Now in this society, if you don't have money, you want to pretend to be rich, because only in this way can you be looked down upon by others, especially in rural areas, this phenomenon is particularly numerous, and it is a simple representative, but now there are a few people who like to pretend to be one.
As everyone knows, this will only increase their burden and make life worse.
Today, I will take you to see the three kinds of people who love to pretend to be rich in rural areas today.
1. People who slap swollen faces and become fat
This kind of person doesn't have much money himself, or his family conditions are average, but he always likes to rush ahead when he encounters big and small things.
As everyone knows, there are more rich people than you, but you have been wronged.
obviously doesn't have any money, but he always suffers from his wallet and snorts, for fear that others will look down on him.
For example, the son of the third uncle's family does not have a serious job, and he always likes to make friends, all of which are fake and rich.
The key is that your friends are useful, they are all some fox friends eating and drinking together, and they have nothing to do all day long, either playing cards or drinking and singing, and they are not self-motivated at all.
I once heard the old lady at home say that the third uncle and grandfather were all worried to death, and the children didn't do anything at home, and this month they spent 2,000 yuan with the gift money.
Let's be fair, now the rural red and white ceremonies are 200 yuan, and the more may be 500 yuan, there is really no need to slap a swollen face and be a fat man for the sake of face.
This kind of friend is only for a while, and really good friends don't care how much money you have.
In the face of this kind of person, I would like to say that we must also have the ability to discriminate, and we must discourage them when we encounter them in life, because after all, it is just a gift money, and everyone has the responsibility and obligation to live a good life.
Think more about your family, work hard to improve your ability and level, and avoid showing off your wealth, only in this way can you live a comfortable life.
2. People who have no money but love to brag
This kind of person can be said to be very common, especially from the evening of the village, the aunts who are idle after eating.
As soon as the gathering began in the small square in the village, Zhang's family Li Jia's short let's not talk about it, mainly a lot of people began to show off their wealth, what my son is a big official, and I bought a lot of cosmetics some time ago, hey, the key I don't need it!.
This is Xuan's son's wealth, as well as Xuan's daughter-in-law, "Just my daughter-in-law, come to see me if you're fine, I heard that they plan to change the car again, if you want me to say, the car doesn't maintain its value, just have a driver, there's no need to always change to a new model."
Everyone will sing and harmonize, so lively, no one will tear down the stage.
Although no one has demolished the stage, these are all villagers living in the village, and others will not know what your family is like, and there will always be jokes of one kind or another.
provoked another gossip, which was very eye-catching.
At present, the living standards in the rural areas of our country are getting better day by day, and the rural civilization is progressing more and more, but there are always some people who are like black sheep.
It is because the life in the countryside itself has made great progress compared to before, such as the greening project in the village, the lighting project, the asphalt road, and so on, and the conditions in all aspects are much stronger than before, but there are always a few people who like to brag about it, breaking a certain balance and making the atmosphere worse.
In fact, life has changed for the better, but these individuals always want to show off their wealth, at least they look richer than others.
In this way, you will get envious eyes, and always feel that this is a kind of recognition, but in fact, it will only become a talking point and a laughing stock for others, and will not let others look down on you at all.
Recognition and respect are earned by yourself, and if you achieve success through hard work and hard work, others will naturally look at you with admiration.
Those who get it by boasting about their wealth can only look at it differently.
We must stay away from these people, don't let this bad idea of showing off wealth infect us, live a good life better than anything else, and don't comment in vain.
3. People who have no money to borrow money and want to show off their wealth
This kind of person is actually more hateful, he is not like the first two, in addition to having a little impact on the social atmosphere and a little influence on himself, he is also acceptable, but this third kind will seriously affect the life of the family.
They will endanger their families and harm their parents and children because of the bad habit of showing off their wealth.
In fact, the countryside is also a small society, since it is a society, there will be demand, and this unhealthy demand will harm itself, especially the blind flaunting of wealth, and the flaunting of wealth without a bottom line and goal is the most hateful.
The author has heard of one thing that everyone can use as a warning to get away from these people.
The younger brother of a colleague's family, his parents have spoiled him since he was a child, and his brother has also spoiled him, and he has developed a bad habit of showing off his wealth since he was in school.
Compare the conditions with others in the village, compare food and clothing with others at school, but not study.
Because it's the eldest in the family, my parents are very used to it, so I haven't taken it seriously.
When I grew up, I simply took the entrance examination for three universities, or studied art, and everyone knows that this major is very expensive, or it is a university that only goes to college from families with better financial conditions.
As a child in the countryside, he should be frugal and careful in his life, but this colleague's younger brother loves to show off his wealth and likes to compare.
From the beginning, it was just a comparison of mobile phones, clothes and something, and these colleagues' families could barely accept it, after all, he already had a considerable income at that time, and he could support some wealth at home.
Slowly, his younger brother graduated and found a job in a big city, and the situation became more and more out of control.
Yes, you guessed it right, he began to compare cars, houses, and enjoyment.
We all know that once this habit of showing off wealth is formed, it is difficult to turn back, or it is impossible to get down at that height, but the conditions of the family are not rich, what should we do?
Online loans, car loans, all over again, now my colleague's family has no money to see a doctor, and life is very poor, which is really harmful to others and myself.
epilogue
We can't decide what family we are born in, what environment we are in. But we can decide what kind of person we want to become, at least not a person who "pretends to be rich".