Text / Picture Du Xianfu
20 years ago, two men and a woman studied in the same class, and there was a delicate relationship, but now because of changes in status and economic situation, the pursuit of old dreams and the defense of marriage are a bloody contest -
Frustration is beginning to open, and people are poor and have regrets
More than 20 years ago, they were called "flowers" and studied in Wuhuang Junior High School in Ziyang City, Sichuan Province, when Long Yudong was 14 years old, Yi Xuexin and Lan Yuefeng were the same age, and they were both two months apart before they reached the age of 15. They are all bud-like ages, and this age is the time when love is beginning to bloom and the heart is full of fantasies. Yi Xuexin, Long Yudong, and Lan Yuefeng each have their own fantasies, and they are each dreaming of a better future.
It was the day of the second year of junior high school, and Yi Xuexin, who could draw, carefully painted a painting of flowers and birds, and the two birds on the painting seemed to be whispering to each other. Yi Xuexin annotated next to the painting, "This is my heart, please give me a reply." Then he quietly put the sketch into Lan Yuefeng's desk, observed Lan Yuefeng's movements and waited for a response.
When Lan Yuefeng found the painting, she immediately understood that it was given by Yi Xuexin. Because Yi Xuexin was famous for painting in school, Yi Xuexin's painting was sent to Neijiang (at that time, Ziyang was still under the jurisdiction of the original Neijiang District) area to participate in the competition, and won the second prize in the youth group. Lan Yuefeng, who is 16 years old this year, naturally understands Yi Xuexin's attentiveness, but she did not react immediately. She pretended not to do that and ignored it.
After many days, Yi Xuexin, who was in love and had a burning desire, saw that Lan Yuefeng did not react, so he came up with a way to "communicate". He used it for a Sunday, and did not hesitate to spend two yuan back and forth (in those days, Wu Huang went to Ziyang for a one-way ticket of one yuan) to take the bus to Ziyang City and send a letter to Lan Yuefeng. The reason why he wanted to send letters to Ziyang was because he was afraid that the school would find out if he sent letters in Wuhuang. The letter said that the moon phoenix is like a heavenly immortal, and it will always stay in his heart. He wanted to talk to her face to face somewhere someday.
The letter was sent, and many days later, Lan Yuefeng still didn't move, Yi Xuexin, who was in love and difficult to control, simply went straight to the point, and found an opportunity to quietly ask Lan Yuefeng: Did you receive the letter I wrote to you? Lan Yuefeng blurted out a sentence of "hate", and then walked away.
Yi Xuexin was bored and felt uncomfortable for a few days. Later, he thought that he was a famous "little painter" in the school, and he wrote blackboard newspapers in his grade, and that issue could not be separated from him. His paintings have won prizes in regional competitions, and he will become a famous painter. He likes you Lan Yuefeng, just like "a talented man loves a beautiful woman", ancient celebrities are like this, I Yi Xuexin likes your Lan Yuefeng's beauty, why don't you love my versatility. Of course, "good things are grinding", he was determined to show Lan Yuefeng his heart, and he couldn't stop easily.
So, he found another opportunity (the school prohibits boys and girls from falling in love, even if there are some out-of-the-ordinary exchanges, it is not allowed, so Yi Xuexin can only find an opportunity to carry out underground activities), and bluntly said to Lan Yuefeng, "Yuefeng, I want to fly with you, please don't refuse me." Lan Yuefeng said: "Impossible." "What's impossible! I hope you think deeply and answer me after thinking about it!" Yi Xuexin held the belief that he would seek to the end.
After three days, Lan Yuefeng secretly stuffed a letter to Yi Xuexin, at first Yi Xuexin was quite excited, thinking that Lan Yuefeng's heart had been moved, but when he read the content of the letter, his heart was half cold. The letter was not written by Lan Yuefeng, but written by classmate Long Yudong to Lan Yuefeng. The gist of the letter is: Yuefeng's encouragement to keep in his heart, he must redouble his efforts, he must fly with Yuefeng, spread his wings towards the ideal path, and so on.
