The name "Chenghuan Ji" is really not very good. Who are Cheng Huan? Parents? Mai Chenghuan's mother, under the pretense of being good for you, has been imposing interference in her daughter's life. In order to be good to his daughter, let his son sleep in the living room. The house was too small, so I complained that my husband was incompetent. Although such a mother has love for her children, how can people face the days of living under the same roof as her?
But after all, the original work is Yishu's work, and it has Zimei's participation, so I just read it. But at this glance, it is found that Mai Chenghuan played by Yang Zi is simply the daughter that all mothers will like. She is brave and resolute, ambitious, and has a very positive outlook, pursuing everything that she has achieved by her own efforts, although she is dissatisfied with her strong mother, she is also stable in the core, and she almost does not drink her mother's mouth. When I meet such a mother, I can't do what I want like Mai Chenghuan.
Xin Jialiang, the rich second-generation boyfriend who was sent to the door, proposed to Mai Chenghuan, but she refused to agree because others concealed her rich second-generation identity. This makes me, a migrant worker who has passed the age of watching idol dramas, feel unreal. After all, who in this world can succeed by their own efforts?
Later, we found that a princess of Lane Tang who grew up in the pampering of her parents and a rich second-generation family full of calculations and interests can never be equal. The most typical is Xin Jiali, the sister of the Xin family. After seeing Mai Chenghuan's family background, he has been making a stalk from it, and he doesn't want his younger brother to marry this princess of Lane Tang who has no background. At the meeting between the two families, Xin Jiali made things difficult for the Mai family everywhere. But when she found out that her father had a home outside, the family might have to compete with her for the family property, and her father attached great importance to Mai Chenghuan, so she turned her head to persuade her younger brother to chase Mai Chenghuan back. This is the typical businessman mentality: there are no permanent friends, no permanent enemies, only eternal interests. Seeing this, I realized that Mak Chenghuan is really far-sighted. Two families with such a serious gap between the rich and the poor have differences in values. The Mai family, who spent their lives in love and poverty, and the Xin family, who favored interests, had no way to integrate at all.
However, Mai Chenghuan never imagined that in fact, in her life, there was an opportunity for the Mai family to become equal to the Xin family. This opportunity was not confiscated by her philistine mother, but by her father.
Mai Chenghuan has a grandmother Chen Shuzhen who is not his own. This grandmother was married by her grandfather after the death of his wife, which is considered a twilight love. After Grandpa Mai died, Chen Shuzhen found that her son, that is, Mai Laitian, Mai's father, couldn't look down on herself, thinking that she occupied the magpie's nest and occupied his mother's position, so Chen Shuzhen moved to a nursing home by herself.
But in fact, through the later plot, we will find that Chen Shuzhen, the grandmother, owns a large hotel by herself, and this hotel is most likely made by the grandmother herself. Because this grandmother really has two brushes when it comes to handling various matters. What's more, Chen Shuzhen really likes Mak Chenghuan and is willing to support Mak Chenghuan at critical moments. This kind of support is not just tolerance and love, not even money, but the support and teaching of life wisdom.
This can't help but remind me of Sheng Minglan in "Do You Know", although her mother died early, she was also raised by the wisest grandmother of the Sheng family because of a blessing in disguise. This is why Sheng Minglan is not magnificent, but she can also bear the life of the heroine of life.
The generations of a family are like Tetris: the mistakes of one generation accumulate to the next. Although times have changed, similar problems continue to recur, as if nothing new in history. The elders of a successful family, this mentor may be free-range or strict with the people in his family, but even if they are free-range, they can pull the younger generations on the right track at critical moments.
Children in ordinary families, strict parents demand absolute obedience, but they are not necessarily right to really guide you at critical moments, because they have proved with their own life experiences that their decisions at critical moments are most likely wrong. For example, Mai Chenghuan's mother.
And ordinary parents who are free-range will be like Mai Chenghuan's father, under the banner of letting their children develop freely, and they don't know that their stepmother has a hotel, and they don't find that she is a person with great wisdom. With such an elder, even if she has no money, she will not suffer. If when his father died, Lao Mai removed the filter of his own mother and stepmother and served this old lady who had no one to take care of, and all the wisdom of the old lady would be good to Mai Chenghuan and his younger brother Mai Chenghao, then even if these two children need to start from scratch, they will encounter ups and downs and setbacks, and the pace of success will be accelerated. At least, at least, it won't be worse than the male protagonist, the director of the hotel group. When Mai Chenghuan and his rich second-generation boyfriend talked about marriage, one was powerful and the other was rich, how could there be anything wrong with the door?
Isn't it a bit desperate to talk about this?
What should we do if we don't have such a wise elder in real life? But blaming the elders for not having wisdom is not only meaningless, but also makes people become a figure like Mak Chenghuan's mother in the eyes of the next generation. So whether it's for yourself or for your children, it's important to find someone outside the family who is willing to help you.
For example, Mr. Bao in the previously popular TV series "Flowers" only became prosperous because he met the old master and uncle. Therefore, life coaches do not necessarily appear only in the family. It's that you need to think: Why should someone like Uncle who has nothing to do with you help you?
Just like Mak Pap, if you dislike your stepmother, how can you let her pass on wisdom to herself and her children?
From this point of view, it is his father who really makes Mai Chenghuan and Xin Jialiang, the rich second generation, mismatched, not his chattering mother.
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