When it comes to "eating soft rice", this is a rather derogatory term in the eyes of most people.
Whether in the eyes of boys or girls, this is a very "shameful" thing, and most boys will not choose to do such a thing.
But the world is so big that there are no surprises, and Japan is a place where strange things are rampant.
In Japan, there is a legendary figure who is nicknamed "Japan's No. 1 Soft Rice Man" - Wenjun, who directly takes this "art" to the extreme.
Wen Jun, an ordinary Japanese man, not only looks mediocre, but also only 163cm tall, but he has an extraordinary experience of "being fostered".
In the past 13 years, he has been "adopted" by 7 girlfriends, and each of them is willing to provide him with his living needs.
After such a long period of "support", Wen Jun managed to save more than 700,000 yuan.
Unexpectedly, after his daily life was exposed, netizens shouted: This "soft rice" deserves to be eaten!
What is the charm of this "soft rice man" who can make so many women pay for him?
Top "soft rice man"
This person named Fumi-kun, at the age of 32, has an unusual "profession" - a full-time artist who eats soft rice.
He, a graduate of the Faculty of Humanities at Waseda University, is a seemingly ordinary but mysterious man.
You may think, how did a talent who graduated from a prestigious school embark on this "peculiar" life path?
Don't worry, let's take a closer look.
In 13 years, he has not attended a serious class for a day, but he has saved 15 million yen (about 770,000 yuan) by relying on his 7 girlfriends.
It's not a small amount of money, you say he's a "super soft rice guy", he laughs and doesn't say a word, because that's how he lives.
Look at him, he looks like "who will take care of this guy", which surprised the host.
After all, the "soft rice man" in everyone's hearts should have a proud face and a top-notch figure, but he doesn't have either.
But since graduating from college, he has indeed lived in his girlfriend's house for more than ten years, enjoying the treatment of "chartered public". Rent, utilities, girlfriend all-inclusive!
The daily necessities and clothes are all taken care of by the rich woman's girlfriends, you may say, doesn't he feel guilty about this kind of life?
But he replied calmly, "I don't feel guilty." This answer may surprise you, but this is him, Fumi-kun, a different existence.
What's even more unexpected is that although he lives such a life, he has been repeatedly proposed by his previous girlfriends!
Netizens expressed their puzzlement, you, why? But when you have an in-depth understanding of his experience, maybe you will also sigh, this soft rice may really be eaten by him!
Ten principles of being a soft rice man
As a professional "soft rice man", Fumi-kun not only enjoys life, but also formulates 10 principles for a professional soft rice man.
Every morning, when the first rays of sunlight have not yet completely sprinkled the earth, Fumi-kun quietly gets up and begins to prepare a hearty breakfast for his girlfriend who is still in a sweet dream.
Whether it's a Japanese sushi roll with a good color and flavor, or a Western-style omelet with a delicate taste, he has the best hands on it, showing the style of a chef.
It's not just a meal, it's an expression of his well-intentioned love.
After breakfast, he turned into a caring little assistant, helping his girlfriend carry her bag and take her to work, ensuring that her every morning was full of warmth and care.
And when he returned home alone, a battle with housework began. He is like a professional cleaner, carefully cleaning every corner, not letting go of any trace of dust.
Because he knows that a clean and tidy home is the harbor that his girlfriend longs for the most after a busy day.
Although his living expenses are all borne by his girlfriend, he is never greedy and never takes the initiative to ask for it.
Instead, he would use his meager living expenses to bring his girlfriend a small surprise, such as her favorite Häagen-Dazs ice cream, or a sudden handmade gift.
These small gestures are full of his deep love for his girlfriend.
Whenever the sun sets, he always shows up at the station on time and waits for his girlfriend to get off work.
They went home together, preparing dinner and chatting about their girlfriend's work. He is not only her chef and cleaner, but also her soul mate.
When his girlfriend is ready to fall asleep, he will give her a full body massage to help her melt away the fatigue of the day, and then whisper in her ear to lull her into sweet sleep.
This is Fumi-kun's daily life as a "professional soft rice man".
After gaining an in-depth understanding of Fumi-kun's daily life, netizens expressed their feelings:
"This soft rice is really admirable!"
"I want a boyfriend like this too, where can I get it? I'm willing to spend money for him!"
After careful calculation, Fumi-jun only spent more than 700,000 yuan on his girlfriends in 13 years, with an average of more than 50,000 yuan per year, and it was even less than 5,000 yuan per month.
This kind of cost is low compared to hiring a professional nanny, not to mention that Fumi-kun provides much more than daily housework.
Not only is he a round-the-clock butler who takes care of his girlfriend's daily life, but he is also an excellent mood regulator who is always available to provide psychological support when his girlfriend needs it.
What's even more rare is that he also doubles as a masseuse, relieving his girlfriend's fatigue every day and ensuring that she can sleep comfortably and relaxed.
With such a comprehensive and considerate service, it is no wonder that netizens have expressed such emotion.
