"Dad, I can't carry on the family for our family. ”
As a saying goes, Duan Yihong won the actor award for the third time with "Blizzard is Coming", but in real life, he is not physically disabled, nor is he unable to have children due to an accident, the reason is that he is a Japanese woman who walked into the marriage hall with him......
As a lover of the Anti-Japanese War and military dramas, Duan Yihong is a rough man with iron bones.
Patriotism and eclecticism are his representative words, never thought that many outstanding women in China, none of them actually entered his eyes, for a foreign woman, hard pursuit for 9 years;
For the sake of this woman, he was willing to bear the name of "unfilial son" and let his father die with regret.
Looking at Duan Yihong's life, it seems that he can express his understanding of his choice, and I also hope that the love between the two can be co-founded.
There are thousands of women in the world, maybe Wang Jin is the most suitable for him, and it is also worthy of him to disobey his parents, and he must choose Dink to spoil her......
01
I wish to have one heart, and the white head will not be separated
"Mom and Dad, after nine years of proposing, today Wang Jin finally agreed to marry me. ”
When the parents were ecstatic for their son's bumpy long road of love to finally blossom and bear fruit, they were instantly poured down from the head by their son's basin of cold water.
"I also promised Wang Jin, I only wish she alone in this life, I don't want to have any more children, and in the future, Dink, the two will help each other until they are old. ”
The mother was stunned for a moment, still recalling and thinking about the meaning of "Dink" in her son's mouth.
The father reacted instantly, it turned out that he was cutting off his children and grandchildren!
"Unfilial descendants, I don't care about your long-distance love run, but let me be a grandson and endure the ridicule of my fellow villagers, it is better to be angry with me today."
He was moved by his son's loyal love, but as a parent, he couldn't bear to let his son's dream of having his children and grandchildren around his knees for a woman to be shattered.
He can only vent his dissatisfaction through swearing, hoping to shake the decision in the child's heart, and also hopes to use family affection to dispel the idea of combining the two.
But at this time, the son of the "love brain" was not swayed by his father's curse and his mother's hesitation.
He left only one sentence: "If you don't agree, then I will have to die alone." ”
The smoke of the father and son was also extinguished because of Duan Yihong's insistence.
The old couple began to murmur in their hearts, what kind of woman can make their son, who has always been filial piety, disobey them and choose to get married?
If they get married, how can they have a place in this family?
In the past, the person who wanted to see his son was always shirked by his son on the excuse of being busy, but this time they told their son: "If you want to get married, we must first check it." ”
When the old couple met, they were greeted by a gentle and graceful woman, and fluent Mandarin, unlike the legendary Japanese who bullied the weak.
Wang Jin faced the questions of the two elders, and explained indifferently: When I was young, because of my studies, I went abroad to study and became a Japanese citizen by the way, but after staying for a long time, I miss the simplicity and warmth of China even more.
The old man asked aggressively, Wang Jin behaved generously, and he was not arrogant and arrogant because of his family's good conditions, and he was always polite to the elderly.
The old man really didn't believe that the quiet and polite woman in front of him would be a person who took "Dink" as a precondition and agreed to get married.
Faced with the interrogation of his parents, Duan Yihong interrupted the second elder several times, and wanted to escape with his girlfriend halfway during the banquet, even if he couldn't get married.
Wang Jin faced it indifferently, pressed Duan Yihong's clenched hand, and directly said the reason for "Dink": "I'm afraid that it will be difficult to get pregnant, if it is a little improper, I may give birth to a child and die on the spot, and I am even more afraid that because I am busy with work, I can't be a qualified mother." ”
In the face of Wang Jin's concerns, the old couple felt sorry for this "complicated thinking" child, they thought that the fear in their hearts could be changed by the warm environment of their home sooner or later.
In order to fulfill their son's bumpy love, they "temporarily" acquiesced to the idea of the two Dink and agreed to the marriage of the two.
But how can the change of thinking be so easy, and the beauty of a woman is so short, can the second elder get his wish?
02
If there is love in the hearts of children, the affection of parents is always there
In June 2011, Duan Yihong and Wang Jin entered the palace of marriage under the witness and wishes of their parents.
