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The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

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The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

The housekeeping industry is chaotic, all kinds of families are diverse, this article only represents individual phenomena, please look at it rationally, don't go online, sit down!

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Cars and cars came and went on the road, and large cars and small cars sped by, raising a puff of dust and smoke, and the sun spread down from the tall poplar trees, dazzling and warm.

It's getting hot on this day!

Zhao Huiping and a group of men and women were standing under the tree waiting for the coach, it was already past ten o'clock, and he hadn't come yet.

A student sent a message to ask him, and he said that he had gone to refill the gas and would come over immediately.

Zhao Huiping was a little apprehensive in her heart, she hung up on the third exam ten days ago, and the coach didn't even give her a look, took the driving school bus to the test room, and took the bus back home.

Students who have not taken the test are not even qualified to come back in the coach's car.

Even the safety officer who follows the car, if you hang up, where to hang, where to get off, throw you halfway, he drives the car and runs faster than a rabbit.

In this realistic, ugly society, taking a driver's license will hurt Zhao Huiping's body completely.

She had already made an appointment for next week's exam, and she had to come back to touch the car, and she had almost forgotten about it.

The coach came immediately, and made them wait until half past eight, he parked the car on the side of the road, closed the door and got out of the car with a bang, "Who came first? ”

Zhao Huiping walked over and asked humbly, "Coach, I have made an appointment for next Thursday's exam, can I practice for two more days?"

The coach said: "You see how many people haven't touched the car yet, and if you can't take the test, you can't practice, just come and run once the day before the exam, and take a walk on the route yourself, familiar with it." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "The route is fine, I can't pull over." ”

The instructor stood next to the co-pilot and said, "Think about it yourself, come over the day before the exam." ”

Zhao Huiping watched the coach drive away, she really wanted to scold, she paid the tuition to study, where did the coach get the sense of superiority, so that the students all whispered one by one!

A young girl next to her asked her how many times she had hung up? Zhao Huiping said, "Once, I hung on the side of the car twice in the last exam. ”

The girl said, "Pull over, I can't run straight, I've hung up three times, and I'm broken." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "You are already great, I think I will leave me and hang up three times, I guess I don't have the courage to take the test again." ”

The girl said, "It's annoying, did you stuff money into the security officer last time you took the exam?"

Zhao Huiping said: "No, what's the matter? Didn't the coach say that it's all cameras, don't let you do those useless things?"

The girl said, "Don't listen to him, don't you think about it? ”

Zhao Huiping thought for a while and said, "Then why did you take the test three times?"

The girl said, "I just don't have any money?"

Zhao Huiping was very curious, "What's the matter, the coach said not to talk, not to move, and there are cameras." ”

The girl said, "You should be more hidden." ”

didn't ask what the number of ways to go, Zhao Huiping told Liu Quansheng about this on the way back, he said: "Then you come back, wait for me to go back." ”

Zhao Huiping changed her mind halfway and went to the driving school, and Coach Song smiled when he saw him, "Have you practiced driving?"

Zhao Huiping said: "Don't practice, don't I hang up in the third department? The coach won't let me practice, I can't pull over, coach, you can teach me." ”

Coach Song said, "I won't, I'll teach subject two." ”

This is what Zhao Huiping expected, driving school is like an assembly line, subject 2 and subject 3 are different coaches, if he does the subject 3 coach, it is easy to cause conflicts.

Zhao Huiping knows that Kesan has not passed, why is the coach so angry?

When she was practicing subject 2, she heard from those students who failed the course that the coach's salary was linked to the exam rate.

In addition to their basic salary, if the student has taken one exam, the coach will get an extra 200 yuan, which is limited to one pass, and does not fail the course.

Therefore, it should be understood, after all, if people are not for themselves, heaven and earth will be destroyed!

But she still has to scold others, bow her head at the same time, if she doesn't bow her head, she can only suffer by herself, choose one of the two, which is easier to learn which.

