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It is said that all living beings are bitter, and no one in the world is smooth sailing all his life, and he has to taste all the sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty to truly taste the taste of life, but some people are bitter for a while, and some people are bitter for a lifetime. God sometimes faints, but he is cruel to a person, making people feel that life is too bitter, and they really don't want to come to the world again in the next life. The experiences of these people I want to talk about below are really more bitter than the other, and their fate is really three points more bitter than Coptis chinensis.
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Aunt Lu is a person born in the 60s, and her husband has a son and a daughter, making up a good word, as a result, Aunt Lu and her husband who have children and daughters have not lived a few years of happy life, their two children are less than 5 years old, and suddenly can't stand up. Doctors in local hospitals, large and small, could not find the cause of this disease, let alone treat the symptoms.
Aunt Lu's son and daughter can only lie in bed all day long, and Aunt Lu takes care of them, and the people in the village are reluctant to go to Aunt Lu's house, and Aunt Lu's neighbor said that the legs of the two children are broken into several sections, and they grow together, which makes people look particularly worried, the key is that these two children can run and jump before the age of 5, and they are no different from other children, and they look very smart and clever, no one can understand what is going on, and they can only blame God for not opening their eyes.
Later, Aunt Lu and her family gave birth to another boy, and when the child was still very young, they took him to the hospital for various examinations, and they also took the child to the big hospital in Beijing, and the doctors said that the child was very healthy and could not see any problems. As a result, when Aunt Lu's youngest son was almost 5 years old, the bad luck of his brothers and sisters befell him again, and it was still the kind of disease that broke when the bones were broken, and they couldn't grow well if they were broken.
Then Aunt Lu and her family didn't dare to let their youngest son walk on the ground easily, so they followed the doctor's advice and said that they would walk on the ground after the child grew older and his bones were harder. Now, Aunt Lu's youngest son is a teenager, his leg is lame, he has not gone to school for a day, and because he rarely interacts with outsiders, the child is particularly afraid of strangers and is reluctant to communicate with others. Every time Aunt Lu took her youngest son out to visit relatives, she let her youngest son sit on the tricycle the whole time, and was not allowed to go to the ground, for fear of a little accident.
Aunt Lu and her family are very kind people, they have never done anything lacking in virtue, I don't know why God treats them like this, because none of the three children in her family are normal, Aunt Lu's family is very depressed, and Aunt Lu's husband is always depressed and doesn't talk to people much. On the evening of the winter of 2014, Aunt Lu's husband drank a few more glasses of wine at a relative's house, and on the way home on a motorcycle, unfortunately he was planted in a big river on the side of the road with a car, and by the time he was found, he was already out of breath.
The hemp rope is broken in detail, the weasel bites the sick duck, Aunt Lu's family is already difficult enough, and God has to take away the pillars of their family. After her husband died unexpectedly, Aunt Lu was so sad that she couldn't breathe, she really wanted to go with her husband, a hundred, for her, death is easy, life is called difficult, she is gone, what should the three children do? Without her, how should these three children live? In the end, after Aunt Lu wiped away her tears, she chose to laugh with the three children in life, since she could not change her life against the sky, then face life calmly.
A few years ago, Aunt Lu had a brain disease and fell, and one side of her body was not good, but fortunately, after a period of time, her body slowly recovered, but she still left sequelae, she could simply take care of people, and she couldn't do it at all with a little focus on work. In the spring of the previous year, Aunt Lu's eldest daughter was gone, and now Aunt Lu and her two sons depend on each other, and Aunt Lu's three children were all very smart when they were young, who would have thought that they would become like this? Aunt Lu's family's current life is worrying, Aunt Lu is already in her 50s, if she has a physical condition one day, what should this family do? Who will help them? With the passage of time, as Aunt Lu gets older and older, this day will come sooner or later.
Xiaojun's second uncle had liver cancer when he was very young, and when it was detected, it was already at an advanced stage, and it didn't take long for him to die of torture, when Xiaojun was only in his 10s, and he will never forget the scene of his grandparents, second aunt and other relatives who were heartbroken and crying.
After Xiaojun grew up, his grandmother was diagnosed with stomach cancer again, and like the second uncle, it was at an advanced stage as soon as it was detected, and his grandmother was unwilling to go to the hospital for treatment, and she died of pain and starvation. 4 years ago, Xiaojun's father was diagnosed with kidney cancer, which was also in the advanced stage, and at the end of his life, he had been tortured by the disease and lost his appearance, and there was really only a handful of bones left. Although Xiaojun's family did not give up during his father's illness, but actively took him to a major hospital for treatment, in the end, it was only in exchange for psychological comfort that he had done his best, and his father finally left. During his father's illness, Xiaojun also realized what it means to be warm and cold, and the wall fell down and everyone pushed it.
