It is impossible for one to step into the same river twice, the situation is changing, the environment is changing.
For the joint report of 15 graduate students who were personally supervised, Zheng Feng, as an associate professor and doctoral supervisor of the School of Information and Communication Engineering of Beijing University of Posts and Communications, had the same relationship with the students, and finally lost the wheat city, and the struggle of nearly 30 years was successful, and he was demoted from a seventh-level associate professor to a tenth-level lecturer, which can be described as "30 years of hard work, and returned to the pre-liberation period overnight." ”
Professor Zheng Feng's mistakes cannot be repeated, and the direction of his life destiny is carefully discussed in order to better control his own life.
What are the painful lessons learned from Professor Zheng Feng!
"Zhuge is only cautious in his life, and Lu Duan is not confused about major matters. "Only by sailing carefully can life start well.
Looking at Professor Zheng Feng's resume, looking at the 23-page PDF file of 15 students, Professor Zheng Feng outlines the image of a community aunt who cares about pounds, takes advantage of small profits, and must compare.
However, in fact, after coming from Qingdao University, then to Xidian for a master's degree, and then to Beijing University of Posts and Posts for a doctorate, and being influenced by poetry and books for decades, it is hard to believe that Professor Zheng Feng would be a person who does not learn and does not know how to learn, which is really unreasonable. Under the lonely light, in the quiet and cold, she must have had a difficult moment of reading poetry and studying academically, she is by no means a straw bag in the belly that people with ulterior motives denigrate, which is inconsistent with feelings and different from reason.
However, how could Professor Zheng Feng, who was once full of talent, fall to this? It can only be said that she has degenerated, and in the crowded city, she has relaxed herself, given up on herself, and let herself go, without further reforming and washing her mind, stagnating, stagnating, and having more philistine and vulgar spirit, and losing the true nature and core of an intellectual.
The transformation of people and oneself is a long-term, arduous, and unremitting process, which may seem small, but in fact it is significant. You see Professor Lu Zhenzhou of Western University of Technology, cultivating 99 doctoral and master's students, and each student is his own experience, never entrusting the hands of others.
In the process of pursuing his career, why Professor Zheng Feng gave up the transformation of himself, guessing from the exposed information, is nothing more than two points.
First, Professor Zheng Feng's career has not been as smooth as the noise in the outside world. At the age of 50, he is only a seventh-level associate professor, and in the eyes of people in the circle, it is average, and in the meantime, Professor Zheng Feng is naturally aggrieved.
Second: the family is unhappy. There is a phenomenon of "three impossibilities" in life, and it is difficult for everyone's marriage, career, and children to achieve all three, and usually two of them are very good, which is really rare! Obviously, as a female professor of Beijing Post and Staff, Zheng Feng has a successful career and her children grow up healthily, however, according to rumors, she has divorced, has taken a daughter alone, and her life is even more difficult, so that she neglects the growth of her career, causing great harm to 15 graduate students, thus causing a catastrophe.
At the same time, Professor Zheng Feng's philistine atmosphere is extremely serious, indicating that even if he lives for half a hundred, he still can't get out of the shackles of his original family, and he has not completed his personal transformation.
You see, the long-term support graduate students went to the 2 canteens of BUPT to queue up to grab buns and eggs early in the morning, because the canteen stipulates that each person can buy up to 4 buns, and they have to support many students to grab them. It is also speculated that Professor Zheng Feng should have been born in poverty, plucked the feathers of geese, and had all the good deeds, and every penny and every cent of profit was calculated, which caused the anger of the heavens and the resentment, the dissatisfaction of the people, and the boat capsized in the gutter.
However, for Professor Zheng Feng, with the treatment of an associate professor at the university, she should not be miserable, regardless of her worth, she lowered her identity to support the students to make strong buns, which can only show the immaturity of her psychological state, or it may be that the original family is too deep, so that it is difficult to return and bad habits are difficult to change.
There are some things that I don't care about and can't do. Society is a big stage, the university campus is a big stage, your every move will be seen in the eyes of peers, in the eyes of students, as a teacher, you must continue to cultivate yourself, self-cultivation, not to mention that you have cultivated yourself to settle the people, at least to cultivate yourself to settle your own students, let yourself be noble, noble, so as to become a person who is out of low-level interests, out of low-level interests, responsible for defending the land, loving and dedicated, and becoming a good professor and teacher in the eyes of all students.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and the relationship between Professor Zheng Feng and 15 students is not overnight. In this regard, Professor Zheng Feng cannot be unscathed, she can only say that she took it lightly, she was careless, and in her own flying and domineering, she lost herself, lost her sobriety and calmness, and missed the best opportunity to solve the contradictory problem, so that she brewed a "whistleblower door", which made her fail and her life fell into the abyss.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, before Professor Zheng Feng's "whistleblower" incident, there were many good strategies:
First: grasp the big and let go of the small, and directly attack the contradictions.
Contradictions are everywhere, contradictions are everywhere, and in the face of students' hostility, disapproval, and disagreement with themselves, judging from the materials exposed in the future, enslaving and squeezing students is the biggest contradiction. Therefore, it is necessary to quickly cut through the mess, pay all the internship wages owed to students, and pay all the subsidies and subsidies for deducting students, so that it is not easy for students to study, and they generally do not have enough money, and all kinds of subsidies and subsidies are in place, so that everyone can sit on a bench calmly and calmly, and renew the relationship between teachers and students. After all, who would directly challenge the mentor at the risk of postponement and suppression!
As a doctoral supervisor, you should have this insight and wisdom, grasp the main contradictions, grasp the main aspects of the contradictions, make great efforts, make great efforts, focus on solving this focus problem, get rid of this explosive bag, so as to travel lightly, and continue to study for a master's degree and a good life of studying for a doctorate in a harmonious atmosphere of teacher-student relationship.
Second: win over one side and suppress one side.
As a doctoral supervisor, as a project leader, and as a leader, you can't provoke everyone, so that you are standing on the opposite side of everyone, and what good fruit can you eat? The so-called revolution is to make more people who support us and fewer people who oppose us. Obviously, Professor Zheng Feng doesn't understand this, she is bent on going her own way, arrogant, not taking all the students in her eyes, and making enemies of everyone, so that the situation is critical, and there is no one to report the news.
Professor Zheng Feng's lesson is profound, from her, we should learn that morality is a teacher, as a model, as a teacher, as a professor, we must set an example, cultivate ourselves and others, lead our students well, cultivate them into talents, and get the wish of the phoenix. At the same time, we must deeply understand the theory of contradictions, dialectics, learn to lead the team, learn to lead the students, solve problems in the bud, have self-knowledge, and do not fall into a catastrophe!