Zhao Huiping gritted her teeth and took out a pack of cigarettes and a bottle of green tea from her bag and said, "Coach, you can teach me, I'm in a hurry to get a driver's license to find a job, and I can't open the pot at home." ”

Coach Song said: "I can't teach well, the car is idle over there, you go and practice again." ”

Zhao Huiping has never given gifts, she has grown up so big, and she lives a step-by-step life, and she doesn't have anything to do if she needs to ask someone for a gift.

The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

Wen Hui once said, "Many times, there is no chance is that you are not polite enough, when I opened the first store, in a community of bottom merchants, there is no parking space at the door of the store, there are often cars blocking the door, I always send things to the security guard at the door, sometimes it is cigarettes, drinks, and then I heard that he got a granddaughter, diaper giveaways in the store, small toys from the manufacturer, and then my store door is always vacant, taking advantage is always human nature." ”

Zhao Huiping used it for the first time, and this didn't work out.

Coach Song told her the main points, she practiced for an hour, and Coach Song said: "If you practice hard, you can't find the feeling, you have to think about it yourself." ”

After getting out of the car, she sat in the green shed and chatted with Coach Song, and when she talked about the third thing, Coach Song said, "Actually, there is a way." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "What's the way?"

The coach said: "You see you haven't done it the first time, you give some money, the second time is eight hundred, the third time is one thousand two, and the further you go, the higher it is." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "Have you wrapped it?"

Coach Song said, "Eighty or ninety percent, but give the money back?"

Zhao Huiping said: "Who is this money for?"

Coach Song said: "You go to your coach, and he will operate it for you." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "Our coach said that we are not allowed to do this, and it is not all monitored, why do you do it?"

Coach Song said: "They have a way, you just say that the secondary brake, they remove the brake pad from the brake, the system can't detect it, there is a way." ”

Zhao Huiping thought for a while and said, "I'll try it once next week, but if it doesn't work, I'll talk about it." ”

Coach Song said: "Of course, it is best that you can take the test by yourself, and you can say that some bosses, those who have no time, are very busy, and have no time to practice driving, this method is good." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "This is true, thank you coach." ”

Leaving the driving school, getting on the bus back, thinking about the coach's words, Zhao Huiping suddenly woke up, if you spend money, it is a matter of probability, if you pass the test, the money will be spent, if you don't, the money will be returned to you, back and forth, there is nothing to lose and no responsibility.

It's really a mix of people in the rivers and lakes, and all kinds of routines are deep!

It's hard to prevent!

Liu Quansheng got off work in the evening, Zhao Huiping said to him, Liu Quansheng said: "I didn't practice at the beginning, the first day on the car, the coach scolded me, I gave him a scold, found a coach car for 200 yuan, practiced for two hours and went to the exam, I will take you to find a personal trainer car on the weekend, you also go to study for two hours." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "There is no one over there now, and I haven't seen a private coach car when I go to practice." ”

Liu Quansheng said: "Yes, you just didn't pay attention. ”

Compared with time and 1,200 yuan, Zhao Huiping chose 200 yuan.

She can run four times in two hours, which means that she practiced for ten days in a row before the first exam, and touched ten handfuls, which is really incalculable.

The poor are poor and have only time left.

The efficiency of two hours is more cost-effective than ten days, Liu Quansheng grinded hard, called the driver master his brother, and sent another trip for 200 yuan.

It's really different, Zhao Huiping feels that she has a lot more confidence, and Liu Quansheng still chattered with her, "What's the matter? I'm okay with this method, the value of these two hundred flowers, right?"

Zhao Huiping really wanted to slap him flat, "If you didn't say it earlier, you wasted time and hung up once, I really convinced you." ”

The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

Liu Quansheng can also be aggrieved, "I said at the beginning that you would spend money to find someone to teach you, did you say that you have paid the tuition and no longer spend money in vain, and now you are complaining about me." ”

In order to ensure that nothing goes wrong, Zhao Huiping did her homework this time, and on the morning of the exam, she spent 50 yuan on a pack of cigarettes in the supermarket at the entrance of the community.

