I couldn't help but stop what I was doing and curiously clicked on the news. The article tells the story of a girl who suffers an unexpected embarrassing experience during a blind date.
It is said that this girl is handsome, has a good figure, has a good education and work, and is a very enviable girl. However, she frequently hit a wall in blind dates because her appearance was too outstanding. Some boys think she's too beautiful, some boys think she's too cold, some boys think she's too stressed, in short, all kinds of reasons make her never find a suitable partner.
Until one time, she went on a blind date with a boy, and the boy asked bluntly: "Why do you have to look for ugly ones?
This sentence was like a sharp point, and it instantly touched a certain string in her heart. She remembered all the expectations and fantasies she had for love, and she remembered the effort and price she had paid in pursuit of perfection.
As a result, she began to reflect on her own values and perceptions. She began to understand that love should not only be beautiful on the surface and glamorous on the outside, but also about inner fit and resonance of the heart. She began to understand that ugliness and beauty are not the only criteria for love, what really matters is the tacit understanding and understanding between each other.
So, she decided to let go of the prejudices in her heart and try and accept those who may not be perfect. She began to re-examine the people around her, and found those strengths and shining points that she had previously overlooked. She began to understand and appreciate everyone who intersected with her with her heart, and no longer limited her love to superficial looks and conditions.
So, by chance, she met an inconspicuous but gentle and kind boy. His appearance is not outstanding, and it can even be said that he is extremely ordinary, but he has a touching power in his heart. His care and thoughtfulness for her made her feel sincere emotions and made her understand the true meaning of love.
So, she and this boy slowly walked into each other's lives and experienced the ups and downs of life together. There are no gorgeous vows and flashy promises between them, only ordinary and sincere love, which makes people feel emotional.
This story made me ponder, and I began to reflect on my attitude and expectations for love. Perhaps, we should really let go of those superficial prejudices and conditions, and feel and appreciate everyone who intersects with us with our hearts. Perhaps, true love does not lie in the beauty and ugliness of appearance, but in the inner fit and soul connection.
Perhaps, when we let go of those illusory fantasies and unrealistic requirements, we can find the happiness and satisfaction that truly belong to us. Perhaps, love is like this, simple and pure, which makes people feel moved and understood.