My name is Zhang Juan and I am an ordinary housewife. My husband Wang Ming and I have been married for ten years and we have two lovely children, a son and a daughter. Recently, however, our family has been locked in a dispute over fertility.
Eight years after we got married, I got pregnant unexpectedly, and although it was a bit unexpected at first, Wang Ming and I decided to give birth to this child. So, we welcomed our third child, a lovely daughter, whom we named Xiaoyu.
However, shortly after Xiaoyu was born, Wang Ming suddenly made a request that shocked me: he wanted me to have a ligation to make sure we wouldn't have a fourth child. I felt very hesitant and uneasy to hear this request.
I know that Wang Ming's request is not unreasonable, three children have already made our lives quite stressful, and having another child may make us even more burdensome. However, I still have an inextricable concern about having a ligation.
I had a long conversation with Wang Ming, and he tried to convince me to have surgery, but I was still hesitant. I was worried that if I had the surgery, I would not be able to have children again if something happened in the future, which would make me feel very frightened and uneasy.
Wang Ming understood my concerns, but he still insisted that surgery was the best option. The arguments between us became more and more intense, and we even had serious quarrels over this issue.
At this time, I decided to go to my good friend Xiaoli for advice. Xiaoli is a very sensible and mature person, and she is often able to give me good advice. I told her about my troubles and confusion, and she was silent for a while after listening, and then said, "Zhang Juan, I understand your concerns, but you also have to consider the relationship between you and Wang Ming. Marriage is built on mutual trust and respect, and it would be a shame if you had a rift because of this issue. ”
After listening to Xiaoli's words, I fell into deep thought. I think of the years that Wang Ming and I have gone through, we have experienced many difficulties and challenges, but we still support each other and face them together. I don't want to ruin our relationship because of this issue, and I don't want our family to have a rift because of this issue.
Eventually, I decided to accept Wang Ming's suggestion and perform the ligation surgery. I know it's not an easy decision, but I'm willing to make this sacrifice for our family to make our lives more stable and happy.
After the surgery, I felt a sense of relief and relaxation, and I knew that my relationship with Wang Ming would be stronger because of it. Our family will also become more harmonious and happy because of this decision. I am willing to give everything for our future because our love is worth it.