The pack of cigarettes burned her thighs in her pants pocket like a hot potato.

She spent money to simulate the exam route, Liu Quansheng took her on a motorcycle several times, and she was most afraid of Line 1.

There are two large potholes on the No. 1 line, one of which is in the simulated school section, and there is a very close distance after the car to turn back, and the place where the U-turn is the green belt of the two-way lane, where there is a tall shrub that I don't recognize, which perfectly blocks the view of the oncoming traffic in the opposite lane.

While waiting, she prayed not to draw Line 1, the first time to take the exam Line 3, the reality often backfired, when the horn called, she was the first of Line 1.

Zhao Huiping got into the car hard, the safety officer drove the car to the starting point, and she exchanged with the safety officer when she got out of the car.

After getting into the car and giving her ID card to the security officer, after confirming her identity, she got out of the car and walked around the car, and put the cigarette in her left trouser pocket into the storage slot of the car door.

Throwing away the hot potato, she calmed down and concentrated on the exam, for her, the most fearful thing was to pull over, and she couldn't stop in place.

The whole journey was smooth, when I came back, the turning system reported to pull over, Zhao Huiping panicked, shifted gears and stepped on the clutch, lightly stepped on the brakes, and looked at the front to lean on the side.

Leaned back again, closed his eyes, and stopped the car.

After waiting for a while, the system reported that it was qualified, Zhao Huiping's palms were full of sweat, she opened the car door and got out of the car, and the safety officer also got out of the car.

He stood behind the car and said, "You, lean to the side one by one, and then lean to the line." ”

He handed his ID card to Zhao Huiping, "It's over." ”

I finally passed the test, no matter what happened in the middle, it was a life experience, no matter what the process was, the result was always good.

Zhao Huiping was embarrassed to tell Liu Quansheng, she threw a box of cigarettes in the car, and she didn't want to think if the box of cigarettes had any effect, anyway, she had passed.

Finally breathed a sigh of relief, and went to her mother-in-law's place for dinner in the evening, Liu Quansheng praised her to the sky, "I knew that my wife was the best, amazing." ”

His mother said, "You have your wife in your eyes, it's amazing." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "There is still one level, there are 4,600 questions in the subject, or multiple choice questions, why do you have so many questions?"

In the past, she was dizzy, and when she went out with the bosses, she often sat in the co-pilot, never looked at the street signs, and paid attention to the road signs.

Now, she always keeps an eye on the bus, and she knows what it means.

The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

There are so many things to learn in a person's life, and you may inadvertently enter a new world.

After tonight, I started the crazy brushing mode again, subject four is ready to take the test, and many students have passed the subject four directly after the third subject.

The two exams were in one place, but she had to take her time, from subject 1 to subject 4, she focused on one thing at each stage.

After brushing up on the questions for one day, I made an appointment for subject four in a week.

There's still a week, and there's still plenty of time.

Zhao Huiping scored ninety-two points in the fourth test, and Liu Quansheng said: "Those two points are a waste, and you can hand in the paper after taking the ninety test." ”

On Thursday, she took the fourth exam, and on Friday, she could go to the driving school to get her driver's license, and the two thin pieces of paper made her understand too many things.

It's no wonder that you have to pay tuition fees every step of the way, because what you learn is different at every step.

I took a photo when I got home, and I couldn't wait to send it to the sister group to show off, "Sister got a driver's license!"

There are also several people in the group who are taking the exam, some are in their thirties, and some are older than her, everyone praises her, and those who don't get it express envy.

Aunt Chen asked her if she wanted to take the order, Zhao Huiping was a little hesitant, and during the time she stayed at home, she was anxious and fell asleep over and over again.

While shouting that he was going out to work, he saw that his pale face had turned bloody.

While feeling that I shouldn't be resting at home, I feel that my cervical spine and waist are much more relaxed.

She had other things to do, and wanted to wait a little longer, and after solving the big thing, she went back to her parents' house, this time there was no time limit, and she could rest at home for a few more days.

