The news of Li Yifeng's prostitution once again makes people ask: Why do men spend their hearts?
Yes, in fact, whether it is a big star, or an ordinary person, a rich man, a man without money, a Chinese man, a foreign man...... It is almost certain to say that all men are flowery, regardless of borders, classes, and races.
The difference is only:
The degree is different: some men are very attentive, while others are slightly better.
The performance is different: some flowery men have colored gall, and some flowery men do not have colored gall.
There are only two differences.
Today, I will tell you a story from 70,000 years ago, and after reading this story, you will understand how our ancestors, in the long history and the cruel struggle for survival, passed on the genes of Huaxin to us from generation to generation.
Our ancestors had a very difficult time surviving, and only the genes of bravery, strength, intelligence, and heart-wrenching could survive
70,000 years ago, there were 4 male Homo sapiens who ran away from East Africa, and after they left Africa, they went all the way to the east, and along the way, each of them took a wife with them.
Man A is very single-minded, along the way, he only has one with his wife, never messing with flowers, however, his wife died in childbirth, man A was very sad, and he couldn't accept a new woman for a long time, but man A was bitten to death by a wolf in the process of a hunt, so man A's "single-minded gene" was extinct.
Man B is also very single-minded, along the way, he only has one with his wife, never messing with flowers, however, at that time, the world of primitive people, the law of the jungle, there is no law, man B was knocked out by a group of Homo sapiens who came out of nowhere, when he woke up, he found that his wife was snatched away, he was unwilling, looking for it, looking for a long time, but not found, soon after, man B got the plague and died, so, man B's "single-minded gene" was also extinct.
C man is also very single-minded, along the way, he only has one with his wife, never messing with flowers, however, his wife often secretly does embarrassing things with other men, so, C man's wife gave birth to 2 children, all of which are not actually C men, but, C man doesn't know, he was kept in the dark, happy all day long, and then once, because of the fight with other men for a wild boar, C man was killed, so C man's "single-minded gene" was also extinct.
D man is different, he is very attentive, and at the same time, because of his strong hunting ability, D man along the way, increasing his wife, in addition, in the wild, D man often uses prey, lure other strange women to do shameful things, so in fact, D man before and after, a total of 100 boys, of which he knows, there are 20, he doesn't know, there are 80, and in the end, 50 of these 100 boys died of cold, hunger, wild beasts, plague, Fighting, there are 50 people who have gone through a lot of hardships and gone to China, of course, D man did not live long, he was killed by the same kind when he was fighting for a woman with a similar kind, but it doesn't matter, he has 50 children who survived, and his genes are well preserved, copied, and inherited.
And these 50 boys have inherited the flower heart gene of the D man, congratulations, you answered correctly, yes, we are actually the descendants of these 50 boys who carry the flower heart gene.
Reading this, did it dawn on you?
However, it should be noted that the story of these four male Homo sapiens is a simplified historical model of our ancestors who brutally survived and tried every means to seek genetic reproduction, but for the purpose of illustrating the problem, this simplified model is sufficient.
That's right, in the long and cruel history of human survival, single-minded men have been extinct, and only the genes of Huaxin can survive. We are all descendants of Huaxin men and inheritors of Huaxin genes, which is a cruel fact.
Therefore, as long as there are living men on the earth, they are actually all attentive, whether it is Wang Leehom, Li Yundi, or Japanese men, British men, rich people, poor people...... Because we are all the descendants of men with flowers, in the cruel history, only the genes of the heart can survive, if not that, our genes would have been lost, extinct, and drowned in the torrent of history on the way from Africa to China.
To put it more plainly, if in history, every man was as single-minded, infatuated, and infatuated as man A, man B, and man C, then it can be said with almost certainty that there would be no human beings in the future, why? Because the earth where our ancestors lived was actually very sinister, with wild beasts, pestilences, severe cold, and hostile kinds...... If you're not careful, you'll die. So from the perspective of genes, if genes are to be widely disseminated, the only feasible strategy is to input DNA into as many different mothers as possible, and put a lot of eggs into many different baskets, only in this way can the risk be diversified, and in the end, the gene can be replicated as widely as possible, and to do this, there is only one way, which is to let the flowery man win.
100 sons, even if 50 die, I still have 50, children and grandchildren, infinite replication, yes, reading this, I feel a trace of sadness from the bottom of my heart, we are actually slaves of genes, we have always thought that we have free will, but in fact, we are just slaves of genes, Wang Leehom, Li Yundi, Clinton, all the flowery men in the world, in fact, are slaves of genes, their behavior, just follow the instructions of genes, that's all.
We usually eat too much grass carp, will be tired, will want to vomit, always want to change a dish, in fact, at this time it is the genes that send instructions to our brain: please change the food, otherwise, the nutrition will be too single, not conducive to health.
In the same way, what people usually talk about "seven-year itch" and "aesthetic fatigue" is actually our genes sending instructions to the brain, and it (genes) is saying loudly: please change partners, otherwise, it is not conducive to the widespread replication and spread of my (genes).
Yes, in fact, we are all slaves of genes, to put it bluntly, that's it, it's not complicated at all, so, before we accuse men of being careful, we might as well recall that our ancestors ran away from Africa 70,000 years ago and entered China 30,000 years ago. The genes of low desire have been eliminated by nature.
So, reading this, you may ask: why don't women pay attention?
In fact, the question itself is not accurate, in fact, women are also flowery in nature, why? The reason is the same: because their genes also have a natural tendency to spread widely, so in fact, women are also flowery.
However, in the evolution of human society to this day, women do show relatively specific characteristics than men, and this is generally the case, and why is this?
The first reason is that women are relatively unproductive during pregnancy and child-rearing, so they need to rely on a specific man (the father of the child), so women need to maintain a relatively stable relationship with a specific man. This is determined by economic relations, not by nature, and this need for stable relationships with a particular man evolves into a relatively specific trait.
The second reason is that in the long history of mankind, women with flowers have been constantly eliminated.
Yes, this point is really cruel, because women are at a disadvantage in terms of violence, so the genes of flowery women, in history, have actually been violently destroyed, eliminated, and eliminated in at least the following ways:
Method 1: From the early history of mankind, women who cheat on women, once found out by their husbands, are usually beaten to death by their husbands.
Method 2: In many societies in ancient times, women with flowers would be lynched by clan elders, for example, in ancient China, the lynching of "dipping pig cages" (yes, dipping pig cages was mainly for women) eliminated many flowery women.
Method 3: Flowery women often cause violent conflicts between two or more men, so many men not only beat another man to death in the conflict, but also beat the woman involved to death out of jealousy or hatred.
Method 4: In ancient times, because the flowery woman did not have a fixed male partner, the child she gave birth to, I don't know who the father is, so no man is willing to raise it, so the survival rate of the child will be reduced, and once the child dies, then the genes of the flowery woman will be broken and cannot be replicated.
So in the long river of cruel history, the genes of flowery women have been gradually eliminated, disappeared, and extinct, and those who survived were relatively conservative.
But despite this, because the inertia of genes is so strong, to this day, the surviving women's genes are still flowery to some extent, which is why those girls who already have boyfriends will also have their eyes light up when they see the tall and handsome Korean Oba on TV, which shows the strength of genetic instinct.
It is worth mentioning that there is no such elimination mechanism for men, and on the contrary, until 1950, China was still polygamous (polygamous and polygamous), that is, from ancient times until 1950, in China, the flowery man has always had the advantage of survival and reproduction, and the opposite is true of women.