Now, I don't know if there is anyone like Xiaobian, sometimes because of some trivial issues, there will be some senseless quarrels with the people around them.
In fact, in married life, it is normal for couples to have occasional disputes, but I just hope that every couple can communicate calmly and properly when they encounter problems, and solve things properly, so that each other's feelings will get better and better.
Speaking of which, in the past two days, some friends may still be on the New Year's holiday, but Du Xiao, an Internet celebrity uncle in Henan, had some unpleasant things with his wife Nana during this time period, which caused some estrangement between the two.
1. Why does the gap occur?
I believe that friends who have watched Du Xiao's video know that Du Xiao has been working hard all these years, and through his hard work, he has achieved his current achievements and happy life.
In married life, Du Xiao is also a very good husband, whether it is to his wife or his wife's family, he is very good, and it can be said that he is very considerate and caring.
And Nana, as Du Xiao's wife, has always been very happy, with a husband who loves her so much, plus her in-laws are also very good to herself, it can be said that she is married to a chicken dog ascending to heaven, so her life after marriage is also very satisfying.
It's just that recently, maybe because of some trivial things in life, Nana wants to pay the rent for her sister and boyfriend, so she has some disagreements with her husband Du Xiao.
In fact, in life, it is normal for couples to occasionally have some conflicts and disputes because of money issues.
It's just that Nana's idea of doing this is indeed a little inappropriate, and it has not been approved by her husband, so there are some contradictions and estrangements.
And Du Xiao's idea is that since Nana's sister is already an adult, she should learn to be independent, instead of always relying on her family, so what she should bear by herself should still be faced by herself.
Of course, maybe in everyone's eyes, Nana's thoughts are indeed to better help her sister, but maybe you should communicate with your husband and listen to his thoughts, so as not to hurt each other's feelings because of some misunderstandings.
2. How to deal with such problems correctly?
In married life, communication between husband and wife is very important, no matter what problems you encounter, you should sit down and communicate calmly.
Only through communication can we understand each other's thoughts and feelings, so that we can find the best solution and solve the problem properly.
Perhaps because of her work, Nana has hardly gone out to work in recent years, so now she has the idea of going out to work so that she can reduce some of the burden on her family.
And her husband Du Xiao's approach is that he will give his wife a salary every month, so he doesn't want his wife to affect his life because of work.
Both wives and husbands should respect each other's ideas and listen to each other's ideas so that they can find the best solution.
Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, Nana's idea is indeed a little inappropriate, but maybe we should think more about it from her point of view, so that we can better understand her thoughts and find the best solution.
No matter what kind of ideas and difficulties there are, husband and wife should sit down well, discuss together, support and encourage each other, so that the problem can be properly solved, and the relationship between each other can become better and better.
Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, Nana's idea is indeed a bit inappropriate, but maybe we should think more about it from her point of view, so as to better understand her, and to find the best solution, I hope that the family can resolve the estrangement as soon as possible and live happily together.