to do so, Xiao San can rely on means to change the cheating man's mind.
There are also juniors who don't care, and they are not juniors who want to be on top.
As long as the cheating man gives a lot of benefits, or gives the mistress the care he wants, the mistress doesn't have to get married.
More mistresses were deceived by the cheating man's performance, and they felt that the cheating man really loved her,
If a cheating man wants to enjoy the love in an extramarital affair, he naturally has to show that he loves the mistress very much and loves the mistress.
Xiao San felt that the cheating man loved her, so he would divorce her for her, and he didn't see the cheating man clearly.
Cheating men are very realistic, mistresses can be unrealistic, wives must see through these and become realistic.
What exactly is your need for marriage, and is it worth it for you to continue this cheating marriage.
If it's not worth it, it's better to divorce and stop the loss early, because the cheating man is inherently problematic.
They cheated because of greed, not marriage problems, and not the inducement of the mistress.
The essence of the problem is difficult to change, marriage is not an absolute interest, there is no need to compromise.
On the other hand, cheating men attach great importance to face.
Many cheating men are good men in everyone's eyes.
Cheating men like to create this kind of character, they may not be good enough for their wives, and they are not really good men at home.
But as soon as you go out and meet outsiders, you start to perform as a good husband.
He is kind to his wife outside, and he is also very kind to strangers, trying his best to help.
Accept praise from all and like to be praised,
And cheating may ruin the character of the cheating man, and the praise he gets,
Becoming a spurned person, the cheating man can't accept it, and he won't divorce easily.
So many cheating men, after they cheat, they will maintain their personalities,
Acting guilty towards his wife, he will also compensate for it, in order to keep his wife from making trouble.
will even promise that he will never divorce and marry a mistress, and sooner or later he will break up with a mistress.
is to stabilize the original wife and not let him lose face.
Wives should see the true face of the cheating man and know why he doesn't get a divorce.
also knows why he refuses to break up with Xiao San, and he will still coax his wife to be good to his wife.
You see the cheating man clearly, don't have expectations, and then make a choice.
Many original partners feel that if a man doesn't divorce for the sake of the mistress, he just doesn't love the mistress enough.
This is a reality, but there is also a reality that
The cheating man does not love the mistress, and it does not mean that the cheating man loves the original partner.
The cheating man loves himself the most, and maybe his face is more important than his wife's pain.
So the original wife understands the reason and has to give up unrealistic expectations.
Make a decision that you feel right and won't regret it.
Why do men love mistresses but don't get divorced?
Because he wouldn't want all this that he had painstakingly managed for many years to go down the drain for a woman outside of marriage.
It may be true that they love the little three, but they care more about the interests of the elderly.
If there is no threat of interests, the junior does not seek to be on top, and the original partner does not make a divorce.
A cheating man loves the mistress, and he can do a lot of things for the mistress on the basis of not divorcing.
Once the mistress and marriage must choose one or the other, the cheating man weighs the pros and cons, and the one who loses is the junior.
But wives need to pay attention to one thing, what the mistress loses to interests, not you.
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