1
When I got home on the weekend, I saw my dad eating alone, and I asked where my mom had gone?
I patted him on the shoulder as a sign of comfort.
Speaking of my mother, she is good at everything, but she cares too much about her mother's affairs. Once her mother's family called her for something, she was the first to rush to the front.
According to my father's exaggeration, even if my uncle's toilet broke, she would go over to see what was going on.
My dad has quarreled with her for several years about these things: Isn't it okay if your mother's family doesn't have you?
My mother has a stalk in her neck, saying that she is the eldest sister, how can she not care if her mother has something to do?
Makes my dad so angry.
My uncle has two older sisters, and his parents have spoiled his sisters since he was a child. My aunt went to another place after marriage, and my uncle has been counting on my mother ever since.
But the point is, my uncle's family seemed to take it for granted that my family would help out, but I never saw them reciprocate anything.
There was even one time when we went to visit, but my aunt was reluctant to kill even a chicken, saying that it was kept to lay eggs.
Could it be that my family's efforts over the years are not even worthy of eating a chicken? This should be the reason why my father is angry and doesn't want my mother to take care of my uncle's house anymore.
"Your mom is crazy, and I think they're ungrateful white-eyed wolves. When my dad said this, he hated iron but not steel.
2
It was almost dark when my mother came back, and I asked her, hadn't you been to my uncle's house a few days ago?
She said, "Your cousin is going to marry a daughter-in-law, and I have to keep an eye on such a big happy event." ”
I was speechless, and I didn't know that I thought you were marrying your daughter-in-law? I asked her again, how much are you going to seal the red envelope?
My mother opened her mouth and said that it was 6800, and I was startled, thinking that I had heard it wrong. You know, when I got married, my uncle gave me 1800.
I thought she could take out an extra 1,000 and pack 2800, but my mother actually said 6800.
My dad and I insisted on disagreeing, and she gave up. But I didn't expect that this 2800 also provoked my uncle to "ask the teacher for guilt".
After my cousin's wedding, we arrived home on the front foot when my uncle called.
He asked my mother why she only sealed the red envelope for 2800, or was she from the city!
I was so angry that I grabbed the phone and scolded him. The uncle was dumbfounded and hung up the phone.
In the blink of an eye, my aunt told me about it in the family group, saying that my mother, as an aunt, has a pension of several thousand, and my nephew is only 2800 when she gets married, and she is embarrassed to take it out?
At this time, some relatives jumped out and said that we were really not kind enough, and we had to start at least 5,000 with my family's conditions.
I couldn't help but reply: "Auntie, when you came to borrow money, why didn't you say that my family was stingy? Today, the red envelope didn't meet your requirements, so you said all kinds of bad things about us, and you are embarrassed?"
My dad was right, they were so ungrateful! My mom had helped them so many times before, and I didn't see them jump out and preach it once.
Today, because the red envelope did not satisfy their greed. It was too much for them to slander my mother instead of being gracious.
But my mother blamed me for being ignorant and contradicting the elders, saying that if I sealed 6800, it would be fine. I was so angry that I ignored her for a few days.
3
A month later, I was busy rushing to catch up with the client's information when I received a call from the property management office. He said, "My empty house is on fire."
I was so frightened that my feet went limp, but then I thought, I didn't even live in that house, how could it catch fire for no reason? Could it be a mistake? But the staff said yes, my mother came over.
I couldn't care about anything anymore, so I picked up my bag and left.
As soon as I entered the room, I was so frightened that the walls of the hall were blackened, and half of the high-end sofa was burned. I was distressed, but thankfully I didn't hurt anyone.
Suddenly I saw my cousin and his wife in the house, and when I looked at my mom again, I instantly understood.
Before, my aunt and uncle asked me to borrow a house from my cousin to live in for two months, but I didn't agree.
It must have been my mom who kept my cousin in from me. Seeing that my face was stretched long, the little two ran away as soon as they took a puff of smoke.
The point is, I haven't asked my cousin to compensate for the loss, but my uncle and aunt have come to us first.
It turned out that my cousin's wife had just become pregnant, and after smoking a few puffs of cigarettes, she said that she was uncomfortable. When my mother heard this, she was so frightened that she ran straight to the hospital, and she didn't forget to pull me up.
As soon as my uncle saw me, he pointed at my nose and scolded, saying that there must be a problem with my socket that caused the fire.
I just hehe, it's obviously a counterfeit charger used by his baby son, and he didn't pull it out after charging, which caused an accident, and I'm embarrassed to blame me. I haven't asked them to pay me yet?
My mom was afraid that I would make a big fuss in the hospital, and it would not be good, so she quickly pushed me out. immediately said that she would serve her cousin's wife in the hospital these days.
I was speechless, my mother was really a good aunt of twenty-four filial piety! My father was so angry that he asked me to leave her alone.
I haven't intervened yet, and in less than two days, my mother has completely fallen out with my uncle's family.
4
It turned out that her uncle's family regarded her as a nurse and disliked her for being clumsy.
My cousin's wife also told my aunt that if she had a house in the city, she would not be so unlucky to suffer in the hospital.
The uncle and aunt were afraid of the child in their daughter-in-law's womb and didn't dare to let out a fart.
But they poured out their anger on my mother: "If you hadn't lived in your daughter's house, you wouldn't have to suffer here." It's all your fault!"
Anyway, they hated that the water my mother poured was too hot, and counted her down again.
My mother was already aggrieved, and when she saw the strange eyes of other patients, she couldn't hold it anymore, threw down the cup and left.
Before leaving, my mother put aside her cruel words: "If you have something to do in the future, don't look for me!"
After returning home, my mother complained with snot and tears, and she scolded my uncle's family for being white-eyed wolves: "I kindly lent them the house, but instead of being grateful to Dade, they even threw the pot on our family."
In the past two days, I have been working hard in the hospital, and they still think I can't do well, I really have no conscience!"
Now, my mother finally believed my father's words and saw the true face of my uncle's family. After that, she came to her senses and no longer bothered with my uncle's affairs.
5
But people took the initiative to come to the door, and my uncle's words sounded good: they are all a family, and there is no overnight feud. A few days later, his eldest grandson was full moon, and he invited us to drink wine.
Anyone with a discerning eye knows what he has in mind and wants us to give us gifts. My mother once said that when my cousin has a child in the future, she will give me a pair of gold bracelets, and it seems that they have a really good memory.
My dad teased my mom and asked, how much does it cost to seal this time? Do you want to buy a gold bracelet? My mom took the phone directly and said that it was enough to send 200 red envelopes, and the money they owed hadn't been repaid yet!
After the red envelope was sent, my mother added a full moon wine and didn't have time to drink it.
After my uncle clicked on it, there was no more follow-up. Didn't you say that you would invite us to a wedding drink? Why didn't you even say a word?
My uncle's family is in trouble, and as relatives, we should help. But what is the result? In exchange for not gratitude, but hurt again and again.
As for the house, my mother didn't even sign a contract with them, and she only considered her unlucky. Let the uncle's family compensate, it is more difficult than ascending to the sky.
But it is not too much of a loss to be able to exchange my mother's sobriety and let her see the true face of her uncle's family.