Before reading this article, I sincerely invite you to click the "Follow" button, so that you can continue to push such articles in the future, and it is also convenient for you to discuss and share, your support is the driving force for us to insist on creating~
After retirement, Li's mother lived alone in a small remote county. She hadn't integrated into this strange neighborhood for years, but she didn't care. Every day, Li's mother would take a leisurely walk in the community, admiring the familiar scenery around her. Although she didn't have friends and relatives to visit her often, she didn't feel lonely, but felt that such a quiet life was what she wanted.
One day, Li's mother received a call from her son Zhang Cheng. Zhang Cheng said that business has not been good recently, and he hopes that Li's mother can use some of her savings to help him tide over the difficulties.
Mom, I really need your help this time. You know, our company has been in some trouble lately, and we're very tight on cash. Can you please come up with hundreds of thousands of dollars to support me first? When I get through the difficulties, I will definitely pay you back slowly. Zhang Cheng said anxiously.
Mother Li was silent for a while, with mixed feelings in her heart. She remembered how she and her husband struggled to save the money all those years ago. At that time, both of them were very poor rural youths, and they had to work hard every day to survive. Later, Zhang Cheng was born, and the couple did everything they could to create a warm environment for their son.
Mom, what are you thinking? I really need your help. Seeing that Mother Li didn't answer for a long time, Zhang Cheng couldn't help but urge again.
Mother Li sighed and said slowly: Cheng'er, I know that you are indeed in trouble now, and I also want to help you. But you know, this money is all that your dad and I have worked hard to save over the years. Now I'm old and need the money to support myself. Look at the old people around you who live alone, how difficult their lives are. I don't want to be like that in the future.
Besides, you haven't had any big expenses for many years, and you must still have savings. I just need a little bit of cash flow for the time being, so you can be generous. Zhang Cheng said a little unhappily.
Cheng'er, I know your difficulties, but I also hope you can understand my thoughts. Now that you've got a family, it's time to create your own business and life. It's time for us old people to take good care of ourselves. Li's mother patiently explained.
Zhang Cheng was silent for a while, seemingly a little annoyed. In the end, he was still not very happy and said: Okay, then I'll figure it out myself. You can enjoy the blessings at home. Then hung up.
Li's mother put down her phone and looked out the window with mixed feelings. She originally thought that her son would understand her, but she didn't expect it to cause such an argument. However, she didn't feel too much guilt, but felt a sense of relief and relief. Maybe it's time to think about herself, she thought.
Just when Li's mother was immersed in her thoughts, the phone rang again. This time it was Zhang Cheng calling, and his tone became a little eager.
Mom, I really need money, I hope you will think again. I am really breaking the capital chain now, and if it drags on any longer, our company may go bankrupt. You are helping your son, and I will pay it back to you slowly.
Mother Li hesitated for a while, but still insisted on her thoughts: Cheng'er, I'm sorry, I really can't give you any more money. This money has been accumulated by your father and me, and it has now become an important guarantee for me to maintain my life. I hope you understand that the most important thing for people to live comfortably when they are old is not to rely on their children's money.
When Zhang Cheng heard this, his tone suddenly became a little excited and dissatisfied: Mom, how can you say that! I am your son, how can you not help me? Are you willing to let my company go out of business? You are so ruthless?
Cheng'er, I know that you are in a difficult situation now, but I also hope that you can be self-reliant and create your own career and life with your own hands. I've done my best to take care of you all my life, and it's time for me to look out for myself. Don't feel like I'm abandoning you, but understand what I'm thinking. Li's mother patiently explained.
These words made Zhang Cheng speechless for a while. He hung up the phone angrily, leaving Li's mother alone in complicated thoughts.
In the days since, Li's mother has been reflecting on her decision. She understands that she may lose her son's affection because of this, but she also feels that if she continues to give her son money, her life will only become more and more difficult. She remembered an old woman who lived alone in the community a few days ago, and that old woman seemed very calm.
Maybe I should learn from her and enjoy my old age. Mother Li muttered to herself.
As a result, Li's mother began to gradually change her lifestyle. Instead of staying at home all day, she started going out for walks and trying to meet some new people. One day, she overheard an old woman saying that her life is much busier than before, with many social activities and hobbies every day. This made Li's mother feel very envious, so she also began to try to participate in some activities for the elderly, such as chess art associations, poetry recitals, etc.
It turns out that living alone can be so colorful. Why didn't I find out before?'s mother thought to herself as she participated in the event.
In this way, Li's mother's life became more and more colorful. She discovered that living alone also has its pleasures and freedoms. Every morning, she goes for a walk in the park and admires the fresh morning air. After the walk, she would go to the nearby senior activity center to participate in some interest groups, such as chess, calligraphy, tea ceremony, etc. Sometimes, she would go to the nearby library and quietly read her favorite books.
One day, Li's mother met a warm grandmother at the activity center. This grandma looks healthy and is happy to talk to people.