Yi Xuexin is a clever person, and he understands that Lan Yuefeng is telling him that she already has an ideal person in her heart, and hopes that he will have no illusions.
However, attracted by Lan Yuefeng's beauty, Yi Xuexin did not stop there. He thinks that Long Yudong's home is also in the countryside, and the conditions are not much better than his Yi Xuexin, the big deal is that he looks handsome, but I am easy to learn new and talented, and I have a genius in painting. The more he thought about it, the more he felt that he would become a great painter in the future. In this regard, he has enough proud capital to pursue Lan Yuefeng, what kind of thing are you Long Yudong, get out of the way!
In order to let Long Yudong give up Lan Yuefeng, Yi Xuexin found Long Yudong to cut it, he said, I am friends with Lan Yuefeng, please stay away, or I will be polite to you!
At that time, Long Yudong didn't say anything. But a few days later, Lan Yuefeng found Yi Xuexin, and said to him angrily: "You are and take care of yourself, can I take a fancy to you!" Yi Xuexin immediately asked: "What is wrong with me, tell me where I am bad!" "Your appearance, your home, and the environment of your home......" Lan Yuefeng continued to say "you that", and finally added a heavy sentence of "stinky melon" and shook his head.
Yi Xuexin was there for a moment, and he didn't know what to do. He carefully recalled Lan Yuefeng's words, and slowly felt that he was really pathetic, really nothing, as if it was his home, which really made him feel inferior.
Yi Xuexin's parents are farmers, and he has 8 older brothers and sisters, and he is the youngest in the family. When he was born, his thin body could even hold him. The parents felt that this baby was very cheap, so they gave him the milk name "Guadang". "Guadang", the "dung scoop" used by Sichuan farmers to grow crops and water manure, it can be seen how cheap the name of "Guadang" is.
Due to the large number of people in the family, they relied on work to eat in those years, and their parents were tired and tired and couldn't earn much work. If the work is less, the grain will be less, and if the grain is less, the stomach will suffer, so the melons that are often hungry should be thin and tendonous, which is very inconspicuous. He wants to pursue the beautiful Lan Yuefeng, of course people look down on him. Lan Yuefeng's sentence "stinky melon" deeply stung Yi Xuexin's heart, and from then on, his fantasy of Lan Yuefeng could only be buried in his heart, and he was inferior enough to dare to pursue it recklessly.
Three years of middle school life passed in the blink of an eye. What made Guadang particularly inferior was that he failed to continue his high education, and he fell to Sun Shan in the entrance examination, while Lan Yuefeng and Long Yudong were admitted to secondary schools respectively. Yi Xuexin returned to the countryside and began a life of digging in the soil with his face facing the loess and his back to the sky.
Many years later, Yi Xuexin heard that Lan Yuefeng and Long Yudong were married, and both were civil servants in a bureau and a unit in Ziyang City. And Yi Xuexin, the heart that once dreamily pursued Lan Yuefeng slowly faded with the passage of time.
When the time comes, "stinky melon" is impressive to be the manager
It is said that after Yi Xuexin returned to the countryside after Sun Shan returned to the countryside, he really suffered for two years. At that time, the land had already been contracted to the households, and the thin and small Yi Xuexin was not that piece of material at all. When winter and summer come down, people become rough and unpresentable.
Yi Xuexin has an older brother, who was a section chief in a secondary professional school in Sichuan Province at that time, and saw that his younger brother was doing farm work, so he contacted Yi Xuexin to play a clown on stage in the Sichuan Opera Troupe in Jianyang County. Yi Xuexin is thin and small, and he is also smart, and being a clown on stage is still like that. In addition to performances, Yi Xuexin, who had some talent for painting, often circled around the art troupe's artists, and learned a lot of painting knowledge from them. It's okay, he also paints by himself, and gradually he has made great progress, entered the art group of the troupe, and became a backbone artist.
However, the good times did not last long, in the early 80s, due to the development of society, drama art was no longer popular, most of the city and county Sichuan opera troupes were disintegrated, Yi Xuexin "lost his job", returned to his hometown Wuhuang Town, relied on his own painting skills, wrote tags for stores, painted advertisements, and barely made a living.
