I put up with her for a lifetime, your other half may not be perfect, may not love clean, may have a lot of inexplicable little quirks, this life can not be perfect, but it is the person who can accompany you to old age.
In winter, in front of a hot pot restaurant, a man was walking around in the cold wind, and although he was shivering with cold, he still kept walking fast, shaking his coat from time to time. The clerk was curious and asked him why he was going around in circles on such a cold day. The man rubbed his frozen, somewhat reddened hands.
The man said sheepishly, "Actually, it's because my wife can't eat spicy hot pot." As soon as I ate it, I was allergic and even smelled of rashes, but I myself was a person who regarded hot pot as my life, so I had to occasionally come out with a few buddies to relieve my hunger. So he walked around in the cold wind, shivering around, just to dissipate the spicy hot pot smell on his body. Afraid his wife would smell it. The clerk wondered, as a person who loves spicy food, is it not very painful to find a person who is so repulsive to spicy for a lifetime?
And the man said, "Like, what's the way, don't say it!" Don't say she's allergic to spicy, even if she's allergic to salt, allergic to water, allergic to air, it's not a big deal! As long as ah, not allergic to me on the line. Like, I can bear everything she wants. On the contrary, she did the same to me.
Later I took a boat from Hong Kong to Macau. Seeing a girl vomiting in the city cabin, tossing and turning all the way with the bag, looking so uncomfortable that she tore her heart and lungs, I went over to help him change the bag. She said thank you weakly, and seeing her pale face, I couldn't bear to leave, so I patted her back and tried to find some topics to chat with her, trying to distract her!
The girl said: "I am a Hong Konger, I went to Macau to see my boyfriend, I asked her why her boyfriend didn't come to see you?" ”
She sighed and said, "His boyfriend's parents are very seriously ill and need to be bedridden, so the boyfriend can't leave for a long time." ”
I asked the girl again, "Why don't you just go to Macau and live with him?"
The girl said: "There are also things in my family at present, and I can't completely put them down for the time being." ”
I frowned and asked her, "How often do you go to Macau?" ”
The girl replied, "I go to see him every week." ”
Surprised, I asked, "How long have you been in love?"
The girl thought for a moment and said, "Forget it, we've been in love since we were eighteen." I'm twenty-eight years old, and it's our tenth year in love. ”
I could hardly believe my ears. In ten years, she tossed herself more than a thousand times.
The girl looked at my shocked expression, smiled and said, "But fortunately, our family has been dealt with, it is not much, we can get married next month, and such a day has finally come to an end." ”
I still couldn't believe it, asking her what power had made you hold on for so long.
The girl still smiled and said, "Every time I vomit and want to die, I think that I can see him just by holding on for a while!" Endure, endure, endure for a while and see him, ten years have passed in the blink of an eye. ”
An old couple's wife has a serious cleanliness habit, but the husband is just the opposite, very unhygienic, and does not like to do housework. The couple often quarreled over the matter. The wife scolded her husband for being dirty and smelly, and the smell on her body was extremely sour, comparable to Su Qi'er! Ugly words are used, but the husband is still the same. Everyone did not expect that a couple who lived such a mismatched life, although noisy and noisy, never divorced.
More than ten years passed, and on the second day of their wedding anniversary, the old lady was suddenly taken to the hospital. After diagnosis, he developed Parkinson's syndrome. The sons and daughters advised the old father to keep his mother in the nursing home, knowing very well that the father had been cared for by the mother for the rest of his life. I can't even do the minimum laundry and cooking, and how to serve the patient. Who knew that this father was very determined and took the old lady out of the hospital and brought her home. Years later, the people who came to their house were deeply surprised, the small two-bedroom suite with the window was almost spotless, and the old lady was not emaciated at all, and her face was rosy. Although she was in a wheelchair, her eyes were sluggish and drooling, grandpa patiently helped her wife wipe it again and again. The clothes on the old couple are very neat and smell lemon soap, and the old lady's favorite is the smell of lemon soap. There are even a few pots of flowers and plants in the room, lush and lush, and the air is fresh.
Clean the room, cook, cook, wash and fold clothes. Over the years, he has taken good care of his wife and children, and he has taken care of himself and completely changed. Relatives and friends admired him, and they all envied him, and they envied the old lady for finding a good wife.
But the old man corrected himself solemnly, and my wife deserved my admiration. I thought about how sloppy I used to be, and how she could put up with me for so many years. My wife really loves me, so I should take care of her. He snapped his fingers and counted them for everyone, one finger representing a year. The old woman took care of me for half a lifetime, I took care of her for half a lifetime, the two of us got together, it was a lifetime, this is the consummation!
There has never been easy patience in this world. All perseverance means long, boring and restrained. The first love is a sweet anesthetic that can greatly improve one's tolerance for pain. However, as time passes and the pressure slowly recedes, it is found that patience has become a habit, and the taste of life is quietly tasted in bitterness.
It's as sweet as tea; more importantly, because we are distressed by the pain of each other's patience, we are willing to correct our own flaws for each other, so as to become warmer and more tacit, which is the general ending. Although it is not perfect, it is the deepest meaning of extreme romance.
I hope that in the future life, friends can meet a partner who loves and loves themselves. May her presence make your life better and more exciting.