People say that there is no husband and wife in the world who do not quarrel, and there is no overnight feud between husband and wife.
It is not terrible for husband and wife to quarrel, what is terrible is the cold war after the quarrel, women usually prefer the cold war, as long as the quarrel is over, they begin to treat each other with an indifferent attitude, and even completely ignore the existence of the other party, no matter how the man tries to talk to her, she still insists on ignoring it, as if the man is dead, such an attitude really makes people feel very suffocated.
After the young couple quarreled below, the wife was angry and ignored each other, and the husband asked her what she was eating, but she never replied, so the man asked her over and over again, "ahhhh
The material in this issue comes from Heilongjiang, the man stood at the door to change his shoes, carrying two bags of garbage in his hand, he wanted to go out, so he asked his wife: "I'll go out to pick up the courier, do you want to eat anything, bring it back for you." ”
The wife squatted in the center of the living room, with several cardboard boxes in front of her, containing some small items, and the wife lowered her head and silently sorted them out, deaf to her husband's questioning.
Rummaging through the little things and making a rattling sound, the man thought his wife didn't hear it, and then asked, "Ah!"
The wife still did not speak, and was busy with the work in her hands, and the man stood in the doorway, still asking, "Ah, ah, ah," and his voice gradually began to rise.
It turned out that they had just quarreled over trivial family matters, and the two were in a state of cold war, and it could be seen that the husband wanted to take the initiative to show affection, so he took this opportunity to ask his wife what she wanted to eat, break the silence, and reconcile in the future.
However, his wife didn't pay attention to him at all, which made him feel a little annoyed and embarrassed, and he didn't give up, just stood at the door, and kept asking "ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
I really admired the woman's concentration, she lowered her head the whole time, sorted out the things in her hand, and ignored her husband's questions at all, as if he was the air and did not exist.
The man shouted more than a dozen "ahs" in a row, his voice high and low, low and low, and finally he shook the door and left in disappointment.
Netizens watched this scene and couldn't cry or laugh, some said: If you don't know, you think there is a big goose calling at the door.
It's not like the wife doesn't have a name, you can call her by her name, and she keeps calling "ahhhhhh
However, there were only two of them in the house, and the wife should understand that her husband was greeting her, and she just didn't bother to talk to him.
Some netizens admired the woman's composure: Her emotions are really stable, how can she calm down? If I had been replaced, I would have been unable to hold back my laughter.
Most girls are soft-hearted, watching the man take the initiative to show weakness and make peace, and go down the steps, then borrow the donkey from the slope and give her husband a reply, what do you want to eat, or if you don't want to eat, you have to answer, in this way, the stalemate will be broken, and the two will soon reconcile.
However, women do not give men the slightest chance to "break the ice", and it seems that the cold war will continue.
The man's performance is also more funny, since he said "ah" a few times, seeing that his daughter-in-law did not agree, then he just walked away, he insisted on calling in place, maybe his daughter-in-law was thinking about returning him, looking at him like this stubborn donkey, but he began to get angry and annoyed again, and simply ignored him.
Author's point of view:
Quarrels between husband and wife are common, and there is nothing wrong with the occasional cold war, but the cold war should also be mastered to a degree, don't go too far, the other party gives the steps, then return a smile, and there is not much grudge between husband and wife, smile at each other, and soon reconcile as before.
After all, life has to go on, the two of them ignore each other all day long, the atmosphere at home is tense and depressing, and each other will not feel comfortable.
And the cold war has been going on for a long time, which hurts the feelings of the husband and wife, and over time, the feelings are indifferent, and it is really possible to come to the point of breaking up and divorcing, and it will be too late to regret it.