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Zhang Bo, the beast father in the "Chongqing Sister and Brother Falling Death Case", was executed shortly after he was executed, and a man who was more ruthless than Zhang Bo appeared.
Recently, a mother, Ms. Xia, endured her grief and reported that her 3-year-old and 10-month-old son Huanhuan was suspected of being taken back to her hometown by her biological father Liu when she was not at home and killed.
And why would a father kill his own son with his own hands?
Ms. Xia said that because Huanhuan had a high fever and convulsions when she was one year old, she did a full body examination after being sent to the hospital, and it was found that he was stunted in all aspects.
That is to say, when a normal child starts to call his parents, he can't, when a normal child starts to walk, he can't, and when a normal child starts to make some fine finger movements, he still can't ......
For this reason, Ms. Xia is very distressed, after all, it is her own flesh and blood born in October, in order to help her son recover as soon as possible, she also rented a house near Xuzhou Children's Hospital, and has always insisted on rehabilitating Huanhuan.
It is needless to imagine how hard this road is, and during the time of helping her son recover, Ms. Xia was the only one busy throughout the whole process.
Because her son is still young, and there is such a problem, she not only has to accompany her 24 hours a day, but also has to pay more patience and love than ordinary people, and she has no time to go out to work and make money.
So for a long time, Ms. Xia and her son's financial resources were mainly dependent on her husband, that is, Huanhuan's father.
But Huanhuan's father not only ignored his son, especially after his son was diagnosed with developmental delay, he also began to dislike his son in various ways, and his mother, that is, Ms. Xia's mother-in-law, Huanhuan's grandmother, told Ms. Xia several times that if she gave up this son, they would not take money to rehabilitate the child.
Not only that, Huanhuan's father spoke ill of her, attacked her personally, and even punched and kicked her, without any guilt.
It can be seen from the chat records released by Ms. Xia that Ms. Xia begged her to give her 20 yuan to buy vegetables, and the other party directly impatiently spoke foul language.
But just when you think that his hard work and money are all for this family, this man is all unbearable under his martial arts.
It can be seen from Ms. Xia's self-report that this man has nothing serious to do, he basically lies at home during the day, goes to bed from morning to night, and goes to the Internet café at night to surf the Internet.
If one day he accidentally burns it out of his appetite, what will entertain Ms. Xia is a punch and kick.
Ms. Xia was also very puzzled, why was she often beaten after paying so much?
The man's reply to her was:
As long as she is in a bad mood, or sees that she is uncomfortable or unhappy, you have to beat her.
Where is she this man's wife, she is this man's punching bag, and she doesn't have to pay.
You say, this man is so virtuous, where is the money to go out and squander?
Ms. Xia said that her husband's expenses were all borrowed and borrowed, and she had nowhere to borrow, so she asked Ms. Xia to borrow, and even took out a lot of loans in her mobile phone, and asked her to borrow a lot of money from relatives and friends.
But her husband didn't plan to pay it back from the beginning, of course, the money could only be counted on Ms. Xia's head, so Ms. Xia discussed with her husband, anyway, he was at home and had nothing to do during the day, so he let him take his son and go out to work to make money to pay off his debts, but her husband refused, this is a bottomless pit.
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Whenever Ms. Xia suffered domestic violence, she always wanted to leave this man, but her husband refused to let her take her son away, as if he was pinching her lifeline.
Ms. Xia's husband is 1.8 meters, she is only 1.6 meters, every time she is beaten, in order for her son not to be implicated, she always can't fight back, scolds and doesn't fight back, and lets her husband vent.
But in late January, Ms. Xia was beaten by her husband again and kicked out of the house.
This time, she finally made up her mind to divorce this man and get custody of her son back.
But when she returned to her hometown in Lianyungang to sue for divorce, on the evening of January 31, her husband actually appeared at the door of her parents' house overnight, knelt in front of her unusually, and told her that "the child is out of gas".
At that time, Ms. Xia's first reaction was that Huanhuan was killed by the man in front of her.
You said that the weasel gave the chicken a New Year's greeting, and he must not have any good intentions, and her husband came to play this play, undoubtedly because she wanted Ms. Xia not to pursue it. As long as she doesn't say it, this man can escape the law.
The grief-stricken Ms. Xia finally sobered up, for the man in front of her, her son was gone, there was nothing to be afraid of, and there was no one to blackmail her, she immediately called the police, and the police quickly conducted an autopsy on Huanhuan.
Sure enough, after forensic examination, the autopsy of Huanhuan was consistent with the mechanical suffocation caused by others to cover his mouth and nose.
Moreover, he was covered to death by his father's own hands.
Thinking of lawyer Ma Junzhe, he once said such a case:
A stepfather wants to kill the child, but the child resists too hard to hold back.
At this time, the mother came over to help, but the child stopped struggling.
Why don't children struggle?
Because when he saw that his beloved mother didn't want him to live, he was already desperate, and he wanted to give her his life back.
As soon as these words came out, countless people burst into tears through the screen.
Even a village cadre in Liu's village confirmed that this incident was basically true. He also said that Huanhuan has a variety of disabilities, "and the village also applied for a disability certificate for the child half a year ago."
It is precisely because of this certificate, coupled with the financial support of her mother's family, that Ms. Xia can insist on rehabilitating her son.
Originally, under the careful care of Ms. Xia, the child was improving, and when he was 3 years old, he could already walk, and occasionally called "Mom", although it was still difficult to communicate with his family, but even if the child was not as good as his peers, and even when he reached the normal school grade, he could enter school normally.
But this man who is inferior to a beast not only ruined a life with his own hands, but also ruined this family and the rest of his life.
