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Zhang Ming, a phoenix man, is a white-collar worker working in a technology company. At a gathering of friends, he met a mysterious and beautiful woman, who was his future wife, Liu Li. The two fell in love at first sight and quickly established a relationship.
In the process of getting along, Zhang Ming found that Liu Li was a cheerful and empathetic girl. They are open and honest with each other and understand each other's personalities and ideas. Gradually, Zhang Ming had the idea of entering the marriage hall with Liu Li.
One day, Zhang Ming mustered up the courage to ask Liu Li for marriage. "Lili, we've gotten along well during this time, and I've fallen in love with you. Will you marry me?" asked Zhang Ming with nervousness and anticipation.
Liu Li was stunned for a moment, and then smiled sweetly: "Obviously, I like you too." I'm so happy to be with you for the rest of my life. Of course I'm willing to marry you!"
The two hugged and smiled, their hearts full of happiness and anticipation. After that, they began to prepare for the wedding.
One day, Liu Li took Zhang Ming to meet her mother. Zhang Ming is full of respect and curiosity about the lady who is about to become his mother-in-law. I saw that Liu Li's mother was a middle-aged woman with kind eyebrows, and when she saw Zhang Ming, she smiled kindly: "It turns out that it is Mingming, I heard Lili say that you are a very good young man." I'm glad you're finally getting married. ”
"Hello Aunt Liu, I am also very happy to meet you. I will love and take good care of Lili. Zhang Ming said respectfully.
"That's great! I have a few requests for this marriage. Where are you going to hold your wedding?" asked Aunt Liu gently.
Zhang Ming and Liu Li glanced at each other, and Liu Li said, "Mom, we want to hold it in a hotel in the city. The setting is elegant, perfect for weddings. ”
"Oh? That's not going to work. Our family has always been particular about tradition, and the wedding must be held in the old house in our hometown. A look of disapproval appeared on Aunt Liu's face.
Zhang Ming was a little confused, but he still responded politely: "That's great, we will definitely respect your wishes." However, I have a small request, that is, I hope that the new house can be chosen by ourselves, and not forced to be in the old house in your hometown. ”
Hearing Zhang Ming's request, Aunt Liu's face suddenly sank. She frowned, and her tone became serious: "You can't choose the new house yourself? How can this be? Our family has always given the house to our daughter as a dowry, this is our family tradition. ”
Zhang Ming felt that the atmosphere was a little delicate, and quickly explained: "Auntie, I know that this is your family's tradition, but Lili and I still hope to choose a new house by ourselves, which will be more suitable for our lifestyle." We will take good care of this house, just hope it can be slightly renovated to suit our preferences. ”
Seeing this, Liu Li hurriedly opened her mouth to persuade: "Mom, it makes sense. We can have a wedding in your old home, but it's better for us to decide on the choice of a new home. Look, is that going to work?"
Aunt Liu was silent for a moment, and finally sighed: "Okay, since it's what the two of you mean, I don't have to say anything." However, you will have to bear the cost of renovating your new home. ”
Zhang Ming breathed a sigh of relief and hurriedly said, "No problem, Auntie." We'll take care of the money. We will definitely decorate our new house and make it the starting point of our happy new life. ”
"Well, that's it. I will arrange all the matters of the old house as soon as possible. Aunt Liu's tone was a little slower, and she seemed to accept the plan.
In the following days, Zhang Ming and Liu Li were busy preparing for the wedding. They chose the hotel's banquet hall, chose beautiful wedding dresses, and invited friends and family. Everything is going on in an orderly manner.
Just when everything was ready, Aunt Liu suddenly made a new request: "By the way, I still have one more thing to discuss with you." Our family has always been particular about Chinese weddings, so I hope that your wedding will be carried out exactly according to our family's traditional customs. ”
Zhang Ming and Liu Li glanced at each other, and Liu Li said tentatively: "Mom, we have discussed this, and we hope to integrate Chinese and Western elements to make the wedding more colorful." ”
"How can this be? Our family's traditional wedding is the accumulation of thousands of years, how can it be changed at will? You are disrespecting our family style!" Aunt Liu's voice suddenly raised, looking a little excited.
