Before I got married, I knew that there was an unmarried eldest sister in the family. At that time, my best friend persuaded me to think twice, saying that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was difficult to get along with, an aunt is equivalent to a mother-in-law, you married two mothers-in-law, can you have a better life then!
I was skeptical about this, because the eldest sister seemed to have a big personality, not like a difficult person. I think it's a bit too hasty to give up on my boyfriend because of this.
At that time, I also asked my husband, "My sister is older than you, why don't you get married?"
My husband pouted: "A man's wife, where can she get married, I'm afraid we will have to support her with our children in the future." ”
After getting married, I found out how powerful this eldest sister is, no one dares to provoke her at home, and even if her father-in-law is not right, she is still open and ruthless.
I got pregnant two months after I got married, and the pregnancy was so bad that I couldn't eat for several days, and the sound of vomiting could be heard by my neighbors across the wall. My mother-in-law joked, "Luckily, it's not the time for family planning, otherwise it wouldn't have been stolen." ”
Because it was so uncomfortable, I had to take leave one after another and couldn't go to work. Slowly, the company had opinions, and the leaders were also sneering at me. I was thin-skinned, so I had the idea of quitting.
My husband disagreed, saying that we are still paying off the mortgage, if you resign, the expenses will be greater after the birth of the child, how will you maintain it at that time.
My sister kicked him aside and said, "Don't listen to him, the child's parents will help you raise it together." Then he told me bitterly: "But if you can persevere, it's best not to resign, your current job is okay, after resigning, you want to go back, I'm afraid you can't find such a good job, but if you really can't persevere, then you should rest." ”
I was very unhappy when I heard it, and I felt that none of them could see me rest, and I wanted to resign, so I handed over a letter of resignation to the leader in a fit of anger and went home to give birth.
After the child was born, my mother-in-law took the baby with me, and my mother-in-law is a very traditional woman, thinking that women should be good wives and mothers, and their feelings are not important, she did this, and she asked me to do so.
Once when we were eating, the child suddenly cried, and my mother-in-law called to me, "The doll is crying, go and feed her." ”
I was about to put down the dishes and chopsticks to pick up the child, but my sister held me down and said to my mother-in-law, "What's wrong with the child crying for a while? "Then I finished the soup in my bowl and went to help me watch the children.
My husband is the kind of straight man, very honest and hardworking, but he can't say nice things and speaks straightforwardly. Because my mother-in-law and I have a child, he always thinks I'm a bit hypocritical.
Once he said to me: "Look at Pengfei's daughter-in-law, she can cook at home alone with her children, she can do anything, and she doesn't need anyone's help at all." ”
Peng Fei is a good friend of my husband, his parents opened a store, and he didn't have time to help his daughter-in-law take care of the children, and he worked in other places, and his daughter-in-law was indeed alone with the children.
I didn't know what to say at the time. My sister suddenly asked, "What's wrong with Pengfei, didn't you see him last time, what's going on?"
My husband didn't understand my sister's words, and replied, "It's okay, who said he had an accident." ”
My sister said, "Why is his daughter-in-law widowed if nothing happens?"
I laughed out loud with a "poof". My husband was looking ugly.
I usually spoil children, often buy toys and beautiful clothes for children, and I want to give my daughter everything I didn't play with when I was a child, and I didn't wear it, so that she can dress up beautifully.
On this day, I bought another set of Hanfu skirts for my daughter, and my mother-in-law saw it and said, "Buying this kind of skirt again, it is inconvenient to wear and it is not easy to wash." ”
When my husband heard this, he also said: "That's it, if you don't make money every day, you will know how to spend indiscriminately." ”
I felt a little uncomfortable when I heard this, and my sister came over directly and slapped my husband on the back of the head: "I think you want to be beaten, you can't even afford to support your wife, don't reflect on whether you are too weak, and you are embarrassed to complain here." ”
The husband glanced at his sister and dared not speak out.
After I got married, I gave birth to two daughters one after another, and my in-laws both wanted sons, and they have been urging us to have three children. My husband said that he would not give birth, and now the pressure of raising children is too great, and it is already very difficult to raise two daughters.
The in-laws said: "It's not that we don't help, you can still make money, and you will definitely contribute money and efforts when the time comes." ”
My husband said: "My daughter-in-law is not in good health, and she will be an elderly woman again." "I really don't want to have a child, not to mention that the third child may not be a boy, let's just say that my first two were caesarean sections, and the risk of having another third child is too high.
But the mother-in-law said, "Didn't your cousin give birth to three children by caesarean section, and she is older than your daughter-in-law, what can she do?" ”
We didn't know what to say.
My sister interjected at this time: "Don't just talk about it, it's all about painting cakes, give birth to a son and raise two million now, you can take one million first! Don't wait for the child to be born and regret it, who knows if your words count." ”
The father-in-law said, "Can we still trick you, your father is still earning money, will I not care if I have grandchildren?"
My sister smiled and said, "Then who knows, if one of you two is lying in bed after the child is born, let alone to see the grandson, my brother and daughter-in-law still have to take care of you, and when the time comes, the child will add an old one, wasn't my mother like that back then?"
My father-in-law said, "I think I'm in good health, and I can work for at least ten years." ”
My sister said: "The old Li Tou next door also thinks that his body is very good, it is not overnight, it is not gone, he is two years older than you!"
The father-in-law was speechless and said, "Can you be a little taboo in this mouth." ”
My sister didn't care: "My words should be so smart, and the bad guys won't need to be arrested by the police in the future, I will curse them alone, and they will be gone." ”
I couldn't help but snicker as I watched their father and daughter scare at each other.
My eldest sister also often "meddles" in our lives, but I love it.