After marriage, Wang Jin found that Duan Yihong was an out-and-out career maniac, always conscientious in the face of acting, although he treated her with great care as always, but the tiredness in his eyes every time he came back could not deceive people.
Duan Yihong also under his hard work, TV and movies blossomed on both sides, and successively cooperated with the famous director Feng Xiaogang in the era movie "1942", "the most expensive TV drama director" Gao Xixi started filming the costume drama "The Legend of Chu and Han", and cooperated with Huang Lei and other old drama bones in the drama "Four Worlds in the Same Hall".
has been in the entertainment industry for many years, and his good acting skills and dedicated attitude are his reputation, so he works the set every day, and treats his wife Wang Jin mostly only by phone, and it is late at night when he comes home, watching his wife always understand his own difficulties and help him take care of his "unreasonable parents", he only feels that life at this time feels warm.
But after a few years of marriage, the elderly parents already have a lot of doubts about the two of them, and they have a lot of opinions about Wang Jin's "Dink thoughts". On the one hand, they need the company of their son, and on the other hand, they are afraid of facing this "incompatible" daughter-in-law.
Duan Yihong was busy with work, and during the period, he also explained that he was busy with work, not suitable for children, and did not have time to visit the second elder in time, but Wang Jin faced the weakness of her "filial piety" husband, so she took on the responsibility of visiting her elderly parents, and had to go through a long transportation to visit the second elder every month.
In 2017, Duan Yihong's father was deeply afflicted by heart disease, and not only had to rely on drugs to maintain it, but also needed a young and careful person to take care of him full-time.
However, Duan Yihong's two older sisters are also busy with their own work and family, and due to the influence of the traditional idea that "sons should take care of their parents", they do not have time to visit and take care of their seriously ill father.
At this time, Yihong had signed a contract for the TV series "Extraordinary Mission" and "Master of Memory", and he also wanted to risk the huge compensation for breach of contract and go home to take care of his elderly father. But his wife Wang Jin was willing to endure the dislike of the old man at this time, and endured the inadaptability to the environment of Duan Yihong's hometown: Xinjiang, and should take care of the elderly.
She takes care of Duan Yihong's father meticulously, shuttles between the hospital and home, treats the elderly for medical treatment, and cooks nutritious and delicious meals, he understands the emotional attachment of the sick elderly to their hometown, and does not force the elderly to drag their elderly bodies to the place where they live for medical treatment, so that Duan Yihong can complete the TV series shooting task with peace of mind, so that he can shine in his ideal acting career.
But Duan Yihong's father was still under Wang Jin's careful care, and left the world with a heart attack. Before leaving, she seemed to let go of her obsession with "children and grandchildren", and wished her a good life with her son.
In the face of his father's death, Duan Yihong always bowed his head and cried in the middle of the night in the future, and when his father left, he felt guilty for not being able to meet the idea of his father's children and grandchildren, but out of consideration for his wife's body, coupled with his desire to work hard wholeheartedly, he did not complete his father's regrets in the following days, and still passed on the "Dink".
But the hard work of his career and his love for his wife are all due to the decadent childhood life of his childhood, which also makes him cherish and cherish the happy time now, and stay away from the emotional scandals in the entertainment industry.
03
Decadent childhood, endless white moonlight
Duan Yihong never thought that he would be able to work hard in the film and television industry in the future, eat a bite of art, and create a good economic foundation for his parents' pension, but he disappointed his father and died for a woman.
In 1988, it may be due to the Xinjiang people's lack of self-knowledge of art, although he could not sing and dance, but the agility of his eyes created his talent for acting. For the theatrical evening held by the school, he repeatedly rehearsed his sketch "Knowledge is Power", in which he played a shrewd vendor.
Under his hard work, he not only received praise and laughter from teachers and students in the school, but also received praise and praise from professors from the directing department of Shanghai Theater Academy, who believed that Duan Yihong was very suitable for the path of an actor, and also welcomed him to become a student of the acting department in the future.
Duan Yihong, who was aimless, was guided by his professor, and he began to have a goal in life, which was to learn acting and become an actor.
But for the first time, due to insufficient preparation, I failed in a try. After a short period of sadness, he thought that since the well-known professors recognized him as being able to take the path of acting, then he still had talent.
