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William Chen
Edited by William Chen
Preface
In today's society, singleness has become an increasingly common way of life.
However, for a working woman, whether or not to marry and have children is still regarded as an important measure of happiness.
So, should a successful and independent urban woman also be bound by worldly standards, and how will she deal with herself?
Born in an ordinary world, he was a late bloomer
As the only daughter of an ordinary family, Li Zimeng has been doted on by her parents since she was a child.
They hope that this jewel of the family can live a comfortable and comfortable life, without having to struggle in the quagmire of society like them.
Li Zimeng did have a smooth journey, was admitted to the most popular broadcasting major at the time, and entered CCTV after graduation.
But at the beginning of her career, her career experienced a trough that almost died.
Emerging opportunities and setbacks
The young Li Zimeng sword went sideways, and a live broadcast negligence led to a serious mistake, and the audience questioned whether there was a problem with CCTV.
Engaged in broadcasting and hosting work, the tolerance for mistakes was close to zero, Li Zimeng was in a cold sweat at the time, and began to doubt whether he was suitable for this job.
Fortunately, she was tolerated and loved by her predecessors.
The seniors did not give up on her because of this mistake, but spared no effort to guide her and spur her.
Under their persuasion, Li Zimeng gradually came out of the haze and began to devote herself to work in a more focused state.
Tempered into steel, CCTV's golden partner
In order to avoid making mistakes again, Li Zimeng began to be strict with herself.
pondered the words of the broadcast repeatedly, worked hard to improve the level, and finally became famous in the industry and became one of the main hosts of "News Network".
At the same time, she and her partner Kang Hui have also become a "golden combination" loved by the audience.
The two not only have an orderly division of labor and complement each other at work, but they are also good friends in private, taking care of each other and taking care of each other.
Watching Li Zimeng gradually get better, not only her parents, relatives and friends are proud of her, but even ordinary viewers are full of praise for this humorous and steady host.
At the peak of his career, his life is hindered
However, just when her career was at its peak, Li Zimeng suddenly encountered an "unexpected" episode in her life.
During the recording of a variety show, her friend Wang Hao publicly proposed marriage for her, which instantly aroused heated discussions across the country.
Friends are too obedient and public opinion is out of control
Wang Hao, who calls himself a "straight man", may be simply thinking about his friends, but his approach is too abrupt.
Li Zimeng was also quite surprised and uneasy at the time, but she didn't expect that her private mood was suddenly put in the spotlight.
As a front-line host, Li Zimeng knows how influential public opinion is.
For a time, her home was filled with love gifts from countless suitors, and a large number of people had a "star-chasing" mentality towards her, which made her very troubled.
Fortunately, partner Kang Hui supported Li Zimeng as soon as possible, and publicly praised her as an extremely professional host, which undoubtedly played a positive guiding role, and also reflected that the two are indeed friends who trust each other.
Return to rationality and choose a mate independently
After experiencing this public opinion incident, Li Zimeng realized that she may have been too passive about marriage and love issues before.
As a popular host, of course, she hopes to meet the other half who can fit with her heart.
But she also firmly believes that marriage should be based on the free will of two people to be truly happy.
So, Li Zimeng began to reflect and wanted to control her married life.
She regained her belief in independence and no longer reluctantly accepted any relationship in order to cater to external pressures and traditional beliefs.
Independence and freedom in life
For career women, financial independence is often a necessary path to independence.
Li Zimeng has a considerable income and a certain amount of savings, so she does not have to rely too much on her other half like many women.
This set her on an independent path in life.
Family members oppose confronting the pressure head-on
However, as an only daughter who grew up in a traditional family, Li Zimeng naturally has to bear the pressure of her family.
After reaching the marriageable age, her parents frequently persuaded her to get married as soon as possible, otherwise long-term singleness would have many adverse effects.
In the face of her parents' sincere love and expectations, although Li Zimeng felt a trace of guilt in her heart, she still insisted on her own ideas.
She hopes to wait until the person who is most compatible with her soul appears, and then she will set foot in the palace of marriage.
Get rid of doubts and stick to yourself
In addition to the pressure of her family, Li Zimeng also has to face the doubts and incomprehension of relatives and friends.
Whenever I see others entering marriage and having children one after another, the people around me will look at her who is still single with complicated eyes.
However, it was these invisible pressures that made Li Zimeng more and more determined to be determined.
She knows that pandering to the world is likely to destroy her independence, and she focuses on soul fit far more than a mere marriage.
Life is self-inflicted, positive and optimistic
With the foundation of financial independence, Li Zimeng began to face life with a more positive and optimistic attitude.
She walked out of her inner struggle and strengthened her independent choice of marriage.
At the same time, she is more focused on her work.
Live your own uninhibited life
As a well-known host in his prime, Li Zimeng could have enjoyed the sweetness of fame and fortune.
But she has lived an unusually carefree attitude to life, focusing on her career but free about her private life.
No longer confined to secular evaluation, Li Zimeng focuses on realizing her self-worth.
She wants to live her life to the fullest in her own way, waiting for a partner who resonates with her soul to appear.
This positive and optimistic attitude to life has also won her the love of more audiences.
The pillars of life are self-chosen
Independent, autonomous, assertive.
Perhaps this is Li Zimeng's most praised quality.
As a woman, she has the courage and determination to take control of her life and not let others dictate her life trajectory.
It is foreseeable that this outstanding woman will live a wonderful life without regrets and become an excellent representative of contemporary women.
She is a true portrayal of the "pillar" of this era, who is assertive and independent in the new era.
epilogue
Li Zimeng's life story illustrates contemporary women's independent pursuit of their own lives.
Under the pressure of social reality and the constraints of traditional concepts, she still adheres to the concept of self-independence and freedom, and treats life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
In the face of doubts from the outside world and persuasion from her family, she did not give in and get lost, but lived a wonderful life in her own unique way, waiting for the person who best fits her soul to appear.
This autonomy and self-choice in life is the most memorable spiritual quality of Li Zimeng.
It is not difficult to see that in the context of the current era, the independent spirit shown by Li Zimeng has represented the more and more conscious value pursuit of a new generation of young women.
They no longer passively accept the arrangements of others for their lives, but have the courage to freely choose the lifestyle that suits them, so as to truly live a wonderful life that belongs to them.