Seeing this, Zhang Ming hurriedly persuaded: "Auntie, I understand that you attach importance to family traditions, but Lili and I also have our own ideas. We wanted a wedding that blended East and West elements to reflect your family's traditions and show our personality. Isn't that bad?"
"Not good! I insist on my opinion, if you don't agree, then forget it, don't get married!" Aunt Liu had a tough attitude and was unwilling to back down at all.
Liu Li was anxious, she grabbed Zhang Ming's hand and said, "Mingming, what should we do?" Mom is so stubborn, I don't want to offend her, but I really like you, I finally came to this point, I don't want to give up." ”
Zhang Ming looked at Liu Li's anxious expression, and his heart was sour. He hugged her gently and comforted, "Lili, don't worry. We will definitely find a way, and our love is worth defending. I'll communicate with your mom and I'm sure she'll understand what we mean. ”
Liu Li nodded, her eyes a little moist. She snuggled in Zhang Ming's arms, expecting and worrying in her heart.
At this moment, Zhang Ming suddenly thought of an idea. He looked up at Aunt Liu and said solemnly, "Auntie, I understand that you attach great importance to family traditions, and we all respect this. However, perhaps we can make some adjustments to the wedding that preserve the traditions of the family while taking into account our personal preferences. We can do the Chinese wedding procedure in your old house in your hometown, but do some Western style in the new house, is that okay?"
Hearing Zhang Ming's proposal, Aunt Liu pondered for a moment, and a trace of hesitation flashed in her eyes. She spoke slowly, "That's a good suggestion. Since you say so, I can reluctantly agree. However, the Chinese style had to be exactly what I wanted it to be, and it couldn't be changed at all. ”
Zhang Ming breathed a sigh of relief and hurriedly said, "That's no problem, Auntie." We follow your wishes for your Chinese wedding. As for the Western-style part of the new house, Lili and I will design it ourselves and will not disturb your arrangement. ”
Liu Li also nodded again and again: "Yes, Mom." We are very satisfied with this plan and hope that you will accept it too. We will definitely prepare well to make the whole wedding grand and warm. ”
Aunt Liu nodded, and finally a smile appeared on her face: "Okay, since you all said so, I have nothing to say." Then follow this plan. However, remember to follow our family's traditions and customs, and there should be no mistakes. ”
"Don't worry, Auntie. Lili and I will definitely do our best to make this wedding a success. Zhang Ming said solemnly.
In the following preparation process, Zhang Ming and Liu Li were very cooperative. They carefully studied the traditional wedding process of the Liu family and carefully studied the relevant customs and rules. At the same time, they also set out to design the Western-style wedding in the new house, striving to make the whole wedding not only solemn and generous, but also full of personality and romance.
Finally, the wedding day came. In the old mansion of Liu's hometown, Zhang Ming and Liu Li wore gorgeous traditional wedding dresses and respectfully completed the tedious ceremonies. Although it was a bit cumbersome, both of them were seriously engaged with happy smiles.
When I got to the new house, everything was alive and well. Zhang Ming and Liu Li changed into exquisite Western-style dresses and held a simple and warm Western-style wedding in a small courtyard surrounded by flowers. Exchanging rings and kissing the bride, the eyes of both of them reveal deep love.
Seeing this, relatives and friends responded with warm applause and blessed the couple. Aunt Liu was also watching from the sidelines, although she was still a little uncomfortable at first, but gradually she was sincerely happy for this young couple.
At the next wedding banquet, Zhang Ming and Liu Li did not forget to pay attention to Aunt Liu's feelings. They specially invited Aunt Liu to give a speech on stage, so that she could fully express her blessings and expectations. With tears in her eyes, Aunt Liu said emotionally: "I am sincerely happy that my daughter has found such a good husband. I hope you cherish each other, love each other, and create a happy family together. ”
The guests once again responded with warm applause, Zhang Ming and Liu Li looked at each other and smiled, their faces full of happiness.
