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Text: Qi Qi Kan Entertainment
Edited by Qi Qi Kan Entertainment
Preface
Have you ever been overwhelmed by life and felt hopeless and helpless? Have you ever been like Ji Baoru, crawling in the dark and almost giving up? However, she finally regained the sunshine with her tenacious willpower, isn't this worthy of our learning and admiration? Let us walk into her life together, appreciate her arduous journey, and witness how she walked out of the haze step by step.
1. Sad childhood memories
Ji Baoru was born in a traditional family that values sons over daughters.
According to the old custom, girls are regarded as a burden to the family and a bad thing.
Therefore, Ji Baoru was abandoned by his biological parents at his grandmother's house as soon as he was born.
My grandmother was a self-reliant and poor peasant woman.
She already had a lot of complaints about this suddenly extra "drag oil bottle", not to mention paying her to love her sincerely.
At her grandmother's house, Ji Baoru never enjoyed a moment of warmth and happiness.
In its place was a barrage of verbal abuse and endless housework.
Her hands were bloodied and calloused from overwork, and a battered soul was hidden beneath her immature face.
For a better life, she no longer dares to aspire, in her eyes, food and clothing are already a luxury.
Every day she lives a life worse than a dog, but even so, her grandmother has never had the slightest kind of face for her.
Once, Ji Baoru was inadvertently attracted by the shiny doll in the window.
Grandma saw through the longing in her eyes, so she deliberately said, "If you can cry in 10 seconds, I'll buy it for you."
Grandma originally wanted to see her grinning and embarrassed ugly appearance, but she didn't expect Ji Baoru to cry in an instant.
This hysterical cry seemed to tell my grandmother about the suffering and grievances she had endured over the years.
However, her grandmother remained indifferent and instead took her to a director to audition for a child star role.
The director's request is simple, just cry sincerely and movingly.
As expected, this is Ji Baoru's specialty.
After so much suffering and suffering, who knows pain and sorrow better than her? The director quickly gave her a chance to play a role.
Grandma discovered her "cash cow" value, so she began to arrange her to film day and night, and launched a crazy exploitation of her.
2. The teenage years of being exploited and used by my grandmother
The young Ji Baoru was overwhelmed by the heavy workload, and month after month, she spent her entire teenage years in fatigue and abuse.
Although her heart was full of depression and anger, she never dared to disobey her grandmother, because once she was not in a good state, her grandmother would reprimand her fiercely regardless of the occasion, and sometimes even pulled her up in the early hours of the morning to memorize her lines.
The childhood that should have been carefree was completely taken away by her grandmother and became the darkest and dampest memory of her life.
Behind every seemingly sincere crying scene, it is actually Ji Baoru who is venting his curse and accusation of a painful life.
Perhaps it is precisely because she has experienced so much suffering that her crying scene is so heartbreaking and moving.
As a result, her fame has become more and more famous, and she has been appreciated by countless people.
As her fame grew, her grandmother exploited Ji Baoru's value more unscrupulously.
One day when she was 13 years old, her grandmother wrapped a worn cloth around her developing breasts, then forcibly dragged her to the hospital and injected her with a large amount of growth inhibitors.
Ji Baoru was lonely and helpless at that time, where did she still have the courage to resist? No matter how much she begged and the doctor dissuaded her, her grandmother still ignored her.
In this way, under the strong rule of her grandmother, she is destined to stay at 1.49 meters forever in the future, and she will never be able to grow taller again.
3. Lost and lost married life
At the age of 18, it was the most important turning point in Ji Baoru's life.
During the shooting, she got acquainted with the considerate and gentle Yu Long, and experienced the warm feeling of being loved for the first time.
Yu Long used his kindness and thoughtfulness to open Ji Baoru's heart that had been closed for many years, gave her courage and strength, and finally made her make up her mind to resist her grandmother's control.
Ji Baoru resolutely took Yu Long to see his father and expressed his willingness to get married.
Naturally, my father and grandmother were furious, and they couldn't stand the cash cow and wanted to leave them.
Ji Baoru was so scolded by her family that her father even wanted to beat her.
In desperation, she had to threaten to quit the entertainment industry, and her grandmother reluctantly agreed.
After years of suffering, Ji Baoru can finally get rid of the control of his family and live his own life.
After marriage, her and Yu Long's lives gradually improved, and the birth of her son made her feel unprecedented happiness.
