Both parents told us about their son's difficulties in writing essays. The first parent said that the composition was as terrible as the devil for his son, and he was so nervous in every composition class that he couldn't do it. The essays he writes are more like they were made up than they were actually written. In a 60-point essay, his score always hovers in the single digits, and rarely goes up to the ten digits. When I asked him why, he said he didn't know what to write. This can make parents frustrated and don't know what to do.
The second parent also said that no matter what the topic and content of her essay was, her son always used those few fixed sentences to piece together. Every time she saw such an essay, she couldn't cry or laugh, and felt that the content of the essay was empty.
In fact, this kind of problem is common to many boys. When it comes to composition, the boys feel miserable, and the parents feel helpless.
However, there are also some children whose essays are particularly well written, and the teachers praise them again and again after reading them. After asking carefully, it turns out that these children have a good habit, that is, they usually like to read books and like to think. The more you read, the more you will have something to write, and the more you think about it, the smoother it will be. Those students who don't write well are very envious when they see other people's essays being read as model essays, but they just don't know how to improve. In fact, the reason is that they do not develop good reading and writing habits.
So, how can parents help boys develop good reading and writing habits? Reading is an important way for children to acquire knowledge and increase their wisdom. Guiding boys to read some good books can not only enrich their extracurricular life, but also help them better understand the world and find role models to learn. In the process of reading, their horizons will become broader, and their sentiments will also be cultivated. More importantly, good reading habits can also develop their learning attitude, interest in literature, and good self-control and sense of rules.
So, parents, let's help boys develop good reading and writing habits!
My advice for young parents
Method 1: Make the boy fall in love with reading
If you want a boy to love reading, interest is really key. Parents should understand the boy's interests and don't force them to read textbooks or tutorial books. Boys actually prefer to read books that are "easy and fun", "learnable", or "popular among friends". Therefore, when buying books for boys, parents should listen to their opinions and try to buy books like "The Story King" and "The Master of Humor". In this way, when boys have their favorite books, they will be more willing to read them every day, and slowly develop a good habit of reading.
Method 2: Encourage boys to write more
If you want a boy to like to write, parents have to keep cheering them on. For example, when a boy is interested in a certain topic of writing, parents can write with him and give him some advice. You can also ask the boy to retell the story in the book and write it down himself, or ask him to write a favorite book or a fragment from the book. In this way, the boy's interest in writing will become stronger and stronger, and it will be easier for him to write good things. Whenever a boy writes something, his parents praise him and encourage him to participate in writing contests. In this way, boys will be more willing to read and write.
Method 3: Give boys a good environment for reading and writing
For a boy to enjoy reading and writing, the home environment is also very important. Parents can make a big bookcase and put some encyclopedic knowledge, astronomy and geography books. Moreover, parents themselves should read more books and newspapers to set a good example for boys. Also, when the boy is studying, the house should be quieter, the TV should be quieter, or go to another room to watch. In addition, give boys a comfortable place to read and write, with bright lights and comfortable tables and chairs, so that they will find reading and writing enjoyable.
Method 4: Teach boys to observe life and accumulate materials
Many boys find it difficult to write essays because they don't know what to write. In fact, there are many things that can be written about in life, as long as the boys observe and think more. For example, you can write about what's happening at school and what's fun at home. Parents should teach the boys the habit of observing life so that they don't have anything to write about.
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