So he applied for the central opera exam for the second time, during which he worked hard to learn cultural knowledge, learned from the experience of his failure in the last exam, and once again explored the path for actors, but this time it was a little better, and he failed the second exam, and he still did not enter the acting class that was difficult to remember.
At this time, he doubted himself, could it be that the professor thought that I had a talent for acting was blind, lying at home and depressed.
He wanted to try again, but he was afraid that his family's financial conditions would not allow it, and he would not be able to open his mouth to his father, so he tried again and again for the sake of that unrealistic dream.
But his father still prepared the tuition early, and Duan Yihong carried his father's hard work and hope, and was finally admitted to the Chinese opera for the third time, and he was admitted to the school with the first place in the total score of the Northwest film.
But this does not change the inferiority complex in his heart.
After entering the school, Duan Yihong's class ushered in a woman who thought that he was on par with him in grades and had the same strength: Tao Hong.
Out of appreciation for excellent people, the 22-year-old felt that he was in love, but at that time, Tao Hong only had career development in his eyes, and only friendship between classmates for Duan Yihong.
In 2000, Tao Hong became popular all over the country with the role of Xiaolongnu in "Spring Splendid Pig Bajie", and gained love, and came together with Xu Zheng, the leading actor in the same play.
When he felt inferior for the development of his career, and when he was sad for the love that had not been opened, he met his own love: Wang Jin.
04
Change my heart, for your heart, I know each other hundreds of millions of years deep
At that time, Duan Yihong showed his head and feet in the circle with the small roles in "The True Colors of the Criminal Police", "Let Love Be the Master" and "Modern Temptation", while Wang Jin was already famous with the "Moon Girl" in "The Woman Under the Grape Trellis".
In 2002, the two collaborated on "Proof in Memory", and the two had more rival scenes, which made Duan Yihong understand that Wang Jin was a junior sister in the same school as him, and Wang Jin's seriousness and positive and energetic work attitude towards acting affected him.
In the past, he was exposed to acting because of the guidance of his professor, and because of his father's full dedication, he worked hard in the complex entertainment industry, but he can see Wang Jin's love for acting and his pursuit of career, which made Duan Yihong sprout a love for acting in his heart, and he didn't think that being an actor was a simple job.
And the unrequited love that was not told in the previous paragraph also made Duan Yihong more grasp love. He often uses the excuse of being a teacher to go out of the same school, taking care of Wang Jin, coupled with the coaxing of the people around him, at this moment he boldly and eagerly told the love in his heart, Wang Jin agreed to his confession in the face of a gentle and delicate man.
Since then, she has often offered advice for Duan Yihong's career and helped him negotiate suitable film and TV resources, which made him enjoy the sweetness and comfort brought by this love very much.
Duan Yihong believes that there is no woman more suitable for him in this life, helping him build confidence and helping him have a brilliant career, and Wang Jin after marriage does help him stabilize the rear and take care of his parents, which is also worthy of his dedication and love.
With "Soldier Assault" and "My Regiment Commander, My Regiment" made him famous, and his worth began to rise, he thought that good material conditions were the best dowry for him to ask Wang Jin, but Wang Jin refused him again and again.
It turned out that Wang Jin was afraid of getting married and having children, and wanted to "Dink", and he was even more afraid that Duan Yihong's family, who was an only child, would not agree, but Duan Yihong said: "As long as it's you, they will like it." ”
In order to make Wang Jin feel at ease, Duan Yihong transferred the property in his name to Wang Jin, and also took her to know her parents, and then the two also entered the happy world of the two, after marriage, Duan Yihong always felt sorry for Wang Jin, and understood her fear of having children, even if it was for her to disobey her respected father, the kind-hearted Wang Jin was also worthy of Duan Yihong's wholehearted dedication......
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In Duan Yihong's eyes: Dink life, enjoy life, Wang Jin does not have to sacrifice himself for the sake of inheritance.
And Wang Jin also helped Duan Yihong settle down his family and make suggestions in his career, so that he could shine in his career with peace of mind.
Although two people who love each other can't make outsiders agree with their view of love, they still live their own happy time.