The family took their savings and began to test the waters in the stock market, and at first the income was considerable, making their lives extremely rich.
However, the good times were short-lived.
As the stock market fluctuated, they quickly lost money.
Just when Ji Baoru was under double pressure both financially and psychologically, she discovered her husband's cheating.
This was undoubtedly the heaviest blow of her life.
Yu Long somehow deserted and took in a junior outside.
When Ji Baoru verified the truth, she was furious, and she resolutely decided to divorce Yu Long and completely break off this failed marriage.
Although Yu Long repeatedly sincerely repented and begged Ji Baoru for forgiveness, the wound in her heart was too deep to be easily buried.
No one expected that the quarrel would become the last conversation between the two.
In the early morning of the next day, a tragic tragedy of a fire in a song hall easily took Yu Long's life.
He was so drunk that he didn't have time to escape.
Yu Long's unexpected death was undoubtedly the last blow to Ji Baoru's heart, and she almost collapsed.
What's worse is that Yu Long's relatives turned all their anger on Ji Baoru, blaming her for the fire, which was even more pointed at and abused.
Ji Baoru suffered from the cynicism of her relatives, and in addition to grief, she fell into the quagmire of guilt and self-blame, and could no longer extricate herself.
4. The depraved life leads to problems with children
The death of her husband plunged Ji Baoru into deep despair.
The haze of childhood once again enveloped her, as if she was in the midst of boundless darkness, and there was no way out of life.
She began to get drunk and dream, indulge herself, vent all her dissatisfaction and resentment on her three children, and make troublesome and uplifting words for them.
The eldest son, who was already frail and sickly, began to show some abnormal behaviors under great mental pressure, such as sleepless nights and silence, and gradually suffered from severe depression.
In order to escape domestic violence, the second son mixed in the gangsters in the society all day long, and soon became infected with drugs, the bane of all disasters.
As for the youngest son, because he was left unattended all the year round, his studies were wasted, his behavior became more and more corrupt, and he often caused trouble at school.
A few times after drinking heavily, Ji Baoru even had thoughts of suicide, and woke up the next day covered in scars.
Faced with the devastation of her family, she felt deeply guilty and helpless, but there was nothing she could do.
It seems that she personally pushed this originally happy family into the abyss from which it will never recover.
5. Strive to regain a sunny life
The fate of the children made Ji Baoru learn from the pain, and she realized that if this continued, the whole family would be torn apart and the family would be torn apart.
It's time for a change and a new kick-start.
So, she gritted her teeth and sent her second son to a drug rehabilitation center, hoping that he would follow the doctor's instructions and become a new person.
At the same time, Ji Baoru also began to run his own business with all his might, hoping to change the status quo of the family.
She works hard to earn money and give her children a stable living environment.
Fortunately, the second son followed the doctor's instructions in the drug rehabilitation center, passed the most dangerous period, and got back on the right path.
Ji Baoru even published an autobiographical embodiment of "Love, Reversal Wins", telling his life journey and reflecting on his past growth experience and life difficulties.
As soon as the book was published, it received a huge social response, and countless readers were impressed by her tortuous life experience.
Step by step, Ji Baoru began to walk out of the haze of life, the children's attitude towards her also began to change, and the family atmosphere began to improve.
Although the wounds of the past cannot be healed, the hope for the future is shining brightly in front of us.
She is confident that she will take care of the family again and return it to its happy appearance.
epilogue
From Ji Baoru's life history, it is not difficult for us to see the ruthless tricks of fate.
But it is precisely because of the hardships she has gone through that she can finally regain the sunshine in her heart and have the courage to face the dark side of life.
Liu Xiaoqing said: "The only thing that can save yourself is talent and hard work." Ji Baoru interpreted the true meaning of this sentence with actions.
Her life was so bumpy and tortuous, full of endless darkness and despair.
However, she was never crushed and never gave up her desire and pursuit of life.
On the contrary, she used her tenacity and hard work to overcome hardships again and again, and finally let life go from darkness to light.
Ji Baoru's story reminds us that everyone in life can encounter many hardships, and the key is whether they have the courage and faith to overcome them.
As long as we are like her, with an indomitable will, never give up on ourselves and never give up on our dreams, then no matter how harsh life is, there will eventually be a glimmer of light.
In the gloom of despair, never give up hope.