The uncle was sentenced to 13 years for raping and molesting his niece for 7 years, and the family has the vigilance of the daughter: most of the sexual predators are by the child's side
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Recently, the news of sexual assault by an acquaintance sparked heated discussions among netizens.
It happened in Shanxi.
A girl was raped and molested by her uncle Zhao Moumou from the third grade of elementary school to the second year of high school.
The duration of the violation is up to 7 years.
During this period, the uncle, who was inferior to the beast, raped and molested the girl many times in his own house and the girl's house.
Girls are even forced to have sex in the car that takes them to school.
and threatened the girl after the incident that she could not tell her family.
Because of the long-term violation, the girl repeatedly injured herself and even had suicidal thoughts.
Recently, the court announced the verdict and sentenced the defendant Zhao Moumou to 13 years in prison for the crimes of rape and forcible indecency in accordance with the law.
Ruining a girl's life, the consequence is only 13 years.
Regarding this verdict, many netizens said: It's too light!
"From the beginning of the juvenile, seven years, this life will be spent in the shadows, and the criminal has been sentenced to thirteen years! This price is too small. ”
"Oh my God, from the third grade of elementary school to the second year of high school, I feel so sorry for this child, the childhood that can heal life is in hell. ”
"Thirteen years, you can buy out a girl's destroyed youth and a lingering shadow for a lifetime, and the lower the cost of crime, the higher the crime rate. ”
There are also many netizens who remind: If you have a daughter, you must be wary of acquaintances committing crimes!
"Girls can't be alone with any man, you never know what the other person is like, really. ”
"It is often these acquaintances, neighbors, relatives, friends, and parents who are troublesome to pay attention to, and these people don't know 100% and don't believe it. ”
"If you have a daughter, you must tell your child that there are too many things like this with the sense of distance and boundary with the familiar and unfamiliar opposite sex, and I have heard of it before. ”
"Parents also have a good eye, relatives and friends of the opposite sex are not allowed to stay alone with their children, and the heart of harm is indispensable, and the heart of prevention is indispensable. ”
Yes, child sexual assault, you must be wary of acquaintances committing crimes!
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Child sexual assault cases
7 Chengdu from acquaintances to commit crimes!
Many parents will teach their children not to talk to strangers, not to let strangers touch their private parts, but ignore the acquaintances around them.
Too many children who have been violated tell us that the most important thing to be wary of is acquaintances.
Actress Xin Zhilei shared her experience of being molested when she was a child, and in the comments she shared, many girls shared their experiences of being violated when they were children, most of them acquaintances.
There is a neighbor brother.
I have a cousin and a friend who has a father.
There are uncles and neighbors' sons.
The experience of being hurt is a lifelong nightmare for these girls.
Therefore, parents, for whatever reason, should be cautious about handing over their children to outsiders to take them out, and don't just let acquaintances perform guardianship for you.
According to the statistics of the Girls Protection Fund of the China Children's Culture and Art Foundation:
Among the 317 sexual assault cases in 2018, 210 were committed by acquaintances, accounting for 66.25%, and nearly 7 percent were committed by acquaintances.
In the cases of sexual assault by acquaintances, the teacher-student relationship accounted for 33.80%;
netizens accounted for 18.57%;
Neighborhood relationship (neighbors, same village, etc.) accounted for 14.76%;
Kinship (father-daughter, step-father-daughter, adoptive father, brother, relative, etc.) accounted for 11.90%.
The numbers are incredible, but they are unmistakably true.
Demons are often around, and they are cloaked in warmth and hypocrisy, and they take simple and lovely children as prey!
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How can we protect our daughter?
How can you prevent your child from being sexually abused?
When young children are molested or sexually assaulted, it hurts and is angry just thinking about it.
But the frequent occurrence of sexual assault really worries many parents.
How can we protect our children from harm, and how can we keep them safe from demons?
First of all, the most important thing is to severely punish the perpetrators, so as to have a deterrent effect.
Stricter laws and stricter supervision are needed to treat those who sexually abuse young children.
Then, we must do a good job in children's sex education.
Every time a sexual assault incident occurs, pregnant mothers can see some heavy words.
