It's not easy to see whether a man is good or bad during the dating period, after all, they definitely do their best during the pursuit period and treat themselves as model students. But the nature of a man, from whether he knows how to "master the scale" can know a little bit or two, pay attention to 6 key clues when getting along with him, you can see whether he is polite, whether he knows how to respect, and whether he is sincere to you.
01.
Don't be overly enthusiastic all at once
When sending messages, know how to leave blank space in the speed of reply, but always full of feedback when the topic is hot; when meeting, act intimately but keep a distance, there is sauce at the corner of the mouth, and will not directly reach out to wipe it for you, but hand you a tissue to deal with it yourself. Keeping warm but not overly enthusiastic, showing affection but not crossing the line, shows that he is a person with a sense of boundaries and respect.
02.
Speak and think about each other
There is a kind of man who loves to "preach", has opinions about your dress, interests and preferences, whether you like to listen to it or not, he grabs a thing and expresses his opinions crazily, he doesn't say it explicitly but praises himself every word, and he is in a hurry to refute your words before he finishes listening. Compared with Taotao, high-quality men will listen to you first, and even if there are differences of opinion, they will ask gently and discuss easily.
When chatting with him, you can talk freely and without pressure.
03.
Will always look you in the eye while chatting
When talking to the other party's eye contact, it is the smallest but also the most basic respect, when chatting he always swipes his phone to send messages, absent-mindedly looking around, if he doesn't even have the most basic politeness to strangers, how can you expect him to be a good person?
04.
Remember your preferences and discover your little habits
Men are creatures who hate trouble, and it is better to kill them if they want to remember the trivial little things that girls like. Therefore, if there is a man who remembers your preferences, knows your birthday, your favorite color, and even discovers small habits that even you don't know about, such as: the particle of your every sentence, the shallow pear vortex when laughing, it means that he really likes you.
05.
Leave room for you after the confession
When it develops to a certain extent, he may confess to you, but he will not rush to ask you for an answer, and he will not keep reminding you to reply after that, but get along normally and without pressure until you take the initiative to bring it up.
If you are a little embarrassed, he will not be annoyed or use emotional blackmail to make you feel guilty, such as: "There is no girl who is so suitable for me except you", "Usually girls chase me, you are the only person I want to chase".
06.
Feedback will be given when good intentions are received
When he receives gifts and blessings, will he give a positive response and express his gratitude? Even if it is just a sentence that the work is going smoothly and a cup of milk tea is more than a dozen yuan, when there is no relationship, these little things are extra pay, if he can take it to heart, in addition to representing that he is polite, he does not take other people's intentions for granted.