In reality, tell your children that if you are not suitable when looking for a partner, you can stop the loss early. There's no need to be too wronged.
Because of the relationship, the longer it drags on, the more reluctant it is to break up. In the end, it is very troublesome.
And he was hurt even more.
You must know that the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Many things in people are not easily changed. Instead of expecting the other person to get better, it is better to daydream less.
Your children, if they receive 3 hints from the object early, then breaking up is a wise choice.
01 In the relationship between men and women, there is a lack of proportion
In reality, when children fall in love and get married, in addition to living a life, they also pay attention to the word "love".
Have affection for each other, and then have restraint on yourself and don't mess around.
A person who lacks proportion in getting along with men and women, you can't expect him to suddenly change his temper and change for the better after marriage.
Most of the time, he will always do the same and not change at all.
Therefore, people who lack sense in this area should stop their losses early.
For example, when some women go on a blind date, they only know each other, and the other party says restless words.
It's like harassment, it's disgusting.
At first glance, the content of the date is with ulterior motives.
This kind of person should stop the loss as soon as possible.
Otherwise, it will be very disgusting to get along.
When the child is looking for a partner, if he finds that the other party is not clear about the proportion of men and women, it is best to stop the loss immediately.
Otherwise, you will regret it very much in the future.
02 There are a lot of things at home
In reality, if we say that when children talk about their partners, the other party's parents begin to be highly involved in the relationship.
Send 100 messages a day, all kinds of instructions and orders, endlessly.
There is no doubt that immediate stop loss is the best choice.
It's not about caring, it's about control.
The other parent, in the matter of the young couple, has a high degree of desire to control.
It will be very troublesome to get along with each other in the future.
For example, when some children just fall in love, the other party's parents repeatedly come forward and start pointing fingers.
How to get along. How to educate each other, there are a lot of rules and regulations.
This kind of parent is a person who is full of control.
In the future, it is simply a sin.
In reality, when children talk about marriage, they must look at each other's parents.
Parents who are messing around, especially love money, or have character problems, can't get along.
03 I only want money, I love money too much
In reality, if a child talks about a partner, at the beginning, the other party frequently mentions economic conditions.
The number and extent of the talks are somewhat exaggerated.
Even in the follow-up, the economic demand was immediately put forward. It doesn't meet the requirements of common sense.
For the most part, the family is more materialistic. There is not even a lack of calculation.
Pay attention to identification.
It's best to keep things in measure.
Otherwise, the conflict after marriage may be very serious.
For example, they are all blind dates, and two people come up and give a general introduction to the conditions, which is natural.
But if the other party didn't say a few words, he began to put forward various conditions.
Even in the process of communication, the lion opens his mouth wide and has various material conditions.
That's it.
It really doesn't fit.
What's the point of interacting with this kind of person, and the other party has fallen into the eyes of money?
Considering the material conditions, there is nothing that is not impossible. But people are different, and the degree of material requirements is also different.
As soon as some people come up, they are just money, so they pull it down as soon as possible.