Zeng Shiqiang: "The old man has already hinted at the return", the old man has these 5 actions, children should pay attention!
Speaking of the journey of life, we cannot fail to mention old age, which is a period full of complex and delicate emotions. Children always have conflicting feelings of hope and fear, hoping to better take care of their parents, but at the same time fearing that the moment will come too soon.
In the historical tradition of the mainland, the virtue of respecting the elderly and caring for the young is our core value, especially now, when we face the challenges of an aging society, this virtue is even more precious.
During this journey, the old people often have many unspoken words and unexpressed emotions, but their actions have become the most realistic portrayal.
As Professor Zeng Shiqiang, a well-known master of management and Chinese culture in mainland China, said: "There has been a hint of the return of the old man. This sentence, like a lightning bolt, pierced people's inner peace and made people think deeply. So, what are the actions that children should pay attention to?
Move 1: Love to remember the past
You will find that lately your parents have been sitting there with memories in their eyes and a smile on their lips, and they are telling about those things from the past.
Maybe it's an interesting story from childhood, or maybe it's a struggle experience from youth, they are sharing their past, as if saying goodbye to this world. This is their farewell to the past, and it is also an expectation for their children, hoping that their children can remember their past and remember their contributions.
Action 2: Be quiet
You will find that your parents are starting to get quieter. They are no longer as active as they used to be, and they are no longer as talkative as they used to be. They began to like to sit there alone, looking out the window at the view, or just quietly in a daze. It's their peace of mind and a sign that they're leaving. Children should understand that this is a kind of precipitation for them, a kind of tranquility after precipitation.
Move 3: Start caring about what is behind you
You will find that your parents are starting to care about what happens after you get up. They began to talk about their funerals, about their graves, and about what happened to them. This is a kind of explanation for them, and it is also a kind of expectation for them. They want their children to remember their last wishes and their expectations.
Move 4: The body gradually weakens
You will find that your parents' bodies begin to gradually weaken. They start to get tired easily and start to get sick easily. It's a sign from their body and a sign that they're about to leave. Children should be concerned about their health and accompany them through this difficult time.
Move 5: Change of mindset
You will find that your parents' mindset is starting to change. They begin to become more pessimistic and more negative. They begin to accept the fact that they are about to leave and begin to face their own life and death. It's a kind of growth for them, and it's also a kind of maturity for them. Children should understand them, support them, and accompany them through this low point in life.
Life is precious, and life is short. Every old person is a witness of a piece of history and the soul of a family. When the elderly show these five actions, their children should pay attention, should understand, and should accompany them. Because this is a sign that they are leaving, and it is their way of saying goodbye to you.
Life is cyclical, and life and death are natural. The old people are about to leave, but what they leave behind is endless love and endless wisdom. Children should cherish this love and wisdom, because it is the most precious treasure in our lives.
At the same time, we should also reflect on whether we have given enough companionship and care to our parents, whether we understand their expectations and wishes, and whether we respect their decisions and choices.
Life is short, but love is eternal. Let us cherish every moment with the elderly, let us understand their every move, and let us accompany them through the last journey of life. Because this is our responsibility as children and our dignity as human beings.
Finally, let us remember the words of Professor Zeng Shiqiang: "There is a hint of the return of the old man. "Let's feel with our hearts, understand with our hearts, and accompany with our hearts. Because this is our respect for life, our admiration for the elderly, and our cherishing of home.