People in my hometown have no idle time, and there will always be endless farm work in a few acres of land.

The vegetables in the vegetable field are harvested every night, and her mother has to pedal a tricycle to sell them in the morning, the wheat has just been harvested, the corn is planted, the ground is watered and weeded, and all kinds of busy work.

Speaking of her work, her mother suggested that she go to Shanghai to find her brother, and her father hoped that she would live a normal life and not go far away, "You are different from your brother, your brother and your sister-in-law are together, bitter, tired, live, if you go, you can't get any of the work, Quansheng can't help you when you go to work, it's farther away, a few places in the family, it's not good at all." ”

Zhao Huiping made a phone call to his brother, chatted for a while, and talked about business, her brother said: "Not this year, many construction sites are still parked, and now people are not easy to find, you have no problem doing this, the key is that you can't do it alone, I want to do something else, in the past few years, your sister-in-law is tired, her legs are also wrong, and her waist is also problematic." ”

Zhao Huiping knew that just like she had been doing business in those years, standing every day and moving flour, her waist was damaged at that time.

In life, except for the fact that it is easy to get angry, it is easy to lose hair, it is easy to grow meat on the belly, and it is easy to grow old.

She was very entangled, the list that Aunt Chen could find for her was either in Shanghai or Suzhou, Liu Quansheng refused at all, and didn't let her go, "Don't forget, you are a family and a person, not a person, let's eat the meal in front of us, you count, Suzhou 10,000, we have 8,000 here, you remove the round-trip fare, it's almost, unless you come back once a year, don't you want your son?"

Aunt Chen said: "Don't listen to men, I tell you, they can't wait to tie you to the belt of your trousers, let me tell you, you come to earn 10,000 yuan, you don't rest for a month, four days of overtime, it's almost 12,000, you throw him 10,000 yuan a month, see if he still has a bang." ”

Zhao Huiping said this to Liu Quansheng, he said: "I don't want your 10,000, don't go." ”

But Zhao Huiping was very tempted, and she still interviewed the list that Aunt Chen found for her.

It is also a big family, with two children at home, usually she is housework and cooking, and she has to send her sister to dance separately from the nursery teacher on weekends.

During the interview, the female boss asked her, "Do you know how to drive?"

赵慧萍说:“刚拿的驾照。 ”

The female boss said: "I'm quite satisfied with you, but you just got a driver's license, and you can't give it to your sister, so you will have the opportunity to cooperate in the future." ”

The female boss is very high-quality, very gentle, very easy-going, speaks very well, and feels very respectful, she said: "I'm sorry, I'm delaying your time, Auntie, I heard Xiao Chen say that you are very good, but there is no driver at home, and you may not be able to drive." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "It's okay, thank you for giving me the opportunity to interview." ”

Cooperation is not character, and she has been doing a good job in this.

She told Aunt Chen, "I can't go out, my old Liu won't let me go out, the child is about to take the college entrance examination, and there are a lot of things at home." ”

Aunt Chen said: "Okay, respect your choice, I understand that the situation of each family is different. ”

There was no suitable list for the time being, Zhao Huiping couldn't stay at home for two days, and after breakfast, she went out to see if there was a suitable job.

The clerk of the breakfast shop has to go to work at three o'clock in the morning, three thousand yuan a month, and the tally clerk in the supermarket goes to work at half past seven in the morning, leaves work at half past two in the afternoon, and ends at two in the afternoon to nine in the evening, three thousand two a month.

Looking for a job on the APP, it is either sales, or selling insurance, or a cleaner, nanny, caregiver, maintenance personnel.

If a person is over forty and has no skills, what can he do?

Now it seems that her nursery teacher certificate has become her specialty.

At noon, she had dinner at her mother-in-law's house, and upstairs Aunt Hong and her daughter-in-law worked in a toy factory.

Her mother-in-law asked Aunt Hong to come down so that she could find out and see if she could also go to work in the toy factory.