He deserves to learn new things, and this kind of creation is of course entirely thanks to his brother. At the end of the 90s, Yi Xuexin and his brother served as the vice principal of a secondary school in Chengdu, through his brother's relationship, Yi Xinxue began to do roadside advertising on the Chengdu-Chongqing Expressway. Soon he bought a house in Ziyang City and registered his own company. He was the manager himself, and the name of the advertising agency was ingenious, so he used the new "milk name" of Yi Xuexin - Guadang. Because of this strange name, "Guadang Advertising Company" has become a popular name in the industry and is almost a household name.
The business of the "Guadang" advertising company is getting hotter and hotter, and making more and more money, and the manager of "Guadang" not only spends money to purchase modern advertising production equipment, buys a house, but also has his own car. The once lifeless "stinky melon" has now become the big boss of an advertising agency, and no matter where he goes, it is impressive.
Because when there is money, people are also spiritual. I don't know which of Yi Xuexin's sleeping nerves has awakened again, and he remembers the person he dreamed of 20 years ago, and he wants to rediscover his old dreams.
The rich "Guadang" manager generously held a class reunion, more than 50 students in the class that year, and now there are more than 20 people in Ziyang City, the "Guadang" manager invited all these 20 people, including Lan Yuefeng and her husband Long Yudong.
In the process of entertainment, Yi Xuexin found an opportunity to talk to Lan Yuefeng, saying that he was too naïve and stupid when he was in middle school, and now he still blushes and feels ridiculous when he thinks about it.
Maybe everyone is from the past, and they are naïve and stupid in the past, but it is also a pleasure to think back now. Lan Yuefeng is no longer the shy Lan Yuefeng she used to be, she said that those days were not open, if it was now, someone chased her, she would never refuse.
The manager of "Guadang" seemed to hear Lan Yuefeng's voice. Since this class reunion, the manager of "Guadang" often asks Lan Yuefeng and his family to come out to "drink night beer" in the name of classmates, and sometimes Long Yudong is away on business, and the manager of "Guadang" asks Lan Yuefeng to "drink night beer" alone. One night, the two tacitly went to the hotel to open a room with the help of alcohol, and finally fulfilled their dreamy wish more than 20 years ago.
Defending the marriage, the bloody passage of the two families was torn apart
Like all lovers in extramarital relationships, Yi Xuexin and Lan Yuefeng have the first time, and naturally there will be a second and third time. At first, the two still had scruples and hidden, but the later they went, the more bold they became, and finally went public, taking advantage of the opportunity to drink a night beer and find a place to satisfy their desires. Lan Yuefeng commutes to and from work during the day, Yi Xuexin has to drive almost every day, and the unit understands the situation and knows that they are classmates, but they feel that their classmate relationship is a bit beyond the norm. Those who don't understand the situation still think that they are husband and wife, otherwise they will not be so close.
They are indeed too close. For example, Lan Yuefeng's unit wants to hold employee entertainment activities, and if she goes a little further, Lan Yuefeng asks Yi Xuexin to drive her, and also asks Yi Xuexin to participate in the activity together. Many times, Yi Xuexin was fine, and he went to Lan Yuefeng's place of work, accompanied her to work, and chatted with her. The employee of Lan Yuefeng's unit said that Yi Xuexin had become half of the unit's employees.
The relationship between Yi Xuexin and Lan Yuefeng is also well known among their classmates. The fantasy experience of their middle school was also rumored to be a "good story" of bold courtship, Yi Xuexin whenever he drank too much, he bragged about how he pursued Lan Yuefeng in front of the conversation, and he bragged wildly, depicting their past "two secrets" vividly. Now all their classmates have come over, and they all know what the current extramarital affair is all about, so the classmates don't take it seriously.
Perhaps it was the "understanding" of friends and classmates that made Yi Xuexin and Lan Yuefeng really have the desire to reorganize their families. As a result, they each filed for divorce from their respective spouses. Yi Xuexin came to cut through the mess quickly, gave his ex-wife a property, and then quickly divorced the marriage.
