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There is such a hot topic: why is it becoming more and more difficult for rural boys to marry daughters-in-law?
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Once the old bachelor is asked why he doesn't have a girlfriend, he will usually answer bluntly, "because there is no money", but is it really because the old bachelor will become an old bachelor because he has no money? Every February 14th, May 20th, and Tanabata, you will find that many people have girlfriends when you go to the street, and you can usually see a few scattered couples on the street, although there is no investigation and there is no right to speak, but even if I don't investigate, I dare to be sure and affirm, a large part of the men in the group of people who have girlfriends are not rich, there are factory brothers, courier brothers, takeaway brothers, and even poor ghosts, but they have girlfriends, so why did the old bachelor become an old single, is it because there is no money?
In the past, rural girls had no home, no land, no source of income, and had to marry. Now, even if you don't get married, you can find a factory to eat and live, and you can go to the city to study well, no matter what, some people choose.
is over half a hundred years old, but there is no home of his own, and it is good when there is no contradiction, but once there is a contradiction, I find that this life is just under the fence, and there is nowhere to go.
I'm from the countryside, anyway, I don't want to get married, and getting married in the countryside is a fertility tool, and there is no freedom. There are a few people who say matchmaking this year, and the introducer is really strange not to mention the basic situation of the boy, just say that his mother is very good, don't worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it's close to my house or something. My parents have always said that if there is a suitable one, I will agree, at this stage I really don't want to get married, I told my parents, and they didn't listen.
So I'd rather spend more money to buy a house in my hometown county for my parents to live in, rather than spend less money to renovate my family's old house. My mother didn't understand this, I knew very well that I had a younger brother, and the family's land and homestead had nothing to do with me, and the money spent on the renovation would end up with no room at home, and the house I bought was written in my own name.
Rural women do not have a hometown, only a place of birth. Rural women also do not have the status of rural people, they are only the property of rural people.
I just heard a very angry thing, my cousin's family has a boy and a girl, the family has a deposit of 40w, bought a house for my son in full, and gave my daughter a dime, so angry that I am, hey, I really don't treat my daughter as a person, just a life that lives to catch her breath, hate.
Hahaha, I remembered the man next door to my aunt, the first year and I added WeChat I didn't see the above for work in the field, and then he got along with a girl, my mother also ate the candy he set up to marry, one year Chinese New Year's Eve called me at almost eleven o'clock in the evening, the name was not said and crackled, openly and secretly said that I wanted to go on a blind date, I asked my mother what the situation was, my mother said that he was not married, how to still look for you, immediately called my aunt, it turned out to be that the girl was pregnant to propose relatives, his father said to buy a house to pay off the mortgage and buy a car to let the woman pay for the wedding, the woman ran away from the fetus[embarrassing]
A 60-year-old retired uncle in the same village just found a 20-year-old female college student who had just graduated, and he didn't want a bride price and gave birth to two sons.
Thinking of my dad [tears and laughter] He used to bring me the leftovers of the hard dishes of the big restaurant when he went to dinner, and I ate very fragrant (my family was in average conditions when I was young) and was told by my mother, saying that the leftovers were unhygienic and not given to me.
A real example around me, there is a rural restructured family boy, also blind in one eye, married a daughter-in-law, at the wedding banquet, everyone thought it was his twin brothers with good eyes to get married, and was shocked that the other one was a blind masseuse, and he also married a daughter-in-law in the past two years, both of them are down-to-earth and peaceful people.
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