I like the love of Qian Zhongshu, just like he said: the sea has an end, the moon has a round deficiency, the human world has a deficiency, but with you, you can make up for it!
Don't think about the deep meaning, just look at the text, is the beauty of the world that I envy. Longing, pursuing, waiting, learning to have!
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Material and spiritual are inseparable, just as the economic base determines the superstructure.
So no matter what time, ancient or modern; wherever, East or West, love is depicted from different angles, different types, different styles, different levels.
The middle story is full of joy and sorrow, sorrow and joy, but more is a strong sense of love. From a physiological point of view, falling in love, getting along between men and women, will make people secrete dopamine, which will produce pleasure.
At the same time, love is also risky, and this risk is also well known, but in order not to leave regrets for yourself, I think most people are willing to take this risk.
I especially like Wang Xiaobo's depiction of love and love, but I don't have the courage to pursue such beauty, just like "Loving You Like Loving Life": I often wonder who can put me in this position of the heart, and I give him everything I have. You can't give it to a person who is not salty or light, you can't give it to a person who is lukewarm, you can't give it to a person who doesn't die or live, because he doesn't deserve it, he doesn't deserve it at all!
I love you because I love you, not because of you, I love you!
The love written by literary artists is always enviable, but it is more jerky and difficult to understand!
Let's talk about the two of us, we are classmates, and we had a wedding in our hometown in September this year. The ceremony is not solemn, but family and friends have witnessed our love together!
Neither of us seems to be the kind of person who shows personality, rarely posts about the two of us in the circle of friends, it may be that these things are floating on the surface, and we can't measure our previous feelings.
She is a little willful, and her temper is a little bad when she is in front of me, maybe this is what every girl looks like in front of boys!
I've quarreled and contradicted, but not to that level of irreconcilability, I love her very much, and she can understand my feelings.
Compared with my love, she is more in my life. I will buy some of my usual daily necessities in normal times, without me asking for them, the home is well-kept, and both parents are concerned about taking good care of them.
The two of us have the same hobbies, we both like to go out, look, take pictures, but we don't like to send a circle of friends, just build a photo album that belongs to the two of us, and when there is nothing to do, the two people turn it over together.
Every girl wants to get the favor of the other half, she is the same, see others have, she wants to have it herself, she didn't ask me for anything, but I know she wants it.
Sometimes I envy her, envy her for having a curiosity, full of curiosity about the unknown around her, envious of her desire to explore. For example, when visiting the supermarket, she always points to something on the snack rack and asks me: Have you eaten this? Have you ever eaten that...?
Then it will say: I want to eat everything on this shelf that I haven't eaten.
Now that I find out that this is what I have lost, I always feel that it is so big, do you still want to go to snacks? amusing! But this innocence of hers, her love of life, is probably where I should learn from her.
I always imagine that life is very complicated, and before doing anything, I always put the bad results in my heart first, be cautious, and live a little tired.
Maybe I'm so used to the world that nothing can surprise me.
She would also say to me: Why bother with what didn't happen!
Then, I always use a long tone to say something that everyone understands, explain, use words as a weapon to scramble, to swear the authority of my cognitive ability, but I have to admit that my heart is indeed a little tired.
Maybe ten years from now, we'll meet at some intersection, you take your daughter, I take my son.
I smiled helplessly, "What a coincidence."
You also smiled: "Yeah, what a coincidence!" Didn't expect to meet here, you also picked up your children from school? ”
Then your daughter touched my son's waist with her elbow: "Brother, you see, Mom and Dad are starting to sour again!" ”
Then the four of us looked at each other and smiled...!
This is a small story I saw on Weibo, but this is also what we both pursued!
Similarly, I hope that when you meet someone you like in front of the screen, you're red-faced, not red-eyed.
The world is so big, life is so long, there will always be someone who wants you to be gentle.
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