What should we do if we are attacked in Australia for no reason?
Recently, a mother in Australia posted about a vicious incident she and her 5-month-old baby encountered on the bus:
When the bus turned, a woman who didn't look normal slammed on the baby, "The stroller was broken by her, and the force seemed to break my son's leg..."
And the woman escaped under the "cover" of the driver afterwards...
This experience made the mother angry, and she hoped to remind the mothers who are also in Australia to pay attention to safety in public!
In addition, she also hopes that everyone can support the recruitment, if this situation is encountered again in the future, what should be done...
The mother said in her notes:
"The other night, my baby and I had a vicious incident on the bus. ”
On the same day, the mother and her child took the bus for the first time in Australia.
"A Somewhat Disabled Woman With a Walker sat in the Priority Seats across from me, and she felt a little weird, dropping ball-like things all the time, and smiling weirdly at me.
At a turn near the next stop, she suddenly got up and immediately slammed the whole person on the stroller, her right hand and elbow crushed against my son's stomach and thigh, and her left hand pressed on the sunshade above my son's head!
The feeling is running towards the head, not the kind of person who wants to fall and wants to hold on to something, but the feeling that it looks like he wants to hurt the baby on purpose!
And after she hit my son, she deliberately pressed him hard... Looking back now, I'm already starting to gnash my teeth!
At the time, she completely sparked me: she smashed the stroller, and it seemed to break my son's leg and crush him...
My son burst into tears, he didn't cry that much when he fell out of bed the other day, and I thought my son must be in a lot of pain..."
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Seeing her son crying, the mother also collapsed instantly, but the man said, "Oops, I've got the baby, I'm sorry", and then he was leaving.
Bao's mother dragged her and didn't let her go, and told the driver that she did it on purpose and was a vicious injury.
The other party looked weak, and asked the driver for help, saying that she "didn't mean it" and that she wanted to get out of the car...
"I told the driver that I couldn't let her run away, or who would be responsible for my baby?
The driver said, 'I can only go to the bus terminal to adjust the surveillance', and said that first, there is only her, me and the baby in the whole car, and there is no witness, and second, we have no reason to detain her and not let her go.
I was just thinking: she's going to run away, I'm going to monitor and have a fart..."
When reasoning with the driver, the child also kept crying in Pram, and the mother was distressed and anxious:
I wanted to pick up my son and coax him, but I thought that he was treated like that just now, and I was worried that he would have a fracture or dislocation, so I couldn't pick it up directly...
For a while, there was a bit of confusion, but the woman saw the opportunity to run away quickly, and she didn't look like she was disabled when she fled...
Seeing that the other party had run away, the mother quickly dialed the emergency rescue number and called the police.
By the time emergency paramedics arrived, the child had stopped crying and was no longer crying.
The other party simply checked the child, including heartbeat and body temperature, and touched the child's legs, thinking that there was no big problem.
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The next morning, the mother was still not at ease, so she found the GP and wanted to take a look, but the GP checked and felt that the child's condition was okay, after all, he could eat, sleep and not cry, and he didn't have to do Ultrasound anymore.
At this time, Bao's mother's hanging heart finally landed...
However, after experiencing this incident, the more Bao Ma thought about this experience, the more wrong she felt, and even felt a few points of fear after thinking about it:
One: The other party has severe strabismus in his eyes, and his face is full of big bags, and he is not sure whether he is an addict;
The strangest thing is that when she carefully observed the other party, she couldn't tell whether it was a man or a woman for a while, and the action of taking something out of her pocket made people feel very abnormal, it felt like she was going to take out a dangerous object such as a knife...
2: At that time, there were only Bao's mother and her son in the bus, and there were four people in total, the woman and the driver. The other party may have seen that there would be no witnesses, so they did it.
The mother then guessed that if this person did these things on purpose, maybe the pregnant woman who saw a lonely woman on the road might also do it...
She hopes to share this matter and remind other mothers to pay attention when taking their babies out, after all, no one wants their children to be hurt...
In addition, she also hopes that the majority of Chinese people can come up with ideas and support strategies, what if they encounter similar things again in the future?
As soon as the mother's post asking for help was issued, it immediately aroused heated discussions among Chinese netizens.
The first reaction of some netizens was that this mother was too weak, she should be stronger, and she couldn't let herself and her baby be wronged:
"Since you have met this kind of person, you must fight back as soon as possible, you can't be wronged in vain, there are no witnesses anyway..."
However, some netizens expressed their understanding from the perspective of Bao Ma, because if the person she met that day really had bad intentions, then she would definitely not fight with Bao Ma, and she would also specifically look for children, which would be too dangerous...
Moreover, if this mother is a new immigrant, she may not have time to react when she encounters this kind of thing, and she doesn't know how to deal with it best, so she can only react according to instinct.
"People who have lived in Australia for a long time know that this kind of thing can happen on the bus, and it can happen in any public place, no one wants to encounter this kind of thing, stop blaming Bao Ma!"
In addition, the driver's attitude at that time was obviously problematic, probably to help each other and discriminate against Asians, in this case, Bao Ma and the baby were really helpless...
"I've encountered malicious drivers before, my mother and I just got into the car with the baby, and we drove before we stopped the driver, obviously malicious!"
The mother who told the story of the experience said that the reason why she didn't hold on to the other party at that time was also because the other party didn't look like a normal person, "She gave me the feeling that it was abnormal, she might be a drug addict, and there was an action of digging out her pockets, if she really took out something, it might be a better choice if I didn't hit her..."
There are also mothers who reminded that when encountering this kind of thing, they must take a film of the child as soon as possible to see if there is a problem with the bones, "This situation in Australia without witnesses is really troublesome, and you have handled it very well, but it is still recommended to have time to take a film for the child to see the specific situation." ”
After that, you can go to the monitoring, after all, it's good to leave a piece of evidence!
"When this kind of thing happens, you must call the police first and find a GP to open a medical certificate, although it may not be useful, but once the case is filed, this kind of thing may happen less in the future..."
Most mothers suggest that "everything is better than prevention", and when you encounter someone who doesn't look normal, you should stay away immediately:
"It's okay if the baby is fine, if you encounter a strange person in the future, hold the child away first..."
There is also a mother who said that she is also a novice mother, and this post reminded her: In Australia, when you have a child, you can not take the bus first...
On a big night, when this kind of thing happened on the bus with almost no people, this mother's helplessness at that time can be imagined... Luckily, the child is fine!
In addition to these mothers' suggestions, is there anything better you can do?