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A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

author:Little Aunt I Bluestone Vision

Now, she's out of this world,

Until the last moment of his life, he was still yearning for beauty,

She likes plush dolls, she says, "I don't want my hands and my brain to stop."

In the spring of 2022, she cut off her shoulder-length hair,

has neat short hair, which shows her determination and also indicates that she yearns for a "new life".

.....

That day, she posted on Moments and asked everyone: "Is it handsome or not?"

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

Text/Little Auntie

Editor/Bluestone Vision

On the evening of May 15, 2023, a young life was lost in a rented house in Shanghai's Songjiang District, where Wu Qing, a 25-year-old mother, fell. My son, who is only 4 years old, witnessed the scene with his own eyes.

The perpetrator was Wu Qing's husband Xu Mouling. According to the prosecutor's indictment, that night, he was armed with a blood-stained knife and discarded it outside the door. Later, he tried to kick the door with his foot, but failed, and then picked up a brick and smashed the glass of the door, broke into the house, and stabbed Xiaoqing several times, causing his death.

On the afternoon of November 30, 2023, Xu's intentional homicide case was tried for the first time in the Shanghai No. 1 Intermediate People's Court.

On April 19, 2024, the verdict of the first instance of this case was announced - Xu Lin committed intentional homicide and was sentenced to death with a two-year reprieve, and deprived of political rights for life.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

Rental house site

Preface

This is located in a community in Shanghai, a rental of less than 30 square meters, Wu Qing was killed by her husband here, it was an indescribable horror scene, now, the damaged glass door has been replaced with a new one, and the traces left by Wu Qing in this house are gradually disappearing...

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

On-site interview with Phoenix.com

His parents still live in the rented house, and after their daughter left, the bed she slept in, the table that was crushed that day, and some of her belongings were sorted out and sent to the scrapyard.

For a long time, the old couple washed their faces with tears all day long, and they often murmured, if Dad didn't go to work that day at home, if Mom picked up the hammer to fight back, the daughter might still be saved, if....

If the daughter did not marry this murderer, if the daughter could successfully divorce, countless ifs, endless self-blame, it would be difficult to tell and let go.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

Wu Qing also has a sister, when she was a child, her parents went out to work, and the sisters, like most rural children, were brought up by grandparents

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Poor couples mourn everything, husbands commit domestic violence, and wives endure it

In 2017, at that time, 21-year-old Wu Qing was in her youth, working in a coffee shop in Shanghai, going back and forth between the coffee shop and her parents' rental house every day.

One day, the matchmaker came to the door and said that there was a boy who drove an excavator, and his family had a house and a deposit, and he had the skills to make money.

At that time, the parents of the Wu family also wanted their daughter to be older, so they contacted and contacted, and the two exchanged contact information, and then one was in Shanghai and the other was in Chongqing for video chatting, and later Xu Moulin also came to Shanghai to work.

In 2018, at a grand wedding in Chongqing's hometown, Wu Qing and Xu Moulin got married, and in the year that the two fell in love, there were sweetness, there were also disputes, and there was a quarrel, Xu Moulin also stayed up all night and stood on the bridge to express his determination, at that time, this move completely captured Wu Qing, including her mother.

Soon, Wu Qing became pregnant and had no way to continue working, so she simply left Shanghai and returned to her hometown in Chongqing to give birth...

Wu Qing's confinement was taken care of by her mother, one day, her mother was taking care of the child, she heard the little couple arguing about something, and followed the sound, but what she saw was that Xu Moulin kicked her daughter's feet and slapped her twice, Wu cried at the time, and at this time she was still in confinement, her mother stepped forward to comfort her daughter and reprimanded Xu Moulin, but such a reprimand didn't seem to have any effect.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

After the confinement was over, my mother went back to Shanghai to work, but within a few months, Wu Qing cried on the phone, "He was like a madman and suddenly slapped him..."

It turned out that the child was sick that day, and the husband and wife took the baby to the hospital to see a doctor, Wu Qing held the baby in the hospital for more than ten hours, his hands and legs hurt, and he wanted to let Xu Moulin hold him for a while.

Dad said to let Wu Qing call the police, but he had already left the hospital at that time, and suggested that she go to the village committee...

However, there was no one in the village committee that day, Wu Qing went home with a black face, and before he went back, Xu Moulin immediately knelt down to admit his mistake and gave Wu Qing a letter of apology and a letter of guarantee.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

One of the guarantees that Xu Lin wrote to Wu Qin

That time, at that moment, looking at the man kneeling on the ground, Wu Qing chose to forgive again.

