When a person reaches the age of 70, he has the most intelligent way to live. As long as you hold your breath in these four aspects, you will be a winner in life.
Xiang was unwell at night and drove to the ancient plains. The sunset is infinitely good, just near dusk. --- Li Shangyin
Life is rare for seventy years, and at this age, looking back on the past, the prosperity is gone, everything has become a memory, and only you belong to yourself.
How to maintain an optimal state of life at the age of 70 and have the most intelligent way to live, you must calm down in the following four aspects, and you will be a winner in life.
1. Don't be angry with your wife, be calm, and be more understanding and tolerant of each other.
Whether it is the original husband and wife or the second couple, it is fate to be able to come together, you must know how to cherish it, don't get angry because of a few words, hurt your body, and affect the harmony between husband and wife, it is not worth it.
In fact, there are so many big things in life, the old couple are all talking about trivial things in life, those are not things, it is inevitable to stumble, quarrel at the end of the bed and. The quality of married life does not depend on who you live with, but on how you live, and the living habits of the person who has lived with you for half a lifetime have already been formed, and you still have to change her at this age, isn't that to make yourself angry?
2. Learn to be alone, even if you don't have a friend around, you have to be your own support.
After 70, people will gradually drift away from friends, and there will be fewer and fewer friends. There are many reasons for this, some of which are helping their children to watch the children and not being able to get out. And some are because of physical illness to go one step ahead, the world is impermanent...
Even if you are alone, you have to adapt to loneliness, get along with yourself, do more things that interest you, cultivate your hobbies, practice calligraphy, do painting, and raise flowers when you have nothing to do, so as to pass the time and enrich your life in your later years, which is also a beautiful thing.
3. Don't interfere too much in your children's lives.
As the children grow up, you can only watch their backs drift away.
There is an ancient Chinese saying: seven do not blame children, and five do not blame parents. This is probably how parents and children get along.
Many people over the age of 70 still treat their children and girls as children, and they have to meddle in big and small things, thinking that they are children, but in fact, the children have become middle-aged people, and they have the ability to make their own decisions.
4. Do more good deeds and accumulate good fortune.
People over 70 are more open to the gains and losses around them, and they are more willing to return to their true nature, give back to the society, and use the rest of their limited life to do more public welfare activities and give full play to the last light and heat.
"The old and the old, the young and the young. "Be kind to others in life and keep a kind heart. Be a person with great love and add a luster to life.
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