In the eyes of everyone, the relationship between father and son, mother and son of the Japanese imperial family should be father and son, filial piety, and Chenghuan, but the truth is not so simple.
However, it is rumored on the Japanese Internet that in fact, in the Japanese Imperial Palace, Empress Michiko is the bully, she is the "culprit" of Empress Masako's depression, and Emperor Akihito is the connivator of all this.
The Japanese media believe that Princess Aiko's choice to ignore her grandparents at the graduation ceremony and inauguration ceremony is very unusual, but everyone is aware of the grievances between Emperor Naruhito and his family and the imperial couple.
In 2008, the head of the Japanese Imperial Household Agency, Nobu Ha Eda, complained to reporters at a press conference that the crown prince visited the emperor and his wife less and less.
In response, Naruhito, who was still the crown prince at the time, said that he hoped to create more opportunities to meet, which further confirmed Hazuda Nobu's statement.
In fact, the conflict between the Naruhito family and the Akihito couple has been going on for a long time, not only because of the partiality of his parents, which made Naruhito feel cold, but also because Naruhito was very dissatisfied with some of his mother's practices.
The biggest reason for the frequent occurrence of family conflicts is that everyone has different values, and in a family, no matter who complains, they should not say that others are not behind their backs.
Whenever there is a defamatory act, it will affect the relationship between family members.
Some time ago, Princess Aiko's induction ceremony for the Japanese Red Cross Society did not mention her grandparents, and it was this unusual phenomenon that caused heated discussions.
In fact, the royal family, like ordinary families, has many unresolved and chaotic family conflicts.
According to the tabloids, since the birth of Princess Aiko, the Naruhito couple have visited their parents less and less.
An important reason for this is that Michiko often says that Masako is not in front of Aiko, and in order to prevent her daughter from accepting these negative emotions, Naruhito will reduce the number of visits to her parents.
According to reports, Michiko also threatened Masako, "If you can't give birth to a son, don't be a princess." ”
According to the staff of the Imperial Household Agency, it seems that Masako has become accustomed to the number of mother-in-laws, but seeing her daughter suffering with her makes Naruhito very painful.
Naruhito also advised her mother to restrain herself many times, but it was all in vain, because Michiko didn't listen to her son at all.
After that, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother and son became out of control because of one thing.
The cause was a serious public health incident in Japan in the last century, which caused people to fall ill and even die along the coast, and the creatures such as fish, birds, and cats were abnormal, and even cats were extinct in some places.
The last investigation was that the Nippon Nitrogen Fertilizer Company's factory discharged untreated wastewater into Minamata Bay, and the company was responsible for the illness of humans and animals.
Originally, this matter had nothing to do with Masako, but the president of this company was the maternal grandfather of Empress Masako, and Masako was not born when this incident happened, but Michiko directly scolded Masako as the "granddaughter of a criminal".
and complained that she was strongly opposed to her son marrying the criminal's granddaughter, but she couldn't stop it.
Princess Aiko was shocked when she heard these accusations, but she could only endure it silently in the face of her grandmother's scolding.
It is said that Naruhito was furious when he heard the story in tears, and for a long time Naruhito refused to associate with his parents in order to punish his mother for his irrational behavior.
Every week, Empress Michiko holds a private tea party at the palace, and even the princes and nobles will inevitably gossip after the tea dinner.
Every time, Concubine Yazi will become their talking point, probably no different from the Chinese "rural intelligence station".
Sometimes Masako would also walk around the Akasaka Imperial Palace, and in order to compliment the queen, some people even imitated the down-and-out appearance of Concubine Masako.
The exaggerated praise caused the people present to burst into laughter, and their words and deeds were very frivolous.
Wenren has been good at observing words and emotions since he was a child, so he will always use clever words to please his parents.
In addition, Michiko always felt that Naruhito had the succession to the throne, while Fumihito had nothing, and always felt that she owed her younger son.
Therefore, from the very young age of the child, Empress Michiko clearly favored her youngest son, Fumihito.
Compared with Masako, who is frail and sickly, Noriko is indeed more ambitious and ambitious, plus the mentality of loving the house and Wu, so Noriko's arrival makes Fumihito more favored.
It is said that the Japanese people at that time could feel that the Akihito couple preferred the Fumihito family, and the emperor and his wife would often take the Fumihito family on vacation or recuperation, but this kind of thing never happened in the Naruhito family.
Since Concubine Kiko gave birth to Prince Hirohito, she has become more powerful, and with the support of the Imperial Household Agency and the emperor's parents, Fumihito and his wife did not take Naruhito and his wife seriously at all.
When she grew up, Princess Aiko occasionally visited her grandparents alone at the Sento Imperial Palace, and once Princess Aiko angered her grandmother Michiko by arriving a few minutes later than the appointed time.
I heard that after Princess Aiko arrived, the first thing Michiko said to Aiko was, "It's too late."
After Princess Aiko apologized, Michiko still couldn't discourage herself and asked rhetorically, "Why are we waiting for you?"
It probably means that as a younger generation, only Princess Aiko waits for grandparents, and there is no reason for grandparents and grandchildren.
Soon after, Princess Aiko received three hours of "education".
In the face of unreasonable requests from grandparents, you should have the courage to refuse, and the adult princess Aiko already has the right to choose and the right to decide.
Perhaps too disappointed in her grandparents, Princess Aiko gradually lived a life away from her grandparents.