Hello, are you new here? I haven't met you yet. The old grandmother took the initiative to say hello.
yes, I've only recently started coming here for events. Hello, my name is Aunt Li. Li's mother smiled in response.
Oh, it turned out to be Aunt Li, it's nice to meet you! My name is Granny Zhang, do you want to have tea and chat with me? Granny Zhang warmly invited.
Mother Li happily agreed, and followed Granny Zhang to the tea art group. There, she made more elderly friends, and everyone sat together, drinking tea and talking about life. Li's mother felt extremely relaxed and happy in her heart, and this kind of life made her completely let go of her previous concern for her son.
In this way, Li's mother's life became more and more colorful. She is full of interest every day and can't wait to participate in various senior activities. In this small event, she made a lot of new friends, and everyone got along well and helped each other.
One day, Li's mother met a passionate old man named Granny Zhang in the tea art group. Granny Zhang greeted warmly:
Oh, it's Aunt Li, it's nice to meet you! Are you also here for tea today?
yes, I've only recently started coming here a lot. I really didn't expect the atmosphere here to be so good, everyone gets along very well. Li's mother responded with a smile.
Of course, the old people here are a big family, everyone takes care of each other, and their lives are full and happy. Would you like to have tea and chat with me?
Mother Li happily agreed, and followed Granny Zhang to a quiet corner. There, she made more elderly friends, and everyone sat around, drinking tea and chatting about their own life stories. Li's mother felt extremely relaxed and happy in her heart, and this kind of life made her completely let go of her previous concern for her son.
Sometimes, Zhang Cheng would still call, hoping that Li's mother could help. But this time, Li's mother has learned to communicate patiently with her son and let him understand his thoughts.
Cheng'er, I know that you really need money now, but you also have to understand that the focus of my life is no longer on you. I now have a lot of hobbies and friends of my own, and I live a fulfilling and comfortable life. You have to believe that I'm fine now and I don't need you to worry about it. Mother Li said gently.
When Zhang Cheng heard this, he seemed to be a little unhappy in his heart, but finally compromised and said: Okay, Mom, since you have decided so, I also respect your ideas. However, you need to take care of your body and let me know if you need anything.
Mother Li nodded with satisfaction: Don't worry, I'm doing well now. You also have to take good care of yourself and work well. If you have any difficulties, just tell me, just don't ask me to give you money again.
After hanging up the phone, Li's mother felt an indescribable sense of satisfaction in her heart. She finally understood that when people get old, money is not the most important thing, the important thing is to live freely and fully. This kind of life makes her feel happy and peaceful more than anything else.
In this way, Li's mother's life became more and more colorful. She no longer worries about her son's needs and dedicates herself to her life. Every day, she would get up early to go for a walk in the park, breathe in the fresh air and enjoy the beautiful scenery. Then, she would go to the senior center to participate in various interest groups, play chess, practice calligraphy, and drink tea and chat with other elderly people.
In this small event, Li's mother made a lot of new friends. Everyone is an elderly person who lives alone, but life is very full and happy. Sometimes, they invite each other to their homes and share food and life stories together. These new friends gave Li's mother great comfort and happiness, and made her feel the warmth of being loved and cared for.
One day, Li's mother met a young man at the activity center. The young man took the initiative to say hello to Li's mother and asked if she needed help.
Hello, Auntie. I noticed that you came here alone for an event, did you need help?, the young man said enthusiastically.
Ah, thank you for your concern. But I'm fine now, and my life is very fulfilling. Mother Li said with a smile.
It's great to see an elderly person living alone so happy and at ease. You must be a very wise person. The young man exclaimed heartily.
When Li's mother heard these words, a warm feeling surged in her heart. From that day on, she felt happier and freer. She no longer worries about her son's needs and focuses on her own life. She understands that when people get old, money is not the most important thing, the important thing is to live freely and colorfully.
This is the current state of Li's mother's life. She finally learned to let go of her excessive concern for her son and began to cherish the time that belonged to her. This kind of life made her feel unprecedented fulfillment and happiness.
One day, Li's mother met a strange lady at the activity center. The lady looked to be very old, but she was smiling and very calm.
Hello, are you new here? I haven't met you yet. Li's mother took the initiative to say hello.
Ah, hello, I've only recently moved here, and I'm still getting used to it. My name is Aunt Wang, and it's a pleasure to meet you. The lady responded enthusiastically.
Aunt Wang, welcome to this place! I have only recently started to come to participate in activities frequently, and I feel that the atmosphere here is really good, and everyone gets along very well. Do you want to go with me for tea and chat?
Great, then Aunt Lao Li will lead the way. I'm also looking forward to meeting more people. Aunt Wang readily agreed.
Mother Li took Aunt Wang's hand and enthusiastically took her to the tea art group. There, she saw familiar friends, who greeted them warmly. Mother Li feels extra warm and satisfied in her heart, and this is the life she wants now.