I don't know if he's really stupid or fake, normal people wouldn't blame all the problems like children on a woman, and not only does he not help his wife take care of his son, but he always makes stumbling blocks in life.
Therefore, what he should dislike the most is not his son who is born with problems, but his own acquired unsound mind.
In particular, there is one more detail that is also worth mentioning.
It turned out that he himself was not the child of his parents, but adopted.
It can also be seen from the attitude of his parents towards their grandson that Liu has lived in a family with no love and even selfishness since he was a child.
Everyone in the family is a "vested interest", and what they care about is not selfless giving and love, but reciprocal and equivalent exchange.
Therefore, when Liu grew up and saw that Liu had nothing to do, and even became a giant baby, they were afraid that their grandson's problem would affect them and drag them down, so they kept lobbying Ms. Xia to give up her son.
Presumably, before lobbying Ms. Xia, they had been whispering in Liu's ear countless times.
Although we can't use this to morally kidnap Liu's parents, what I want to say is that it is precisely because I grew up in such a native family, because I have been treated like this since I was a child, and because I have never experienced the taste of love and being loved since I was a child, that Liu's murder looks so cold-blooded and ruthless.
Moreover, the day he killed his own son with his own hands happened to be the day when Zhang Bo, the animal father in the "Chongqing Sister and Brother Falling Death Case", was executed.
Come to think of it, it's also sarcasm.
In order to show his loyalty to his new love in a hurry, Zhang Bo sacrificed the lives of his two children with both hands.
But at least before Zhang Bo killed his two children, he still struggled and wandered in his heart.
But when Liu killed Huanhuan, I believe there was no hesitation, otherwise how could he take the child back to his hometown and kill him soon after he kicked his wife out of the house?
You said that he had been planning for a long time, and it was almost the same as having this intention for a long time.
What's even more sad is that you forcibly make an excuse for Zhang Bo, you can still say that he is confused by beauty and money, but you want to force Liu to find an excuse, you are crazy, and you are still extremely cruel.
Even a cold-blooded tiger knows that he can't eat his own son, let alone a man of flesh and blood?
The death of such a man a hundred times is not enough to make people angry, but it is just a pity for the child who has not seriously seen the world.
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Having said all this, finally let's talk about the root cause of this similar tragedy after another.
Of course, in marriage, but also in the choice of men.
The worst outcome of life is to find the wrong partner.
You must not choose these kinds of men.
The first type, selfish men.
Let's take Zhang Bo as an example.
Some people say that Zhang Bo killed the child because of cheating.
Yes and no.
On the surface, Ye Chengchen is the most critical person in this tragedy, but to put it bluntly, it is because of Zhang Bo's own greed and selfishness.
He could have decisively chosen to leave and protect the lives of his two children when he knew that the other party was cold-blooded and ruthless, but he didn't, he didn't hesitate to gamble with the children's lives for his own selfish interests, for less struggle, in order to sit back and enjoy his success, and even once and for all.
Also, in the Jilin murder wife fraud case that caused a sensation throughout the country, the murderer Zhou Jiuwei first bought insurance, and then calmly planned to trick his wife into drowning by the lake.
Behind these selfish men, there is a commonality, that is, they are very good at disguise, and this disguise is very easy to deceive those kind women, especially those who do not have much life experience.
But when this kind of disguise is after marriage, when the other party can't give them the life they yearn for, or when a third party appears, they turn their faces and don't recognize people, which is more terrible than anyone else.
Therefore, in the final analysis, behind every economic account is still a personal account.
The second type is the man who is emotionally angry.
We have written too many human tragedies, so let's see some similarities from them.
In addition to unhappy married life, most of them have the shadow of domestic violence.
But when every man falls in love with you, he will not have the words "domestic violence man" written on his face. On the contrary, many men still look polite and well-educated to outsiders.
is like An Jiahe in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers", maybe only his wife knows how hateful and animalistic he is when he is suspicious.
Therefore, in the eyes of this extreme man, the whole world has to make way for him, and the whole world has to revolve around him, as long as life is slightly unsatisfactory, the people around him are his punching bag.
Therefore, once again, I want to show an attitude, there is only a difference between zero and countless times of domestic violence, don't leave it to chance, let alone look ahead.
If you have children and do not have a stable job, then it is even more important to seek help from all parties as soon as possible so that you can leave this demon as soon as possible.
Otherwise, no one can predict the consequences.
The third type is the irresponsible man.
A man with no sense of responsibility, he doesn't understand what the meaning of living in this world is, he has to get by with everything, and he won't love you and your children.
And a man who is unwilling to be responsible for his wife and children in marriage, how much can you expect him to contribute to this family, he will burn high incense if he doesn't hold you back.
If that's all there is to it, forget it.
What's even more afraid is that this man is still cold-blooded and cruel, and feels that you have no use value for him, especially when something happens to you and you still need him to take care of him, this man will become the most terrible creature in the world.
Because such a man has always lacked love in his original family, he has tried the lack of parents since he was a child, and saw that his parents don't care about him, so for the family, children and wife, it is just a tool.
Therefore, after reading so many family tragedies, I feel more and more that the writer Yan Xiaoyi's sentence is reasonable:
What about talking about marriage? It's better than getting married.
What if you're married? It's better than having children.
What if you have a baby? It's better than taking the rest of your life, all the good years.
Of course, it's not that you are afraid of marriage, after all, these are extreme cases, just to keep your eyes open when choosing a spouse.
In addition, no matter what stage of life we are in, what kind of situation we are in, if we find that we have met the above-mentioned man, we must learn to stop losses in time.
Because every time you forbear, you are a knife handed to your husband.
And the point of sympathy for Ms. Xia is that every man she is looking for has been hit by thunder.
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