The dispute between the upper and lower berths of the train reappeared on the Internet, and this time the voice of public opinion was still a bit loud, young people bought the lower berth and closed the curtain, turning it into a private space, and the older passengers on the upper berth could not see it, thinking that it affected their right to sit on the lower berth.
This is a very small thing, it happens every day, but the proportion is not high, in the past, everyone felt that there was no need to discuss, and if they could sit, they could sit and sit, but now, everyone is more emphasizing their rights, but it has triggered a huge discussion, and the ugly people have to come up with the law to talk about one, two, three, four, five.
In fact, some things are too clear but uncivilized, appear smart but not wise, there is a "grayscale management" in management, because many things are not black and white, either/or, the upper and lower bunk seats are like this, we have always used grayscale to manage, that is, everyone is not so clear, does not affect the rest of the lower bunk, the upper bunk can also sit down, the two sides can even talk about it, in the long journey is not a kind of scenery.
The first time I took the train was more than ten years ago to go to school, when it was still a green train, it took more than ten hours, at that time I knew that the train still had sleepers, poor students, we all sat in hard seats, and then after graduation took the train to have the opportunity to sit in the sleeper, at that time it was not very possible to choose a seat online, whether it was the upper or lower berth completely depended on luck, I sat on the upper bunk, the lower bunk also sat on, I did not dislike the upper bunk when I had the lower berth ticket to sit in my place, and I also sat on the lower berth when I had the upper berth ticket.
When the green train, often for a long time, lie down for a long time also need to get up to walk, sit down, the key is that you still have to eat, although there are seats in the corridor, many times we are still used to making instant noodles on the side of the bed to eat, or take their own retail in the middle of the two lower bunks by the window of the small table to eat and drink, the fate of the upper and lower bunks often can also chat a few words together, everyone is a passerby, in this short hours or more than ten hours can meet in a confined space, who said it is not fate?
If you really want to talk about the law and rights, the right to make the upper bunk does not include the lower bunk, and the right to the lower bunk does not include the upper bunk, which is well known to everyone, the reason why everyone has always been able to sit on the lower bunk by default, this is determined by our philosophy of life, and it is also determined by the mutual assistance and tolerance between our people, and it is the empathy and understanding of the people on the upper bunk, because everyone will have to sit on the upper bunk, in a confined space, there will be intersections, many things can not be so either/or, we have to learn to integrate with the people and things around us。
The lower bunk gives up part of the rights, let the upper bunk sit, this is the understanding of the lower bunk people, the upper bunk people can not think that this is the right to sit, you have to sit, some people do not want others to disturb, they want to spend this journey within the boundaries of their rights, this is completely reasonable, see this situation, you don't bother it, respect the choice of others, let you sit is love, do not let you sit is duty.
There are many such examples in life, such as a colleague taking you on the way, you are used to it more often, once he did not take you, you reprimanded the other party; every time you pass by, you give a beggar 1 yuan, and once you don't bring change, the beggar asks why you don't give it.
Things in this world can not be completely fair, and it is impossible to fully quantify, we need to understand each other, the position of the lower bunk is better than the upper bunk, no need to climb the ladder, next to the table, rest, dining are more convenient, you can look at the scenery outside the window on the bed, so everyone prefers the lower bunk, but this difference is difficult to adjust with price, although the price of the upper and lower bunks is somewhat different, but it is not enough to quantify the value difference between the two.
In reality, the way to deal with it is that everyone weighs each other, and the lower bunk transfers part of the rights to the upper bunk, after all, no one will be fixed and will only sit on the lower bunk, and the next time it may be the upper bunk, therefore, everyone also acquiesces that this method is effective, and for a long time they are relatively peaceful, and the people on the upper bunk are generally more careful when they sit on the lower bunk, and they are grateful, which is the result of mutual understanding, you understand the fatigue and inconvenience of the upper bunk, and I am grateful for the tolerance and friendliness of the lower bunk, which is a very intelligent solution.
What are you afraid of in this mode of processing? I am afraid that it will be more serious, I am afraid that it will be too clear, especially the upper bunk that is afraid of obtaining the transfer of rights not only has no feelings, but shouts with confidence: Why do you close the curtains and refuse to let me sit!
There was once a judge who also shouted such a sentence: Why should you help if you didn't hit it!
The people who shout this kind of thing are all the same vicious, the influence is extremely bad, they don't believe in the friendliness and care between people, they are full of their own interests, they see someone fall to the ground, this is someone else's business, it has nothing to do with me, if you help it, there is a ghost in your heart, it is you who hit it, his cat's, I can't be kind to help people? That judge, another day you have a heart attack and fall to the ground, we will watch from the sidelines, okay?
As the upper bunk, you originally did not have the right to use the lower bunk, it is this society that has let everyone have the phenomenon of sitting on the lower bunk for a long time with the principle of friendliness and mutual understanding, but this is love, not duty, after a long time, you think that it is your own right, and I will lend you a house to live in, and finally demolish and still share your demolition fee?
Some things are trivial, but it is not a trivial matter when it broke out, when the guy helped the old man was wronged, and finally led to our society regressing in this matter for decades, hundreds of years, helping the old lady to cross the road is an education since childhood, and it is the common value of our society, when the day it is broken, everyone is a victim, because anyone can suddenly fall to the ground, when you want to help, the demon pulls you: why do you want to help if you don't hit it?
Our society has been dealing with the bunk bed problem in this way for decades, and now you say, "Why don't you let me sit down?" How many years will it take for this matter to be regressed? When faced with this kind of thing, I hope that our public opinion, especially the official media, must stand up with a clear stand and tell the public what the truth is! Tell this society why it used to sit down. Public opinion not only has the role of supervision, but also has the responsibility and obligation to guide social and public values.