On April 17, an outrageous incident was exposed on the Internet, a man in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, brutally killed his 3-year-old child, and often committed domestic violence against his wife. After the incident was exposed, it aroused heated discussions and anger among many media and netizens.
The beginning and end of the event
According to reports, the incident took place on January 31, 2024, less than 10 days before the Spring Festival. The man's wife, Ms. Xia, said that she could only temporarily return to her parents' house because she was kicked out of the house because of domestic violence, but she did not expect the child to be killed like this. There is no doubt that this will be the most heart-wrenching Spring Festival for her.
Ms. Xia said that although the child was developing slowly, she was in good health, and she didn't believe that it was gone, so after identification, the result was consistent with the death caused by covering her nose and mouth, and her husband was taken away by the local police after calling the police.
Looking at their chat, you can know that the man is very unreasonable, and he will beat Ms. Xia for no reason, and when asked the reason, the man said that he was in a bad mood and wanted to abuse his wife when he was uncomfortable, and it can be seen from the injury on Ms. Xia's arm that the shot was not light.
Ms. Xia said that her husband is 28 years old and does not go to class, he only knows that he sleeps at home, and his living expenses are all borrowed money.
Ms. Xia can't go to work because she takes care of her children at home, and she is often penniless, so she can only ask her husband for the cost of living, dozens of yuan or even a few yuan, and every time she asks, she will be abused by her husband in various ways, you can imagine how aggrieved Ms. Xia is.
The mother-in-law and her husband had long wanted to give up the child
So why is Ms. Xia so aggrieved that she doesn't return the child to her mother-in-law or her husband who has nothing to do all day?
In fact, there is no way, since the child was 1 year old because of high fever and convulsions to take it for examination, after learning that the child was stunted in all directions, the mother-in-law has always wanted to give up the idea of this child, and the husband must have had such an idea for a long time if he can be so cruel.
Therefore, both the husband and the mother-in-law want to give up, so who else can take care of the children? Only Ms. Xia, as a mother, can't bear it, after all, it is a piece of meat that has fallen from her body, and it is already so big.
Although the child was diagnosed with developmental delay, Ms. Xia said that the child was more than 3 years old at the time, and he was already able to walk, and although he could not communicate normally, he could also call "Mom".
As the mother of the child, even if the child is stunted, when she hears the child call herself "Mom", Ms. Xia must be moved to tears.
26 days after the child was gone, Ms. Xia painfully sent a long article, from every word can see that she misses the child, from every detail of the memory can see the mother's love for the child, you can imagine how painful she is, after reading it really makes people red-eyed.
The comment section is polarized
After the incident was exposed, it sparked heated discussions among countless netizens, and even became polarized.
Many netizens think that if you are only 3 years old, you can't wait any longer? The man is still a domestic violence man, and he must be severely punished.
Some said that their children did not speak until they were more than three years old, and they all worked well later, and even their grades were very good after school. However, this condition may not be the same as the diagnosed stunting.
Some netizens said that the word "stunting" makes people anxious, but it just grows slower.
But then again, slow growth and stunting are estimated to be different, take my niece as an example, before the age of 3 can bounce, but really can't say a few words, now in the third grade, every exam is one or two in the class, dozens of awards are posted all over the house.
But some netizens believe that stunting can really drag down a family, and people who have not experienced it can't feel their pain at all.
Finally, I would like to say
When you are pregnant, you should go for regular prenatal check-ups, because whether the child is stunted can basically be checked. If identified, intervention and treatment should be initiated as early as possible to avoid the risk of pregnancy outcomes or the distress caused to the family after birth.
But since I was born, I didn't find out at first, the children should not be so cruel when they are so old, not to mention that the children can walk and call their mothers, and the man's means are really unforgivable.
What do you think about this?