Modern parents' views on children's growth: in addition to grades, it is more necessary to cultivate emotional intelligence and comprehensive quality
Grades are important, but they are not the only criterion
In this era of heroes based on scores, many parents are keeping an eye on their children's test scores, as if those few numbers can fully represent their children's strengths and weaknesses.
However, as an education expert with many years of experience in education, I would like to say that while grades are important, they are by no means the only measure of a child's growth.
Children's growth is a comprehensive process, and in addition to academic performance, their emotional intelligence, social skills, hobbies, and moral character are equally important.
A child with high emotional intelligence is better able to handle interpersonal relationships and better adapt to the social environment, and a child with a wide range of interests and hobbies will have a more colorful life and find his or her own direction in life.
Therefore, parents should step outside the framework of "meritocracy" and look at their children's growth from a broader perspective. Don't just pay attention to your child's scores, but also pay attention to their inner world and the development of their comprehensive quality.
Family education is the key to shaping a child's character
Some parents believe that as long as their children are sent to school, the problem of education is left to the teacher. However, the role of family education in the growth of children cannot be replaced.
As the first teacher of the child, the words and deeds of parents will deeply affect the character and quality of the child.
Excellent family education can cultivate children's sound personality, free thinking and independent spirit, which are important cornerstones for children to go to society and stand in society in the future.
Parents should realize that family education is not simply preaching and disciplining, but a kind of subtle influence and edification.
Parents should lead by example and set an example for their children, while at the same time paying attention to their children's emotional needs and giving them adequate love and support.
With both high EQ and IQ, children are more likely to succeed
In modern society, emotional intelligence and IQ are equally important. A child with high emotional intelligence is able to get along with others, communicate and cooperate better;
A child with a high IQ is able to grasp knowledge and solve problems faster. Therefore, parents should focus on cultivating their children's emotional intelligence and IQ, so that they can become double-high talents.
Of course, this is not to say that parents should blindly pursue the perfection of their children. Each child has its own characteristics and strengths, and parents should develop a suitable education plan according to the actual situation of their child.
At the same time, we should also respect children's interests and choices, so that they can grow up happily and be happy in their growth.
In this era of competition and challenges, parents should pay more attention to the all-round growth of their children. Don't just pay attention to the immediate results and rankings, but also pay attention to the future development and happy life of your children.
Epilogue:
A child's growth is a complex and lengthy process that requires the joint efforts of the school, family, and society.
As parents, we should jump out of the limitations of "meritocracy" and look at our children's growth from a broader perspective.
Pay attention to cultivating children's emotional intelligence and comprehensive quality, so that they can become knowledgeable, quality and capable people. At the same time, we should also give enough care and support to children, so that they can grow up and be happy in their growth.
Let's work together to pave a path full of sunshine and hope for our children's future!
In view of the fact that some parents have consulted me about the relevant suggestions of their children's family education, I have specially compiled these 20 sentences of parenting experience for parents and friends in terms of treating people and habits based on my own educational experience, which I believe will inspire and think about educating children.