It is said that in the eyes of lovers, lovers in love, look at each other very well, can't see enough, eyes full of love, even if it is not perfect, but in the eyes of the other party, you are the only one.
Think about how romantic and sweet it was when you fell in love at the beginning, and I was enviable.
Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, this makes sense, when the two enter the marriage, when they are originally in love, they strive to present each other with a good side, and after a long time, each other's shortcomings are exposed, if there is not enough tolerance, then, it is easy to get bored with each other.
A couple is eating at home, they don't look much different from other ordinary couples, the house is not big, the decoration is average, there are two dishes on the table, the wife is sitting on the sofa, eating with a bowl, her eyes are glued to the TV, and she is chasing dramas.
The husband looked a little absent-minded when eating, and his wife urged him: "Eat quickly, it will be cold in a while!"
When the man heard this, he didn't seem to hear, but he mustered up his courage and said to his wife, "Let's get a divorce!"
The wife was still stretching her neck forward to watch TV, and she was fascinated by it, and she immediately replied with an "ah", which was regarded as a response to her husband.
But she quickly reacted and felt that something was wrong with her husband, she turned her head and asked her husband loudly: "Why, it's been 7 years, and you can leave when you say it!"
The wife was a little emotional when she said it, she stood up and asked her husband, why did she say divorce after living such a good life?
The husband finally couldn't take it anymore, and the emotions that had been suppressed for many years exploded, and he pointed at his wife and said, "You never wear underwear at home, it's ugly, you know?"
After listening to her husband's words, the wife looked down at her clothes, indeed, she was used to wearing pajamas at home, how comfortable she was, and put on a big coat when she went out, which was unkempt.
The man continued to say loudly: "Your hair has not been washed for several days, and the oil can be stir-fried," the woman touched her head with her hand, and put it in front of her nose and smelled it, and indeed her hair smelled.
The man still didn't give up, "When I get home, it's always about eating, TV series, eating, TV series, can you not tell me when you eat! I'm really not interested, you know?"
The woman was obviously bewildered by her husband's barrage of output, and she asked in a trembling voice, "Is that the reason?"
The man nodded vigorously and said, "Well, that's the reason!"
The wife collapsed instantly, picked up the pillow on the sofa and threw it at the man, "Okay, just leave!"
Their conversation is really suffocating, they have loved each other before, but the trivial life, the heavy pressure, has consumed the enthusiasm between each other, the wife has not yet realized the seriousness of the problem, but the husband is obviously tired of such a married life, he does not want to continue.
As netizens said: When a person doesn't love you, it's wrong to even breathe.
The author once had a friend, the man had a mistress outside, and when he came home, he was very annoyed to see her sneezing, and felt that her behavior was very vulgar, and he was disgusted and embarrassed when he went out.
Some netizens also said: Aren't ordinary people living like this? Where there are so many ups and downs, it is just an ordinary trivial life. It seems that men still don't like women anymore.
Husbands and wives need to provide emotional value to each other, and when a woman eats every day in addition to TV dramas, such days are indeed boring.
Women must first learn to love themselves, and then love others, even at home, to maintain a good state, not unkempt, unkempt, and not to revolve around men and children every day, without their own work and hobbies.
No matter when it comes, a woman can't lose herself, have a stable career, maintain one or two hobbies, clean herself up, pursue ideals, have her own life circle, and live a colorful life, such a woman, even men will be impressed by her.
Now that the marriage has come to this point, I still hope that they can communicate well and continue the marriage.