A member of the Love Heart Reading Club asked me, "Mr. Li, is it difficult for a single man to get rich?"
Li Zhenfang:
I don't know if you've read Kazuo Inamori's book? Kazuo Inamori is amazing, isn't he? He also had a target first, and he was making a fortune. When he was young, he was doing experiments in the laboratory, and when he missed mealtime, a girl brought him a boxed lunch, and later Kazuo Inamori married her. We're looking at Jack Ma, who also started Alibaba after he got married.
I'm talking about celebrities, all of whom are dragons and phoenixes. But they all have characteristics before they get rich, they are not single, and even if they are not married, they have a partner.
We're talking about ordinary people, I'm just a very ordinary person, I'm even worse than ordinary people.
Before I got married, I was poor, playing games, watching movies, after I got married, I stopped playing games, I stopped watching movies, I started reading, studying, writing articles, I started working hard to earn money. After getting married, my fate also got better and better.
Actually, if the man is not married, I don't think the problem is very big, but if there is no partner, it is a big problem. Without a partner, you can't get married, have no offspring, don't have a family, and you'll be slowly marginalized by society.
When a man is young, if he doesn't fall in love a few times and is not deceived by a girl twice, it will be difficult for him to grow up, and it will be even more difficult to see through his feelings.
It is difficult for people who are not in love well to have a good career.
Although falling in love and having a career seem to be two different things, these two things affect each other.
For men, in fact, the relationship between men and women is not very important, because the most important thing for a man is his career, and with a career, he will be qualified to talk about feelings, love, and the relationship between men and women.
Don't believe it, look at those beggars, how many girls are willing to fall in love with him and talk about feelings?
Career is a man's sun, with the sun, he will have the moon and many stars.
However, it is difficult for a man who has not been in a relationship to do a good job in a good career. It's a mutually reinforcing relationship.
You must be dumped twice by a girl when you are young, you must have a love that makes you unforgettable, you have it, you have it, you can settle down, you can understand, what kind of girl is a good girl, what kind of girl is worth cherishing for a lifetime.
I didn't fall in love when I was young, and it was difficult to get married when I was older. It's a truth.
Many men don't want to fall in love and want to get married directly, but for now, this is impossible.
Falling in love is an ability, an opportunity to get to know each other better, and before getting married, the cost of breaking up is low if you find out that each other is not suitable.
If you don't fall in love, you get married in a flash, you basically get out of the way, and the cost is greater. Changing from unmarried to second marriage is a process of depreciation.
A man only needs to cultivate two abilities in this life, the first is the ability to fall in love, and the second is the ability to make money.
These two abilities are indispensable. You can't just think about being in a relationship and not want to make money. You also can't just want to make money and not want to fall in love and get married.
If a man has no experience in love and he still has money, then it may be a disaster for him.