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Some people say that when people get along with each other, often only people with the same or similar energy to each other can resonate and interact with each other together.
In this society, there is sometimes a so-called circle culture, and it is difficult to force tolerance between different circles.
The boss will have the circle of the boss, the director will have the circle of the director, and the people will have the circle of the people.
Sometimes the so-called road of counterattack in life is a process of constantly upgrading and fighting monsters, and continuous efforts to break the circle have the possibility of changing fate.
Some people also say that in this life, you need the help of nobles, so that you can better break out of the cocoon into a butterfly, be reborn from the fire, and go straight to the sky.
But but, when a person can't help Adou, when you encounter such a role, will all the nobles take the initiative to pull you?
Sima Qian said:
"The world is bustling, all for profit, the world is bustling, all for profit. ”
There will be such an underlying logic, and there will be enough value behind the basic support of getting along, any kind of interaction, and any kind of business rules.
It also means that a person has to work hard to make himself born to the sun, continue to grow, have the so-called value and even better value, in order to match the beautiful people and things.
When you slowly get better, those high-frequency people and things can continue to get closer to you, and the blessings will work.
02
I believe that Dong Yuhui is excellent, and of course he is also the one who stands out from the crowd.
But in the live broadcast room of Dongfang Selection, a kind of success was born, called Dong Yuhui-style success.
Talking and laughing, exporting, humorous, and philosophical, these excellent traits have also been successfully integrated into Dong Yuhui's body, and it is logical that Dong Yuhui has also become a good son-in-law of the people.
But I always believe that any kind of success is not an accident.
Behind any kind of success, there is his logic and law in the final analysis.
Zhou Huajian once sang in the lyrics:
"No one can succeed casually. ”
If a person doesn't work hard to get better, even if you have a better platform, you won't have the kind of heroic life where you spread your wings and fly high.
Iron also needs to be hard, no diamond diamond, don't do porcelain work.
A good platform not only achieves you, but also needs your talent to achieve this platform.
Without a lot of accumulation, without a lot of reading, without a lot of thinking, there would be no Dong Yuhui-style success today.
03
Life is your own, and your days are also your own, whether you choose to work hard to live in the sun, or choose to break the jar, so you have a completely different life.
In this world, sometimes the truth of life is cruel.
It's like very few people will help a so-called "helpless" person.
watched an interview video with Jet Li, which is particularly thorough, those behind-the-scenes bosses who make movies may not like Jet Li, but they must like Jet Li to help them make money.
A person must first be valuable, so that you can better meet the source.
When a person's energy is insufficient, there is almost no so-called social circle, and he simply lives his life like a pool of stagnant water.
Sometimes value is the biggest driving force for social interaction, just like doing business, not necessarily people looking for money, but money looking for people.
Sometimes even if you live in the village, you may also see such a phenomenon, some people have a certain ability that is difficult for the village people to achieve, such as building a house, such as writing Spring Festival couplets, and when needed, they will often come to the door to ask for something.
Improving oneself and making oneself valuable is the way to constantly break through.
04
In many speaking sessions, I often share this idea with my audience.
I say:
"When you go to a company to look for a job, if your ability can only help the company create 3,000 yuan of value, then the company's survival instinct will not give you 3,001 yuan in wages and income. ”
Sometimes, looking at the marriage market of young people now, where people with high incomes and good jobs have good jobs, the resistance they encounter in finding a partner is destined to be very small.
Some ordinary people who have nothing to do and think about it may be a tragedy when it comes to finding a life partner.
When a person slowly becomes stronger, you may find that there may be more unexpected opportunities than you imagined.
When Sun Wukong was still a stone monkey, he was accompanied by a group of unknown monkeys.
But slowly, when he became stronger, he had 72 changes, the ability to make trouble in the Heavenly Palace, and the ability to control the clouds, and the demons and monsters around him began to call him brothers.
When making trouble in the Heavenly Palace, even in the face of a character like the Buddha, he will have enough confidence to say something like this:
"The emperor takes turns to do it, and this year comes to my house. ”
When a person's energy is getting bigger and bigger, they can meet people with greater energy and get in touch with more opportunities and platforms that they couldn't imagine before.
05
In the workplace, there are people who want to jump, even if the height is unbearable, they must do their best to go all out, which is also a kind of breaking circle.
Sometimes it is difficult for you to encounter such an emotion, what kind of run-in and courtesy will they have between the leader and the led class.
This society needs us to create a steady stream of value, and the people around you will also wear a variety of tangible and colored glasses to constantly examine your value.
When a person is valuable and is needed by others, it is an uninvited call to come to the door.
A soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier, maybe this sentence is not necessarily true, but if you don't get in the position of general, it is difficult for you to have more opportunities to contact those better generals, let alone contact them for more growth opportunities.
When you are on the road to getting better, you may have the possibility of becoming a late bloomer.
For actor Zhang Songwen, it can be said that it is ten years of sharpening a sword, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and he has his own in-depth polishing and scrutiny of his acting skills, which has become an instant hit today.
When you see him at his best, he will come into contact with more directors, and he will meet more outstanding roles beckoning to him, there are too many commercial invitations, and the road to acting is getting wider and wider after all.
There are not so many births in this world, and all your glory and achievements may be just the starting point of others.
The exchange of energy and value is often the bargaining chip and hole card of interpersonal communication.
Instead of waiting for the mercy of the nobles, instead of looking forward to the favor and favor of fate, it is better to take the initiative, go against the current, forge ahead in the age of hard work, and grow decisively.
When the mountain does not come to me, I go to the mountain.
When you slowly get better, those high-frequency people and things can continue to get closer to you, and the blessings will work.
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