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In the TV series "Cheng Huan Ji", grandma is a special existence. In her own unique and elegant way, she shows that women's blessings are not only related to material conditions, but also closely related to life attitude and inner cultivation.
Here are eight details from my grandmother's life, which may seem ordinary, but they are the true embodiment of a happy life.
Gentle Words:
Grandma always spoke with her family in a soft and kind voice, and even in the face of contradictions and conflicts, her words were full of love and wisdom, creating a harmonious atmosphere for the family.
Mai Chenghuan had a conflict with his mother, ran away from home, and complained when he saw his grandmother: "Now that the family is not a family, the daughter who has raised me for 30 years wants to cut off the relationship with me, the family is gone, and I can't live my life." ”
Grandma didn't blame her mother for being confused, nor did she mention the past, she just whispered: "After all, you are also my family, although I told all of you not to rely on others, but in this situation, if I don't stretch out my hand, others should gossip." ”
Grandma's words were like a gentle drizzle, she let the Mai family live in her own small bungalow, but she also said that it was to reconcile the contradictions between Chenghuan and her mother, so that they could live together as a family.
Confident temperament:
Although my grandmother is very wealthy, she does not wear particularly expensive clothes, but chooses silk with comfortable materials and elegant and simple cheongsam, which naturally exudes nobility and elegance, showing her deep understanding and confidence in herself.
Grandma's self-confidence does not come from expensive clothes, but from inner cultivation and self-worth.
In the play, the grandmother has a straight waist at all times, her silver hair is neatly combed, tied into a ball and coiled behind her head, and all kinds of elegant and decent cheongsams set off the unique temperament of grandma.
Self-care:
Grandma knows how to take care of herself, she will prepare herself a cup of tea, a small snack, a favorite crab to satisfy her taste buds.
Grandma will take care of her flowers and plants every day, enjoy the time of gardening, see the beauty, immerse herself in the fragrance of flowers, and let the mind and eyes bathe in them, these seemingly simple behaviors are actually self-care and respect.
Unimpressed:
Whether it's housework or decision-making, grandma has her own opinions and plans.
Grandma's choice to live alone in a nursing home instead of going to a small bungalow to live with the Mai family is her sobriety and independence, and her independence is not isolated, but an independent life attitude based on self-confidence and ability.
Contentment:
Grandma's life has been full of ups and downs, two marriages, she has been abandoned, she has been deeply loved, she works hard, lives well, she knows how to cherish everything she has.
Grandma is content with simple pleasures, a good meal, a cup of hot tea, a trip, are all the joy of her life, and she lives every day happily.
This casual mindset allows grandma to enjoy every moment of her life and pass on the same happiness to her family.
The Wisdom of Solitude:
In the lively atmosphere of the family, grandma also knows how to find her own moments of tranquility.
Grandma enjoys the occasional company of her two grandchildren, but she doesn't depend on anyone, she has her own things to do, and being alone makes her more at ease.
Grandma is an energetic person, her face is always filled with a faint smile, the lonely old man has nothing to do with her at all, she is an independent heroine.
Grandma showed us the beauty of being alone, enjoying the peace and strength of being alone, drinking tea alone or talking to nature.
Times:
Grandma's cuteness is to keep learning and be able to accept new things, Chenghuan broke up and told grandma, and grandma comforted her directly: "Bye bye, bye, the next one will be more well-behaved."
Grandma and young people have a common language, and she not only maintains traditional virtues, but also actively embraces modern culture. She understands the language of the internet, engages in trendy conversations, and shows the vitality to keep up with the times, regardless of age.
A change of mindset:
In the face of changes in life, grandma can always maintain an optimistic attitude. She knows how to find opportunities for growth from setbacks and turn negative emotions into positive energy.
Grandma took her grandson Yao Zhiming to see the trees he planted with his grandmother when he was a child, but he didn't expect Yao Zhiming to forget, and grandma was very disappointed.
But the grandmother didn't show it, the grandmother knew that the purpose of her grandson's visit to her was not pure, and she understood that her grandson had become an indifferent person because of the lack of warmth in his original family.
Grandma knew that Yao Zhiming had a "suffering child" living in his heart, so she let him get in touch with Mai Chenghuan more, let him feel the warmth of his family, and slowly make Yao Zhiming more humane.
Cheng Huan will find her grandmother when she encounters anything, and her grandmother can always explain her, give her direction, and let her no longer be confused, which can be said to be a beacon on the road of her life.
These eight details are not only a portrayal of grandma's happy life, but also something that every woman can pursue and achieve. Let yourself and the people around you live better and better.
Happiness is not out of reach, it is hidden in the bits and pieces of daily life. When we begin to pay attention to and nurture these details, we will find that blessings are not far away, but in our hearts, waiting for us to discover, cherish, and create.