Although Fumi-kun's lifestyle is unusual, the care and companionship he provides to his girlfriend is invaluable.
Although Fumi-kun's lifestyle has been appreciated by many netizens, he still faces a lot of prejudice and doubts.
For the incomprehension of the outside world, Fumi-kun has his own unique opinion.
He knows that it is impossible to fully understand between people, because everyone's experience and perception are different.
Since he was a child, Fumi-kun has felt uncomfortable with traditional ways of working, and he prefers to choose a lifestyle that is more compatible with himself.
He doesn't care what the outside world thinks, and he doesn't get frustrated by being misunderstood by most people.
For him, instead of wasting time on people who have nothing to do with him, he should cherish the time he spends with his girlfriend, family and friends more.
He insists that he as a man should not be bound by traditional roles.
He does not feel that doing chores or other commitments for his partner is undignified. In fact, he took his role to the extreme, becoming a very dutiful househusband.
A "soft rice man" who marries 4 wives and 3 wives and gives birth to 54 babies
Ryuta Watanabe, who is also from Japan, is also an out-and-out "soft rice man"!
He just passed his 36th birthday, don't look good, but people just have the ability to let a group of beauties revolve around him, this is not bragging, you go check it out!
This buddy's lifestyle, that's really surprising, he never has to work, but he can make his four wives and two lovers willingly raise him and give him children.
The program team of "ABEMA Prime" couldn't help but interview him to see what kind of magic he had. It turned out that this Watanabe Ryuta, except for his poor appearance, was quite powerful in other aspects.
He now lives in a big house with his three wives, and that life is really comfortable.
Take turns to sleep with your wives every night, and make a hearty breakfast for them when you get up in the morning, this treatment is even more emperor than the emperor!
And this Watanabe Ryuta is still a full-time soft rice man, he hasn't worked for ten years, he takes living expenses from his wives every month, and then is responsible for taking care of the baby and doing housework, this life, it's not too moisturizing!
You might wonder what kind of charm this Watanabe Ryuta has, and what kind of charm can make so many women crazy about him.
I think it may be that he is more considerate and thoughtful, after all, women are sensual animals, plus his genes are also good, and the children he gives birth to are extraordinarily cute, who can withstand this!
However, this Watanabe Ryuta is also very hard-working, in order to break the record for the most children in Japanese history, he actually wants to have 54 children.
Like Wenjun, Watanabe Ryuta is also an out-and-out "soft rice man", which can't help but make people ask, is "eating soft rice" also an ability?
"Eating soft rice" is also an ability?
Although "eating soft rice" is regarded as a shameful thing in the traditional concept, we can see from their stories that it may be a special ability.
They can accurately grasp the psychological needs of women, so as to achieve the purpose of "eating soft rice" comfortably.
This ability may not be recognized by most people in modern society, but it is an existence that cannot be ignored.
Some netizens said: "Although I don't agree with his lifestyle, I have to admit that he does have something extraordinary." ”
Some netizens joked: "If I can also eat such a 'soft rice', then I would rather give up the struggle!"
Their story is more than just a simple piece of gossip news, it also provokes us to think about contemporary social values and gender roles.
Traditionally, men are expected to take on the role of the breadwinner of the family, while "eating soft rice" is seen as a sign of incompetence and irresponsibility.
But in modern society, with the improvement of women's status and the evolution of gender concepts, is "eating soft rice" really an unacceptable behavior?
Many netizens believe that as long as both parties are willing and do not hurt others, "eating soft rice" may not be blamed too much.
After all, everyone has their own way of life and values.
Moreover, from their stories, we can see that he is not a simple parasite, but has earned a place in the emotional market with his abilities and emotional intelligence.
Of course, there are also those who believe that "eating soft rice" is still an irresponsible behavior, which violates traditional gender roles and family values.
This behaviour can have a negative impact on society, especially for young people who are not well versed in the world.
In any case, Wenjun's story has become a striking phenomenon. It allows us to re-examine the values and gender roles of contemporary society.
In this era of pluralism, "eating soft rice" may no longer be a mere derogatory term.
It may represent a reflection of a new lifestyle choice and a social phenomenon that we, as spectators, should also think about and explore more deeply while ridiculing and entertaining.
The phenomenon of these "soft rice men" does not exist in isolation, it is actually a microcosm of contemporary social culture.
Today, with the concept of gender equality becoming more and more popular, the traditional gender role positioning is being broken, men are no longer expected to play the role of sole breadwinner, and women are no longer confined to the narrow circle of family life.
Of course, we don't want to advocate the behavior of "eating soft rice", but hope to stimulate more thinking and discussion through Wenjun's story.
In this age of pluralism, we should define happiness in a pluralistic way.
Information sources:
This article was published on September 14, 2023 on the Northeast Net on "Japan's Super Soft Rice Man's Explosive Self-Statement: I Can Always Find Women Who Make Me "Parasitic"".
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Text/Editor: Zhao Cai Xiaofen