Aunt Hong said: "I can't come back to the dormitory, and I always work overtime." ”

赵慧萍说:“老加班五千啊?”

Aunt Hong said: "If she doesn't work overtime, she won't get 5,000 yuan, hasn't she worked for many years? ”

Originally, Zhao Huiping and her mother-in-law wanted her to go too, but when she heard Aunt Hong's specific words, she didn't think it would work.

can't go home, often work overtime, eat, drink and Lazar are all their own, it's better for Zhao Huiping to be a nanny, earn more and earn less.

I've searched everywhere, but I can't find a way out, I wanted to change careers, but it wasn't easy, she wasn't like Perla, Amanda, young, transitional, she only had a nanny.

She can't run around like a headless fly, so she simply doesn't go out, and she reads the news in the group every day at home, contacts the teacher, and sees if there is a suitable list.

Housework list, the salary can't be too low, she is an aunt who has been a high-end family, she has a letter of recommendation from Wenhui, and a recommendation from Wenhui's circle of friends, she can't find a list from an ordinary family.

Besides, ordinary families don't specialize in it, they are all omnipotent.

The so-called all-round means literally, you have to do everything, take care of the family, eat, drink, clean, shop, pick up and drop off children, anyway, you have to do everything.

I'm too tired, and the salary is low.

In Aunt Chen's words: "A good meal is not afraid of being late, you wait and see." ”

On Monday, a teacher contacted her and asked if she could take the all-around order.

Zhao Huiping said: "What kind of list?"

She doesn't want to wait, she always has to try, anyway, being a nanny, and the trial job is also paid, which is better than being idle.

The teacher said: "Although it is an all-round single, the family population is simple, high-end family, Bao Dad is abroad, Bao Ma is a strong woman, has her own company, the child goes to school during the day, you are alone at home, how free, and the salary is not low." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "How old is the child?

The teacher said: "Seven thousand, the child is eight years old, she is a girl, she is very well-behaved, you don't have to worry about it, there is a tutor for learning." ”

Seven thousand is not as high as Wen Hui, but, in this city, it is considered a high order.

Eight-year-old children understand everything, life can take care of themselves, and there is a teacher, no need to sleep, no bath, much simpler.

made an appointment for a noon interview, Bao's mother didn't look young anymore, she was dressed in the workplace, old-fashioned, like a forty-year-old, with a pair of black-framed glasses.

She looks serious, she laughs okay, she is very steady, she speaks like a leader, she asked a few questions briefly, and she said that after reading her resume, she felt that she was okay.

Bao Ma said: "It's not clear in the video, let's meet, I see that your address is not far from my company, and it is very convenient to take the subway." ”

Zhao Huiping asked the teacher for her advice and decided to take a trip, she didn't actually want to make this trip, but she had to work.

It is not far, from home to work, nine subway stations, and it takes 20 minutes to walk.

In a very tall office building, she went up to the nineteenth floor, the corridor was deep, and there were signs hanging at the door, what media company, what health company, what design company.

Large and small, all of them are companies, no wonder they are all general now.

Bao Ma's company is called Risheng Advertising, is she advertising?

It's the same as on TV, it's all cubicles, she walks by alone, no one even looks up, everyone is busy, the computer keyboard is banging, and everyone is a social elite.

said that being a nanny can see the world, and she can see any kind of industry that she can't usually touch.

Bao's mother's office is not big, it is very messy, the desk is full of materials, she looked at Zhao Huiping and asked, "Hello, we have been contacted, I am Zhen Ling, have you ever taken a girl?"

Zhao Huiping said: "Hello Mr. Zhen, I brought it, and I am more than three years old." ”

Zhen Ling said: "Well, what do you think is the difference between girls and boys?"

Zhao Huiping said: "There is a big difference between men and women, boys are generally more honest and naughty, girls are relatively gentle, their personalities are generally very good, and they are well-behaved and sensible." ”

Zhen Ling said: "Well, what you said is right, but girls are squeamish and love to play some little tempers, you have a driver's license, right?"