"Obviously, this place is really beautiful, and we will definitely live a happy new life here. Liu Li said happily.
Zhang Ming put his arm around his wife's shoulders and said with a smile, "Yes, Lili." Together, we will definitely build a cozy nest here. I will love you well and make our love sweeter and sweeter. ”
Zhang Ming and Liu Li, the newlyweds of Yan'er, after some twists and turns, finally completed a lifelong event at the wedding of Chinese and Western. Both of them are full of expectations and hopes for the future, and they just want to create a happy family together in this warm new home.
After marriage, Zhang Ming and Liu Li were immersed in sweet love and couldn't extricate themselves. Every day when they wake up, they can't wait to look at each other a few more times and feel each other's warmth. In their spare time, they also go out for walks, go shopping, and enjoy the good time in the world of the two.
Liu Li liked this new home very much, and often said to Zhang Ming: "Mingming, look at how warm our nest is! In the future, we must dress it up well and make it more beautiful and moving." ”
Zhang Minghui responded with a doting smile: "Of course, Lili." As long as you like it, I will fully support it. Let's make this place the way we dreamed it would be. ”
In the following days, the two began to devote themselves to the renovation of their new home. Together, they select the furniture and furnishings, reflecting each other's tastes and personalities.
Sometimes, they will have some small disputes over the choice of a certain decoration, but in the end they will come to a consensus in a consultative way.
"Obviously, I don't think this chandelier is very suitable, let's change it to a more distinctive one. Liu Li pointed to the crystal chandelier in the living room and said.
Zhang Ming thought for a while and proposed: "It's okay, let's go to the lighting store in the city to see what new styles there are." As long as you like it, I support it. ”
After some discussion and comparison, the two finally chose a new chandelier with Chinese characteristics, which is warm and atmospheric. Watching it shine with a charming light, Zhang Ming and Liu Li were amazed.
In this way, on the basis of mutual understanding and tolerance, Zhang Ming and Liu Li gradually turned this new home into a warm building of their own.
At the same time, the relationship between the two is getting deeper and deeper. They often chat together in the dead of night, sharing each other's lives and thoughts.
"Mingming, you know what? I've been wondering, when can we have a baby?" asked Liu Li softly one day.
Zhang Ming smiled and shook his wife's hand and said, "I have been looking forward to the day when I will become a father." Although our life is very full now, if we can have a little baby that belongs to the two of us, it will definitely be more fulfilling. Do you have any ideas?"
"Well, I'm looking forward to being a mom. We will definitely be the best parents to take good care of our children and let them grow up healthy and happy. Liu Li leaned on Zhang Ming's arms and said happily.
"Then let's start working hard and look forward to the arrival of this little life together. Zhang Ming gently kissed Liu Li's forehead, and the two looked at each other and smiled.
Just when the newlywed life was getting better, Aunt Liu suddenly made a request that surprised Zhang Ming and Liu Li.
"Lili, both of you are working so well, it's time for me to retire. Why don't you just move back to our hometown and live with me? I'm pretty lonely here. Aunt Liu said seriously.
Zhang Ming and Liu Li glanced at each other, and a look of embarrassment suddenly appeared on their faces. Liu Li said hesitantly: "Mom, we have renovated the new house, and now life is very satisfying." We don't plan to move yet. ”
"What, don't you want to live with me, I'm your elder, you don't respect me!" Aunt Liu suddenly frowned, and her tone became unfriendly.
Zhang Ming hurriedly explained: "Auntie, it's not that we disrespect you, we just feel that the current living arrangement is more suitable for us." We will come back to visit you often and hope you will come back often. ”
"Hmph, that's fine. But when the child is born in the future, I must go back to my hometown, and I will take care of my grandson myself!" Aunt Liu had a tough attitude and looked like she could not refuse.