There are many unsatisfactory and helpless things in life.
I have seen the light and darkness of the world, and I have experienced the complexity and unbelievability of human nature.
When you read all the states of life and savor the faces of all living beings, you can still be calm and calm.
Have a good heart, learn to enjoy solitude, know how to be content, and be mentally self-consistent.
Regardless of the chaos of the outside world, you can smile indifferently and face life calmly. To be light and light, and the light and dust, this is the best self.
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Enjoy solitude
The birds flew high, and the lonely clouds went alone.
——唐·李白《独坐敬亭山》
In this life, loneliness is the norm. There is always a way to go, and you have to walk it yourself.
The sooner you learn to be alone, the more you will be able to see different scenery during your trip.
The better the person, the more they enjoy being alone.
Tao Yuanming returned to the countryside and lived alone in a humble room, but he enjoyed it. Enjoy the tranquility alone, enjoy tea and reading, be accompanied by nature, and realize the true meaning of life.
"Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and leisurely seeing Nanshan" has become a dream situation pursued by many people.
The chaos of the world, precipitating the soul, and creating countless masterpieces.
People who enjoy solitude can better know their own pursuits, not be affected by the complicated environment of the outside world, return to their own hearts, and pursue their own beginnings.
Schopenhauer said, "Whoever does not love solitude does not love himself, and when he is alone, he is his true self." ”
People who enjoy solitude will always get peace of mind from solitude.
Learning to be alone and enjoying solitude is the wisdom of life that must be possessed at all times.
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Know how to be sufficient
Ask yourself at this time, when is it enough?
——Don Bai Juyi, "Contentment Yin and Cui Eighteen Unpoor Works"
In "Zengguang Xianwen", it is said: "Contentment is always content, and life is not disgraced." ”
People's desires are always endless, there are no boundaries, if you don't know how to be content, you will be burdened by desires, and eventually fall into the abyss of desire, unable to extricate yourself.
Zhuangzi is not burdened by worldly fame and fortune, and is content with the pursuit of the way of nature. He regarded wealth as floating clouds, was content with poverty, and enjoyed spiritual freedom and abundance.
Zhuangzi said: "Those who are content do not burden themselves with profit." ”
He was content and happy, and with a contented heart, he lived out his true self, and became a model for future generations to pursue spiritual freedom and leisure.
Writer Wang Shuo said: "The superficial similarity of life depends on the richness of people's hearts. ”
Only when a person's heart is full of wealth can he be happy and worry-free, not afraid of wind and rain, and be happy forever.
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Spiritual self-consistency
Go to the poor place of the water, and sit and watch the clouds rise.
——Tang Wang Wei, "Farewell to the South"
Lawyer Shi Xinyue explained self-consistency in "Self-Consistency: Looking Inward in Uncertain Days" -
Self-consistency is to recognize and accept one's own characteristics, starting from oneself, and completing one thing will have the harvest of this thing.
A person who is truly spiritually strong is able to accept his truest self and continue to learn in order to reach the top and meet a better self.
In "The Catcher in the Rye", it is said: "The biggest internal friction of people is not to let go of themselves." ”
Spiritual self-consistency is a state of inner peace, not demanding perfection, leaving a little gap in one's life.
But positive and optimistic, lifelong learning.
Don't dwell on the past, don't consume yourself.
When your spirit is self-consistent, your life is free.
In the journey of life, there are many different kinds of beings, and everyone encounters different difficulties.
But perhaps the best way to live a person is to enjoy solitude and dialogue with one's true self in a quiet environment.
Know how to be content, and feel the tranquility and beauty in the rich heart.
Have spiritual self-consistency, do not entangle, do not twist, and move freely towards the wind.