Some children are unaware of the abuse and are "playing" with the teacher in the future.
There are also children who are threatened by their perpetrators and are afraid to tell their parents, allowing the assault to happen again and again.
Parents, sex education is really urgent.
For children, sex education is sexual protection education, which is the cultivation of children's self-protection consciousness and a firewall to teach them to protect themselves.
We can't change the world, but we can teach our children: how to protect yourself!
These sex education knowledge must be taught to children.
First: Intimate parts should never be touched
●The genitals and buttocks of boys are private parts.
●A girl's breasts, reproductive organs, and buttocks are all intimate parts.
Tell the child not to kiss and hug casually, the private parts protected by vest shorts, can not touch, can not take off pants outside, can not be touched by others, can not touch others, if you meet someone touched, be sure to refuse loudly, and then tell Mom and Dad.
Second: Teach your child to be the first to sound the physical alarm
These five alarms are a very comprehensive summary of various dangerous scenarios, and children must be taught to sound physical alarms.
● Visual Alert: If someone wants to see your private parts, or asks you to see their privacy, say no.
● Verbal alerts: If someone talks about private parts, say no.
● Touch Alert: If someone touches your private parts, or lets you touch their private parts, refuse them.
● Alone Alert: When the bad guy is alone with you, say no.
● Hug alert: If someone hugs you, carries you, or kisses you, say no.
Third: Be wary of acquaintances committing crimes
A very terrible statistic, 7% of sexual assaults come from acquaintances.
Don't give your child to someone you don't know at any time, let your child understand that not all people can kiss and hug, let alone touch private parts, strangers definitely can't, and some people can under certain conditions.
Make a list of love circles with your child and tell them that if mom and dad are away, the nanny or grandparents can help him change clothes and take a bath, but no one else can do it.
Fourth: Be the strongest backing for your child
Every parent should give their children a full sense of love and security, maintain good communication with their children, and be the strongest backing for their children.
Only by letting the child believe that no matter what mistakes she makes, her parents still love her, she will not be coerced and deterred by the bad guys, and tell the child that no matter what happens to him, his parents are his dependence.
Please be sure to tell your child, don't believe the lies of the bad guys, be sure to tell Mom and Dad, and don't believe the threats of the bad guys, Mom and Dad are strong and will not be hurt, and Mom and Dad can also give him the best protection.
Fifth: Teach your child to say no out loud!
Tell your child that if someone wants to touch you, be brave enough to say no and say no loudly.
When there are many people, you can shout for help, contact your parents in time, and your parents should be the listeners of your children.
Communication is important for kindergarten children, and it is important to talk to your child every day about what is happening at school.
If you notice that the child has abnormalities, you must pay attention to and intervene, and the parent's neglect will hurt the child again, and it will also lead to the possibility of the child being hurt again.
Sixth: Make good use of sex education picture books
If you can't grasp the degree of sex education, then take your baby to read picture books together, and these picture books on sex education are highly recommended:
● "Serena Williams Rushes Forward" - a perfect solution to children's curiosity and desire for knowledge.
● "Know the Body" - Teach children to know their own bodies.
● "Mom Laid an Egg" - answer the child, where did I come from.
● "My Little Cock" – Tell your child what not to touch.
●"Don't Touch Me" - The picture book tells children which hidden parts of the body are not allowed to be touched by anyone, and what to do when encountered.
● "The Secret of Evil" - let children understand what actions to do and what not to do.
● "Why Am I a Boy" - Satisfy children's curiosity about gender.
● "Don't Kiss Me Casually" - Teach children to express their opinions bravely and protect themselves.
● "Don't Just Go with Strangers" - Introduce some of the ways that children really need to deal with crises.
Finally, I retweeted what a parent said: "Sex is like water, are you afraid that your child will drown? ”
As this sentence says, the correct way to protect children is not to keep them away from sex education, but to let them receive the right sex education.
Finally, the pregnant mother hopes that all children in the world can be treated gently and away from all the demons in this world!
References:
"American Sexual Assault Prevention Teaching Short Film" and "Hubei Economic Television" @梨视频@辛芷蕾 @法制日报