In traditional Chinese culture, no matter where you go, you always have a gift in hand. It's not just etiquette, it's a way to maintain relationships. Especially when it comes to gifts, even siblings have to be cautious. Don't look at how good your relationship is, once you are careless, it will be embarrassing at least and against you at worst. Let's take a look at these rules to keep in mind when gifting to make sure you don't miss out on the art of gift-giving. Remember, whether it is a wedding banquet or a funeral, mastering the correct rules of etiquette is a sign of respect for others and the maintenance of one's own image.
Okay, let's talk about the amount of the gift. We all know that when there are many relatives in the family, it becomes a headache to give gifts. Especially when everyone is keeping a record of how much money is given to whom, this number cannot be changed casually. For example, you gave 500 at your last wedding, and this time they gave it to you with 500, so you have to be clear. But don't forget, money is not the same as it was ten years ago, you have to take inflation into account, and don't end up thinking you're taking advantage of it.
Let's talk about this non-maverick issue. Many times, especially young people, may not pay much attention to these rules, just count them casually and feel that they are right. But it's easy to make jokes and even offend people. If everyone gives the same amount of money and you give too much, although it may seem generous, it may actually make people think that you are stealing the limelight. So, before deciding how much to follow, it's best to inquire and see how everyone gives it, and don't make a special one yourself.
As for the problem of being too public, this is also common in our daily lives. Some people just like to show themselves on this occasion, especially those who are doing business, and may really see this as an opportunity to show their strength. Although such a mentality is understandable, it is indeed inappropriate to be too eye-catching at such a time. After all, it is a major event in the family to hold a happy event or funeral, and if you are too active at this time, it may not only cause disgust in the host's family, but also make other guests feel uncomfortable. At this time, what we need is to keep a low profile and make the host home and other guests feel comfortable.
In this context, understanding and mastering these small rules of etiquette is actually helping yourself and others. No one wants to be blocked on a day of great joy and sorrow because of a problem with the ceremony. Therefore, these seemingly trivial etiquette are actually an important means of maintaining interpersonal relationships. By giving proper courtesy, you not only show respect for others, but also maintain a good image in social situations. After all, in this face-looking society, who doesn't want to make a good impression?
So, next time you have a casual occasion, you might as well stop and think about it. It's not just about exchanging gifts, it's about wisdom and art. Through these small gifts, we are actually maintaining and developing our social network in a very subtle and effective way. In the process, the art and wisdom of Sui Li can help you stand out from the crowd and build stronger relationships. So, don't underestimate this art, it may be related to the quality of your social circle and relationships.