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"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

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After Chen Shuzhen passed away, she left a large inheritance, she gave the old house to her grandson Yao Zhiming, Xing'anli and the deposit to Mai Chenghuan, and those jewelry bags were given to her daughter-in-law Liu Wanyu.

Before this, everyone in the Mai family didn't know that Chen Shuzhen was such a rich old lady.

TV series "Chenghuan Ji" Chen Shuzhen has had two marriages, in the first marriage, her husband cheated and abandoned her, and then she had a twilight love with Mai Chenghuan's grandfather and became Mai Chenghuan's nominal grandmother.

After Mai Chenghuan's grandfather died, Chen Shuzhen rejected the kindness of Mai Laitian's family to take care of her and provide for her, and lived in a nursing home alone until she died.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

The name is "I don't want to cause trouble", but in fact it is "demarcating the line".

Chen Shuzhen is actually an old man who lives a very transparent life, although she is married to Mai Chenghuan's grandfather, but she has no blood relationship with the Mai family, Mai Laitian has only called her "old lady" for so many years, never called "mother" or "aunt" or anything like that.

This also means that she and the Mai family are only a family in the legal sense, and they are always separated by kinship or emotion.

Of course, this is also a realistic situation that many second-married couples will face, but there are not many who can be as transparent as Chen Shuzhen. In many restructured families, the children will complain that the stepmother or stepfather does not love them enough, and the stepmother or stepfather will complain that the children are not close enough to them.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

In Chen Shuzhen's eyes, these are nothing to complain about, but a matter of course. There is no blood relationship in the first place, of course, it is necessary to draw boundaries.

Chen Shuzhen went to live in a nursing home alone, which is a gesture of demarcation that she has shown. In fact, her body has always been strong, not only can she take care of herself, but she can also take care of Xing'anli, even if she doesn't go to a nursing home, it's no problem to live alone.

She did this to tell the Mai family, I don't want to cause trouble for you. A stepmother who is not related by blood, and people take the initiative to say that they will not cause trouble to themselves and do not need to take care of her to support her, so the sensible children will naturally maintain this kind of boundary.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

After the identity of Mai Chenghuan's ex-boyfriend Xin Jialiang's rich second generation was exposed, Liu Wanyu rushed to promote the marriage of Mai Chenghuan and Xin Jialiang many times, she knew that the Xin family looked down on Mai Chenghuan, and in order to increase Mai Chenghuan's worth, she did not hesitate to ask Mai Laitian to find the old lady to add a dowry to Mai Chenghuan.

Here Mai Laitian once said that Chen Shuzhen is not his own mother, and he has not been very close all along, so he is embarrassed to open this mouth. You see, this is the effect that Chen Shuzhen wants.

If Chen Shuzhen doesn't go to a nursing home, even if she doesn't need to be taken care of by the Mai family, it will make the Mai family feel that they are a family and can be separated from each other, so it will be much easier to make various requests.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

Chen Shuzhen went to live in a nursing home, which is to clarify her own attitude, she and the Mai family are this kind of half-intimate and half-alienated relationship, some things can be done, some things do not have to be done, there is no obligation and moral binding to each other, which is also to pave the way for her later life and future inheritance distribution.

Liu Wanyu's "greed and snobbery" and "unclear".

Nursing homes are not a desirable place for many elderly people, because in the traditional concept, the elderly still hope to have their children and relatives by their side and enjoy a happy family atmosphere.

Although Chen Shuzhen and Mai Laitian are not mother and son, and they are not so close emotionally, there are no contradictions and conflicts between each other, and they have always gotten along harmoniously.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

From this point of view, if Chen Shuzhen lives with them, it makes sense, and it doesn't have to go to a nursing home. However, Chen Shuzhen is different from ordinary old ladies, she is blessed with a huge amount of wealth, which prompts her to think more than ordinary old ladies.

Mai Laitian is a very honest person, and the two children, Mai Chenghuan and Mai Chengzao, are also simple and kind, but Liu Wanyu is not a good stubble. Liu Wanyu is not only strong in front of her family, but also very snobbish in the face of outsiders.

Liu Wanyu has long been full of complaints and grievances about her family's poor life, and often dislikes Mai Laitian's lack of ability, and learned that her daughter's boyfriend is a rich second generation, she riveted her daughter and wanted to "stuff" her daughter into a wealthy family.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

Such a person who hates to post it when she sees a rich person, if she knows that Chen Shuzhen not only has a valuable old bungalow, but also the operator and owner of Xing'anli, how can she be willing not to ask for it?

In fact, Chen Shuzhen is still very concerned about the Mai family, the Mai family's old house is soaked in water, Liu Wanyu is reluctant to spend money on decoration, Chen Shuzhen feels that it is not appropriate to hide it at this time, so she let them live in the old house temporarily.

But Liu Wanyu didn't plan to move out when she moved in, she felt that since the old lady was willing to let them live, it meant that they were regarded as a family, and since they were a family, the old lady was hers.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

After Chen Shuzhen died, it was clearly written in the will that this old house was given to Yao Zhiming, but Liu Wanyu still wanted to occupy it and refused to move out.

Do you think, if she had known that Chen Shuzhen was so rich, wouldn't she have been able to beat her up a long time ago.

It can be seen how wise it is for Chen Shuzhen to live in a nursing home before and keep a distance from them to draw boundaries.

"Chenghuan Ji" saw Liu Wanyu occupying the old house, and only then did she know why Chen Shuzhen lived alone in a nursing home

Epilogue:

People will seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, this is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it. But if a person is too snobbish and only wants to take advantage of others, and only wants to take other people's things for himself, it will be annoying and intimidating.

Liu Wanyu's personality and personality, if it is put in real life, not to mention that her mother-in-law will guard against her, even the marriage of her children will also be affected by her, which man is willing to accept an insatiable mother-in-law, which woman is willing to have an incomprehensible mother-in-law?

It is important to be born as a human being and to be yourself, but if you only think about yourself in your heart, it will be very pitiful and pathetic.

About the author: Xiang Xiang Acacia, a woman who likes to read and write, focuses on the creation of articles in the emotional direction of film and television, as well as the analysis and solution of problems in the emotional field, I hope my words can accompany you warmly.