After reading the results of the Shenzhen woman who was slapped by her father-in-law, I realized how disgusting the word "domestic violence" is!
At around 9 p.m. on April 17, Ms. Shu and her father-in-law, Cai Moumou, had a disagreement at home over the issue of taking care of their children.
At first, Ms. Shu said, "Then I'll bring it myself." ”
As a result, Cai Moumou said: "I don't worry about you. ”
Ms. Shu then retorted: "I don't worry about you yet, I will bring my own child." ”
As a result, the old man suddenly became angry, walked from one end of the coffee table to the other, and shouted: "I'm going to beat you today." ”
Then he snapped and gave the woman nine slaps in a row!
During this period, the small children were so frightened that they cried, while the older children looked like they were in their 10s, but they were also frightened by the battle in front of them, and they wanted to help their mothers but didn't dare to help, so they could only gently pull the old man's clothes.
As for the woman, when she was slapped for the first time, she was beaten to tears, and then she was beaten to her knees and begged for mercy, shouting: "Dad, I was wrong, I'm sorry!"
Looking at that picture, I was really angry and helpless.
The old man is disrespectful to the old, and he even fights his daughter-in-law, neither respecting his daughter-in-law, nor completely caring about whether it will cause a psychological shadow to the child.
The woman who was beaten was too weak to make any resistance when she was beaten, and called the other party's father, kneeling and begging for mercy from the other party.
No wonder netizens said: Don't show netizens this, netizens' mammary glands are also mammary glands.
It's not easy to think about this session of netizens, the day before I watched "The wife poured boiling water on her husband for domestic violence" and the mammary glands were cleared, but the next day I saw that the daughter-in-law was beaten by her father-in-law to her knees and begged for mercy, and the mammary glands were blocked again!
However, the infuriation is still to come.
After the beaten woman posted the video on the Internet, it quickly attracted the attention of the relevant departments, and it is said that the street, the women's federation, the police station, and psychological counselors all came to the door to care for and comfort the woman.
At first glance, you think that's pretty good, right?
But in fact, when the police came, they only let Cai Moumou, who beat people, leave Ms. Shu's house, and did not detain him or punish him in any way!
The surveillance has obviously filmed the process of the old man beating people, and he has beaten so many times in a row, if it is a stranger, he will definitely be detained, right?
Just because the two are father-in-law and daughter-in-law, they don't need to bear any responsibility?
It was obviously a deliberate injury, but because it was dressed as a "family", the way the departments dealt with it was just to mediate, is this fair to the person who was beaten?
In addition to Ms. Shu's daughter-in-law of Cai Moumou, she is also a person, why is her right not to be hurt as a human being violated, but she has to give in to the relationship with her daughter-in-law?
At this time, I also have to admire the person who invented the term "domestic violence".
Because of his invention, many shameless people escaped the punishment of the law, and countless women fell into the despair of being beaten.
According to a survey, 30% of married women in China's 270 million households have experienced domestic violence, and one woman is subjected to domestic violence every 7.4 seconds.
Domestic violence is also an important cause of female death, 40% of the women killed by him are directly killed by domestic violence, and among the average 157,000 women who commit suicide every year, 60% of the reasons for suicide are domestic violence!
Some people may say that it is too stupid to divorce if you can't get through it and lose your life in a wrong relationship.
However, through a statistical analysis of thousands of divorce litigation judgments involving domestic violence from 2017 to 2020, a research team found that when the appellants applied to the court for a divorce after suffering domestic violence, only 324 of them were supported, less than one-third of the number of people who filed lawsuits!
As for why it is not supported, the court has its own arguments, for example, many women say that they have been subjected to domestic violence, but when they are asked to submit evidence of domestic violence, more than two-thirds of them cannot submit it.
Although some people reported to the police when they were beaten, because they did not do an injury appraisal in time, or did an injury appraisal, it did not constitute a minor injury, and they basically would not be sentenced to divorce.
Therefore, it is not so much that those women who have been subjected to domestic violence do not want to divorce, it is better to say that our law has set too many regulations for them, so that they have no way to escape from the fire pit smoothly!
In the movie "I Passed Through the Storm", the heroine Xu Min wanted to collect evidence of her domestic violence, so she secretly installed a camera at home.
But her husband is a thoughtful criminal master, and he has installed a camera long before her, so he knows her every move at home.
Every time he hit Xu Min, he wrapped his fist in a towel, so that Xu Min would be beaten with internal injuries, but he couldn't detect the injuries at all;
He knew where the monitoring blind spot was, so every time he made a move, he pulled Xu Min to the monitoring blind corner and then hit it......
And the content of this movie is all based on real cases.
It can be seen that if a woman who is subjected to domestic violence is facing a calm domestic abuser, it is impossible for her to get evidence of her domestic violence, and she must provide sufficient evidence to be divorced by domestic violence, which has trapped most of the domestic abused people.
Therefore, it is already so difficult to adduce evidence, why can't the punishment be heavier for those domestic violence that already have solid evidence? At least it should be the same crime as intentional injury!
It is hoped that the term "domestic violence" will be abolished as soon as possible, and that no matter what the relationship is, as long as the person who hits someone is dealt with as the crime of intentional injury.