Zhao Huiping's attention was on her last sentence, and she didn't think about the previous one, "I just got my driver's license." ”

甄玲说:“刚考的?C1,还是C2?”

Zhao Huiping said: "C1."

Zhen Ling said: "Well, yes, the aunt at home hasn't left yet, you go to work as soon as possible, go to work, you two will hand over." ”

Zhao Huiping asked her, "Then why didn't the current aunt do it?"

Zhen Ling said: "She has been working in our house for two years, she has stomach bleeding, she has to go back to see a doctor, when can you go to work?"

Zhao Huiping said: "It's late today, let's do it tomorrow." ”

Zhen Ling said: "Yes, you come over tomorrow morning, the salary will be calculated for you for one day, the aunt at home will hand over to you, if you don't understand, just ask her, and she can leave." ”

The cultivation of the nanny (180) has no routines and no rivers and lakes

On the subway back, Zhao Huiping thought about Bao's mother's words over and over again, she said: "I want to see you because I don't believe in the photo, I have to confirm, my daughter doesn't like ugly aunts, because you want to pick her up instead of me, she doesn't look good, she feels faceless." ”

Sounds uncomfortable, isn't this an arrogant little princess?

But Zhen Ling said: "We don't have much work at home, it's your time during the day, what should you do, the car is at home, didn't you just get your driver's license? The driver picks up and drops off for half a month, you drive out to run if you have nothing to do, familiarize yourself with the route and road conditions, practice your hands, and you pick up Eleven after half a month, she is very well-behaved, I think you will get along well." ”

Zhao Huiping was actually afraid in her heart, she hadn't been like this for several years, and it was not easy to adapt to a new family.

Not to mention what the reality is, her own psychological quality is not up to par, and it feels so difficult.

I confirmed with the teacher, and the teacher encouraged her to say: "Try it, you also saw the list in the group, this year is not good to order, the main overall unit price is not high, her family is really okay, you say there is no male host, and my mother is often not at home, you have your own time, freedom, really, you go, it's all up to you, do a good job, the salary will definitely rise." ”

The intermediary teacher is like a matchmaker, standing in the middle, left and right, deceiving the upper and lower, just to be able to promote this marriage.

When packing her luggage at night, Zhao Huiping talked to Liu Quansheng about the new list, she said: "The boss has been abroad for a long time and doesn't come back, my mother also has her own career, there are drivers at home, there are tutors, I go to clean and cook, this world is really unfair, obviously I look about the same age." ”

Liu Quansheng said: "What you said, life is unfair, there is nothing to say, living in different places and living in different lifestyles, why envy others?"

Zhao Huiping said: "You are too content with the status quo. ”

Liu Quansheng said: "Eight out of ten people are content with the status quo, if they are not at ease with the status quo, to change, to break the rules, this society will not be stable." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "It seems that I am not the only one who has grown over the years, and you are much more delicate than before." ”

Liu Quansheng is different from before, but where is the difference, she just feels this way.

Zhao Huiping always felt uneasy in her heart, but Liu Quansheng said: "You go and do it, you can still practice your hands, go out to practice if you have nothing to do, turn around and drive to pick up your children, if you dare to squeeze at the school gate for half a month, you will become a veteran." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "It's light to say, I feel that the driving school is still different from reality, out of the driving school, it seems that a few thousand yuan just bought a license." ”

Liu Quansheng said: "You just think too much in your heart, don't think nonsense, driving is a bold and careful job, skilled work, running, crowding, blocking will naturally be." ”

Zhao Huiping said: "What if it scratches?"

Liu Quansheng said: "What are you afraid of if you have insurance?"

The same thing Zhen Ling also said.

Life is about climbing mountains, accepting challenges, adapting to a new environment, meeting new people, and building a new relationship.

With a suitcase in her hand, with all her belongings, she sat on the subway to Zhen Ling's house, in addition to panic, there was also an unknown expectation of a new life!

To be continued!

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