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Two years after his father's death, in April 2022, Xiaojun's sister was diagnosed with breast cancer again. When his sister was sick, Xiaojun, as his elder brother and the only pillar of the family, accompanied his sister to work in the hospital for another year.
Although there is nothing abnormal in Xiaojun's health, due to the illness of his father and sister, the family not only does not have any savings, but also owes a lot of foreign debts. He doesn't have any commercial housing, a car, or a girlfriend, and he is already 27 years old and he is not even qualified to fall in love, so what girl will take a fancy to him? Forget about being poor and white, there are still so many people in the family who have died of cancer, and maybe one day bad luck will find him, and what will happen in the future? Who knows? The future of others is full of hope, but the future of Xiaojun is full of thorns, and there is always a large dark cloud overhead, and it is impossible to tell when a storm will suddenly come.
Xiaojun's fate makes people sigh, I don't know why God wants to behave so much misfortune on him and his family.
On the day of the funeral of Brother Zhu's grandmother, the funeral procession passed by the house of a lonely old lady in the village, and the people in the village called this old lady Grandma Zhou, and Grandma Zhou and Brother Zhu's grandmother married to this village in the same year. When fighting devils, Grandma Zhou's husband disappeared, the whole family was scattered, Grandma Zhou was not pregnant when she was widowed, and she was unwilling to raise other people's children, hoping that her man would come back to her in a few years. Others told Grandma Zhou to persuade her to remarry, but they were all rejected, and the wait was decades.
Grandma Zhou has been lonely since she was a teenager, and when she was young, she could still have two acres of land to plant, and then with the passage of time, she is getting older and older, and her health is not particularly good, so she relies on the village to send oil and rice to help. The neighbors and the people in the village committee also took great care of Grandma Zhou, knowing that it was not easy for her to be alone, so they sent some vegetables and eggs every now and then, and even the cheapest thief in the village would not patronize Grandma Zhou's house.
Now the village will give Grandma Zhou a few hundred yuan of condolences every year, she is old, there is no place to spend, and she doesn't know where to spend it, so she told the village cadres not to give her any more money, let her help save it and buy her a coffin in the future.
Once when Brother Zhu returned to his hometown, he passed by Grandma Zhou's residence, and in the winter, he saw the old man holding a plastic bag to light the firewood, and squatting in front of the fire at the door to keep warm during cooking, looking particularly pitiful. This time, when Brother Zhu's funeral procession passed by Grandma Zhou's residence, she stared at the funeral procession in a daze, and kept looking at Brother Zhu's coffin intently, her eyes full of embarrassment and envy. Maybe in Grandma Zhou's view, it is also a kind of happiness to have so many people to send the last journey, and having a coffin to bury is already the best destination, and for her, this may also be an unattainable luxury!
Some time ago, a netizen who had never met me had a voice chat with me, and he said that when he was only a few years old, his mother left home without saying goodbye, and he can't remember what his mother looks like now. In 2012, the netizen's father died of stomach cancer, in 2014, his grandfather died of lung cancer, and in 2017, his grandmother died of lung adenocarcinoma. Now only 23 years old, he seems to have been forgotten by the world, no one cares about his well-being, and no one cares how he is doing. In real life, he doesn't have any friends, he rents a house outside, a lock when he goes out, a light when he goes back, and his life is so simple that it couldn't be simpler. What will the future hold? Netizens said that he didn't want to know at all, let's take one step at a time!
The young man spoke to me in a very calm tone, without any sadness or resentment, while I, an irrelevant person, could hear all the sourness contained in his words. At that moment, I really wanted to hug this young man, pat him on the shoulder, give him warmth and encouragement, at a young age, he suffered so many misfortunes that others could not encounter in their lives, his life is only bitter and not sweet, even if more sugar is artificially added, I am afraid that he will not be able to taste a trace of sweetness.
This netizen said that he was silent for a long time, and I don't know what words to use to comfort him, because no matter how good I say, I can't erase the trauma in his heart.
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Many times, when we encounter a little injustice or suffer a little setback, we begin to complain about others, feeling that people all over the world have failed us, but we don't know that there are too many people in this world who are 100 times more miserable than us, and they are suffering in life every day. Some people say that if you are not satisfied with your current life, take the time to go to the hospital to have a look, compared with those seriously ill patients, the life we are not satisfied with now is the happiness that they envy but cannot obtain. So what we really need to learn is to understand contentment, there is no perfection in life, no matter what kind of fate we encounter, face it and face it calmly, this is what we should do most, isn't it?
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