Recently, the topic of "should young people give up their lower bunks to the elderly" has frequently rushed to the hot search. The reason is that an aunt posted a video accusing the young people in the lower bunk of hanging curtains on the bunks to prevent people from sitting, having no quality, and disrespecting the elderly.
Young people are saying:
Recently, another video of an aunt asking to change the lower bunk rushed to the hot search, but this time in the comment area, there was no abuse or accusation. Netizens have said: This is the correct way to open the shop.
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In the video, the aunt walked over cautiously, with a kind smile on her face, and politely asked the girl in the lower bunk: "I have something to discuss with you, can it be done?"
After getting the girl's reply, the aunt explained that they only bought tickets for the upper bunk, but there was an 83-year-old man at home who couldn't climb the upper bunk, so could she change it with the girl, and she could make up the difference for the girl.
This kind of tone and attitude is difficult for people to refuse. Who doesn't get old, who doesn't have an old man, it doesn't hurt to provide some convenience appropriately. Eventually, the girl agreed to switch places with her aunt.
As soon as this video came out, it was immediately praised by many people.
Many netizens said that I was embarrassed not to change such an attitude.
In this society, no one owes anyone, and no one is obliged to help you. If you ask for help, you must have an attitude of asking for help, explain the difficulties to others, and seek the understanding of others, so that others will be willing to help you.
The tougher your attitude, the more no one will pay attention to you!
It is appropriate to make up the difference, and the person who asks for a change of position should take the initiative to bring it up, otherwise why should others suffer to help you?
A better solution is to ask the authorities for help and ask the flight attendants to help, so that they don't cause trouble to other passengers.
Good attitude, good listening, but also considering that you can't let others suffer, most people are willing to change, some people don't want to change the price difference will agree to change with you, after all, 83 years old is really old, should understand.
In fact, most young people are very kind and caring, as long as you explain the situation politely and gently, they will agree to change positions.
After all, the quality of young people is unknown, and when they are strong, they are strong. When you meet old people who lack morality, young people have no qualities, and the more you kidnap them with morality, the less moral they become. People are like looking in a mirror, they are all mutual.
Everyone will grow old one day, we should have a respectful and courteous attitude towards the elderly with limited mobility, but the elderly should also treat the young equally, and do not rely on the old to sell the old and make trouble unreasonably.
When you go out, everyone is a little more polite and polite, and the whole society can become better and better.