Yi Xuexin, who is divorced, has already regarded Lan Yuefeng as his wife in his thoughts while waiting for Lan Yuefeng's divorce, and when he wants to call Lan Yuefeng to come, Lan Yuefeng will come with a phone call. However, Lan Yuefeng filed for divorce from her husband, but was met with great resistance - her husband resolutely refused to leave.
Long Yudong also heard about the relationship between Yi Xuexin and Lan Yuefeng, and when Lan Yuefeng filed for divorce, Long Yudong was not surprised. He told Lan Yuefeng that in the past 20 years, he has been in love with Lan Yuefeng since the day he fell in love, and it is impossible for him to divorce Lan Yuefeng. No matter how Lan Yuefeng treated him, he endured it. Long Yudong said that whether in terms of character or talent, he is ten or eight times stronger than Yi Xuexin, not to mention, he and Lan Yuefeng have been married for 20 years, what is he Yi Xuexin, and what is worth pursuing.
Kelan Yuefeng was resolute, Long Yudong knew that it was difficult to recover, so he came to a buffer plan, saying that now the child is in his third year of high school and is facing the college entrance examination, and hopes to put the divorce aside and not affect the child's college entrance examination. Lan Yuefeng told Yi Xuexin what Long Yudong meant, and Yi Xuexin thought that Long Yudong was trying to delay time, so he said that he wanted to talk to Long Yudong in person.
One night, Yi Xuexin made an appointment with a few classmates, and then called Lan Yuefeng and Long Yudong to come out for a night beer together, and played many times, Long Yudong was reluctant to come out, and then someone came up with an idea, saying that Long's son was also in high school, and hoped that Long Yudong and his family would come out to accompany the teacher, and Long Yudong came to the "night market street" with Lan Yuefeng. When drinking, while the wine was booming, Yi Xuexin "cut" Long Yudong, saying that he and Lan Yuefeng were not just a relationship between men and women, but wanted to reorganize the family, hoping that Long Yudong would give up Lan Yuefeng. Long Yudong resolutely disagreed, Yi Xuexin said, "If you don't agree, you have to agree, it's a big deal, let's use the knife!" As he spoke, he pulled Lan Yuefeng into his car and drove away.
Long Yudong was very angry, and when he got home, he called his wife and asked Lan Yuefeng to go home. The dragon's son repeatedly called his mother and begged him to come home. Yi Xuexin said, go back and see what he can do!
So, Yi Xuexin drove Lan Yuefeng home. When she got home, Lan Yuefeng went into the bedroom, but Yi Xuexin had something to say to Long Yudong. Yi Xuexin once again asked Long Yudong to give up Lan Yuefeng, Long Yudong was very angry and said, "Don't you just have a few stinky money, you actually ran to the house to take someone's wife, you get out of me!"
Long Yudong pushed Yi Xuexin to go out, Yi Xuexin just didn't go, the two twisted together, the angry Long Yudong ran into the bedroom, pulled out a Tibetan knife and stabbed Yi Xuexin, Long's son saw his father move the knife, and quickly blocked it, Long Yudong, who was dizzy, couldn't tell who was who, and swung the knife and cut his son again. As a result, Yi Xuexin and Long's son were both injured and fell to the ground.
Long Yudong realized the seriousness of the problem when he noticed that his son was also cut, so he quickly sent his son to the hospital, and then went to the public security organ to surrender. At the same time, Lan Yuefeng saw that Yi Xuexin was seriously injured, and quickly called a taxi to send Yi Xuexin to the hospital for rescue. However, Yi Xuexin died due to excessive blood loss and ineffective rescue. The dragon's son was saved by timely rescue. Long Yudong was criminally detained the day after the incident, after which the Yanjiang District Procuratorate approved his arrest in accordance with the law for intentional injury (causing death).
This case, which should never have happened, has ruined and torn apart two otherwise happy families, and there are many lessons from this case that deserve the world's warning.
(All names have been changed)