Although family harmony is what each family looks forward to, there is no need to blindly seek harmony in case of some special circumstances. For example, in the following situations, many times it may be because the parents are alive, and the elders will be in the way of the parents' face and restrain a lot, but once the parents are gone, they will be in a lot of situations, so these five kinds of relatives in the family are not as good as outsiders, so there is no need to be too good to them
1. Only know how to ask for it, Relatives who don't know how to reciprocate, maybe their parents often take care of them when they are alive, they have developed a habit, that is, no matter what the problem, find your parents, they will agree unconditionally, but when the parents leave, they will find a way to transfer it to their children, they feel that it should be, as the saying goes, habits are terrible, it is difficult for a person to form a habit and change it back, I still remember that the TV series are very good Su Mingyu's uncle's family, endlessly demanding, until Su Mingyu's mother died, they also came confidently to ask for the child's college expenses, saying that Su Mingyu's mother promised to live when she was alive, and relatives like this must stay away。
2. Relatives who can't see you, in fact, there are few people in this world who can really hope that you are doing well, many times you will be jealous when you are doing well, especially if you know your relatives, and some even see that you are better than them, they will chew your tongue behind your back and spread rumors. Therefore these relatives shall also be cut off,
3. Relatives who like to play with right and wrong, the east and west are short, he said how you are today, how you said he was yesterday, back and forth in their mouths, the more they talk, the more they taste, and finally the contradiction is getting deeper and deeper. This is all done by tongue-chewing people who don't work well, so stay away.
4. Relatives who only value money, this matter is very appropriate to describe with a knot, for rich relatives can not dig out their hearts and lungs, but for close relatives are full of contempt, these people should be less contact even in life.
5. Relatives who don't know how to respect others, think that you are incompetent, unworthy of their respect, will not consider your feelings in everything, they think that your parents are not there, you should listen to them, no matter what, only orders are not discussed, this type of relatives do not need your respect!