However, domestic violence has always been 0 and countless times, Wu Qing's departure makes us unable to explore how many times he has been abused by this husband in her marriage, what kind of water and fire is her life, a man who can do something to his wife in confinement - how incompetent is he?

In an interview with Phoenix.com, there was an interview with a neighbor, in which he described Wu Qing's life and the family she married...

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

In the eyes of the neighbors, Xu Moulin's violence came from his family, from his mother, their family began to fight as soon as they ate, never closed the door when they quarreled, and never knew how to avoid people, the neighbor's impression that Wu Qing often went out with blue eyes, which can explain a lot of problems, she was not beaten once or twice.

Maybe in a certain period of time, one or two complaints to her parents were just a helpless choice in her extreme state of collapse.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

My sister has told Wu Qing on the phone more than once that you don't have to endure domestic violence, you have to learn to resist, or call the police, and it will become a habit for him to beat you.

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In the eyes of her mother, Wu Qing's married life is not only full of violence, but also all kinds of suspicions, all kinds of control, Wu Qing's married life lost her job, and for a long time she lived a "palm-up day", such a day of reaching out for money, very aggrieved, but it is also a lot of ordinary people, ordinary life, just look at whether you meet a good person, or a person without conscience.

But is it really that easy to leave?

Wu Qing has escaped from this quagmire abyss many times, in 2022, she rode an electric motorcycle from Kunshan to Shanghai, that year the epidemic spread, the electric car on the way to Shanghai was insufficient, she stayed in a hotel, fully charged and set off, finally arrived in Shanghai, caught up with the blockade, and could not enter her parents' house.

Wu Qing has sold hardware in the suburbs, worked in the employment agency, and even worked as a volunteer in the cabin without telling her family, at that time, she said to her mother: "Two hundred a day, self-supporting, this is my own money." ”

I don't know, what kind of mood it is to see the readers and friends here, and my aunt and me, this woman, she is so undeserved, why would fate arrange a demon to be by her side, and even give birth to this demon?

Are all the men in this world dead? Such a woman?

In February 2023, Wu Qing submitted a divorce lawsuit to the court, and after a trial, the court said that the evidence was not enough to support the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, and the divorce application was rejected.

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate
A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

The victim had filmed herself as a victim of domestic violence

The trapped woman, she can't escape from this swampy place, in the eyes of her sister, her sister's marriage is a cage, she said, after marriage, both of them have no fixed income, many times the living expenses are the sister opens her mouth to reach out to her mother-in-law, and a lot of quarrels occur because of money.

Sometimes they have to ask their mother-in-law for money to take a taxi and buy salt, and the two of them only have to go out and not go in, and for a long time, Wu Qing will borrow three hundred and five hundred from his parents.

Quarrels have become the norm, domestic violence has been repeated again and again, and Xu Moulin's assurances have been written one after another, but even so, the marriage has not been divorced.

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The most tender wife and the most cruel husband

On May 15, 2023, Xu Moulin visited the Wu family's rental house twice a day, the first time he said that he wanted to see the children and take the children out to play, and he had also come to harass him many times for this reason, and the marriage and the husband and wife have already existed in name only, if there is no bloody case, divorce is only a matter of time.

Xu Moulin did not fulfill the responsibilities of a man and a husband in this marriage between the two of them, he not only committed domestic violence, he couldn't even give the mother and son at least food and clothing, in the last period of time, he repeatedly used his son to come to the door to find trouble...

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

Every time he assures that he wrote "the most beautiful, the loveliest, and the most temperamental wife", but that day, after he came to the door for the second time, he embodied his bestiality to the fullest, he smashed the door and window, and he took the knife with a sharp hand...

Wu Qing's neck has been spurting blood for a while after he left, and her stomach has been stabbed several times, and her mother covered Wu Qing's wound with her clothes, but she couldn't cover it...

Blood, dripping all over the floor, from the rental house, to the outside of the gate, and yet, all this was seen in the eyes of a four-year-old child...

A 25-year-old woman who had her throat cut by her husband! If your man abused you, please leave, don't hesitate

On April 19, 2024, the first-instance verdict of the case was announced, and Xu Mouling was sentenced to death with a two-year reprieve. Wu Qing's family could not accept such a result, and once collapsed, saying that they would continue to appeal.

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